Dutch Give Gays Unprecedented Marriage Rights

T H E  H A G U E, Netherlands, Sept. 12, 2000 -- The Netherlands, long among the gay rights vanguard, enacted a bill converting the country’s“registered same-sex partnerships” into full-fledged marriages,complete with divorce guidelines and wider adoption rights forgays.

Proponents say the legislation will give Dutch gays rightsbeyond those offered in any other country.

Lawmakers thumped their desks in approval when the vote passed109-33, and some of the scores of witnesses in the packed publicgallery applauded and embraced.

Parliament had discussed the bill last week, when only a fewsmall Christian parties voiced opposition during an emotional andoften heated three-day debate. It gained speedy approval today.

“I’m very happy. What happened today represents changes in oursociety,” said Mark Wagenbuur, 34. He said he and his partner, whocame with him to watch the vote, will now formally wed, but theirimmediate problem is “we don’t know who should ask whom.”

‘Full Equality’

In Norway and Sweden, gay couples can already register theirpartnerships and Denmark has gone a step further — it was the firstcountry to allow gay marriages in 1989. Two years ago, theNetherlands enacted a law allowing same-sex couples to register aspartners and to claim pensions, social security and inheritance.

But the new Dutch legislation goes farther, creating fullequality for gays, activists said.

Same-sex couples will be able to marry at city hall and adoptDutch children. They will be able to divorce through the courtsystem, like heterosexual couples.

Boris Dittrich, a member of the centrist Democrats 66 party anda proponent of the plan, said the law “acknowledges that aperson’s sex is not of importance for marriage.” He spoke duringwhat he called “the most moving debate” of his parliamentarycareer.

“We will be able to call it what it is and that’s marriage,”said Henk Krol, an activist and editor-in-chief of the Gay Krantmagazine. He said the vote “will be an absolute first in theworld.”

The law is expected to take effect early next year. Krol said heplans to convert his own partnership status to marriage as soon asit does.

Political Parties’ Opinion United

Displaying unusual solidarity, all three parliamentary factionsin the governing coalition — the left-of-center Labor Party, theLiberal VVD and the smaller Democrats 66 — backed the proposal.Even a few members of the biggest opposition party, the largelytraditional Christian Democratic Alliance, or CDA, have expressedsupport.

The plan hasn’t been recognized by the dominant Protestant orRoman Catholic churches, but a few breakaway churches have sentencouraging letters to legislators.

The Remonstrant Brethren, which broke from the Protestant churchin 1619, was one step ahead of the Dutch parliament, havingaccepted gay marriages in 1986. The Remonstrants and a group calledthe Old Catholic Church are the best-known supporters of gay rightshere.

While gays will enjoy new liberties in the Netherlands, they mayrun into trouble when they travel in countries where homosexualityremains illegal. The Foreign Affairs Ministry has proposed offeringlegal assistance to Dutch citizens in such cases.

Some opponents fear the unique position of gays could isolatethe Dutch and set the Netherlands apart.

The bill will create “a world without foundations … where thehistorical understanding of marriage is torn from its roots,” saidKees van der Straaij of the Reformed Political Party.