Ex-Dolphins cheerleader alleges religious and gender discrimination: 'They brought up my virginity'

"I was told that I wasn't allowed to mention God," said Kristan Ware.

April 13, 2018, 2:38 PM

A former Miami Dolphins cheerleader has filed a complaint alleging religious and gender discrimination by the cheerleading team and the National Football League.

Kristan Ware, a Dolphins cheerleader for three seasons beginning in 2014, claims she was held to "different standards than the male football players" regarding her outward expression of her Christian faith.

Ware said she felt compelled to quit a couple of weeks prior to the end of her contract in spring 2017 and did not try out for the another annual contract because she felt "she was just not accepted on the team if she was a Christian," according to the complaint filed this week with the Florida State Labor Board.

Ware says in the complaint that although she was co-captain of the cheerleading team and a fan favorite she suffered harassment from some representatives of the squad because of her social media postings about her faith andafter it became known that she was a virgin and planned to remain so until marriage.

Ware contends problems began after she posted a photo of her April 10, 2016, baptism on her public Twitter, Instagram and Facebook pages.

Kristan Ware, a Miami Dolphins cheerleader, has filed a complaint against the National Football League alleging religious and gender discrimination.
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"I got sat down in an interview with my director and my coaches and they brought up my virginity, which was kind of shocking to me," Ware told ABC News.

Ware said she had not publicized her decision to wait to have sex until marriage but that the topic had come up months earlier, in fall 2015, during a conversation with fellow Dolphins cheerleaders in front of other staff.

The Dolphins responded to Ware's complaint in a statement to ABC News on Friday: “We are seriously committed to providing a positive work environment for everyone associated with the organization. We hold every member of our organization to the same standards and do not discriminate as it relates to gender, race and religious beliefs.”

Ware alleges in her complaint that in her annual tryout-interview in spring 2016, she was told her she was "not allowed to speak about anything related to her virginity to anyone" and that she "needed to develop into a woman."

A few months later, in September 2016, the cheerleading director and coaches told the co-captains, captains and some other cheerleaders that they could change their Instagram accounts to Dolphin Instagram accounts "under certain conditions," Ware alleges in the complaint, adding that they were told that on their Dolphin Instagram accounts, they were talk about "fashion and fitness and cheerleading."

Ware claims that when she said she wanted to continue "share her faith, post Bible verses and to be a role model for little girls" on Instagram, she was told by one of the coaches that "you cannot be 'too much, you cannot mention Jesus or anything like that.'"

The complaint further alleges that a month after the discussion about Instagram, the cheerleading director became physically aggressive with Ware at a fashion show for the Dolphins.

After Ware went to human resources about the alleged mistreatment, the harassment became more pervasive, she says in the complaint.

Miami Dolphins cheerleader Kristan Ware performs during a game against the Indianapolis Colts at Sun Life Stadium, Dec. 27, 2015, in Miami Gardens, Fla.
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During the course of the 2016-17 season, Ware said she became depressed and anxious because of the treatment by her supervisors and began taking medication

The breaking point came in April 2017 after Ware was asked by the Dolphins to write a motivational blog post for women trying out for the cheerleading team, and some of her allusions to her faith in the post were removed.

"I was told that I wasn't allowed to mention God and what really broke my heart is seeing how public football players can be about their faith," Ware told ABC News.

"Dolphin football players are allowed to maintain and express their faith in any way," the complaint alleges. "Several players prayed on the 50-yard line before a game. They profess their faith online, on social media, to fellow players, to the public ... with complete freedom."

Ware's allegations follow a complaint filed last month by another former NFL cheerleader, Bailey Davis, who was with the New Orleans Saints cheering squad.

Davis alleges in her complaint to the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission that she was fired on Jan. 23, 2018, for posting a photo of herself on Instagram wearing a one-piece bodysuit, breaking a rule that prohibits cheerleaders from posting revealing images on social media, a rule which her complaint says does not apply to men.

Kristan Ware, a Miami Dolphins cheerleader, at a press conference in Rio de Janeiro, March 1, 2016.
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"I obviously want equal rules for the players and cheerleaders, I want to be treated like a professional athlete just like the professional football players are treated like professional football players," Davis told ABC affiliate WPVI-TV Philadelphia last month.

The Saints deny that Davis was discriminated against because she is female.

"The New Orleans Saints is an equal opportunity employer, and it denies that Ms. Davis was discriminated against because she is female," the NFL organization said in a statement to ABC News. "The Saints will defend these allegations in due course and in the appropriate forum, and the Organization is confident that its policies and workplace rules will withstand legal scrutiny.”

Bailey Davis a Saints cheerleader perform at the Mercedes-Benz Superdome, Sept. 17, 2017, in New Orleans.
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In response to the recent cheerleader complaints, the NFL told ABC News in a statement: "The NFL and all NFL member clubs support fair employment practices. Everyone who works in the NFL, including cheerleaders, has the right to work in a positive and respectful environment that is free from any and all forms of harassment and discrimination and fully complies with state and federal laws. Our office will work with our clubs in sharing best practices and employment-related processes that will support club cheerleading squads within an appropriate and supportive workplace."

ABC News' Alyssa Acquavella contributed to this report.

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