San Diego synagogue shooting victim laid to rest as suspect's family calls his actions 'evil'

One woman died and three people were injured in the Saturday morning shooting.

April 29, 2019, 6:33 PM

Grieving family and friends gathered Monday at the funeral for Lori Gilbert-Kaye, a 60-year-old woman shot dead Saturday at the Chabad of Poway synagogue in San Diego County.

Meanwhile, the family of the 19-year-old suspected gunman is speaking out, saying, "to our great shame, he is now part of the history of evil that has been perpetrated on Jewish people for centuries."

Gilbert-Kaye was at the synagogue with her husband and daughter for a memorial service in honor of her mother, who recently died, Rabbi Yisroel Goldstein told reporters.

PHOTO: Lori Gilbert-Kaye in an undated photo.
Lori Gilbert-Kaye in an undated photo.
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When the shooting broke out, Gilbert-Kaye was in the lobby, while her friend, Rochelle Schwartz, was in the sanctuary with Gilbert-Kaye's daughter.

"I just remember getting her down and covering her with my body and telling her, 'Please be quiet. I don't want the shooter to know that we're here,'" Schwartz told ABC News. "She was just so brave."

Once the gunfire ended, Schwartz and Gilbert-Kaye's husband and daughter rushed to the lobby.

"It was horrific," Schwartz said.

Gilbert’s daughter, Hannah, described her “extraordinary, dear mother” as her best friend and dancing partner. Hannah wore one of her mother’s pink dresses to the service to honor her “colorful” personality and cried as she recalled anecdotes about her.

“We are magic together,” she said of their relationship.

PHOTO: Attendees at the funeral for Lori Kaye, who was killed when a gunman opened fire inside the Chabad of Poway synagogue in Poway, Calif., pass by a photo of Kaye, April 29, 2019, inside the synagogue.
Attendees at the funeral for Lori Kaye, who was killed when a gunman opened fire inside the Chabad of Poway synagogue in Poway, Calif., pass by a photo of Kaye, April 29, 2019, inside the synagogue.
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Another loved one described Gilbert as having “a soul that was greater than any of us ever could believe.”

The man, who said he tried to give Gilbert CPR after the shooting, said she died quickly and “did not suffer.”

Three others were injured in the attack in the synagogue's lobby during Saturday morning services, on the last day of Passover.

PHOTO:Signs of support and flowers adorn a post in front of the Chabad of Poway synagogue, April 29, 2019, in Poway, Calif.
Signs of support and flowers adorn a post in front of the Chabad of Poway synagogue, April 29, 2019, in Poway, Calif.
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"Lori is really a pillar of the community. She has the most generous, kind heart," Schwartz said, overcome with emotion. "We're gonna miss her. She's a very special person. And I just pray that this never happens again. We have to work on education and we have to stop this insanity. It's just so tragic."

"We're gonna go back to services," Schwartz added. "We're gonna show that were strong enough to just continue and not let this get to us."

PHOTO: Executive Director Rabbi Ysrael Goldstein, who was shot in the hands, walks towards a press conference with Poway Mayor Steve Vaus outside of the Chabad of Poway Synagogue on April 28, 2019 in Poway, Calif.
Executive Director Rabbi Ysrael Goldstein, who was shot in the hands, walks towards a press conference with Poway Mayor Steve Vaus outside of the Chabad of Poway Synagogue on April 28, 2019 in Poway, Calif.
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PHOTO: Mourners wait to attend a funeral service for Lori Gilbert-Kaye, the woman killed in a shooting at Chabad of Poway near San Diego, Calif., April 29, 2019.
Mourners wait to attend a funeral service for Lori Gilbert-Kaye, the woman killed in a shooting at Chabad of Poway near San Diego, Calif., April 29, 2019.
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As the shocked community comes together in grief, the suspected gunman, 19-year-old John Earnest, has been charged with: one count of murder with a hate crime special circumstance and gun allegations; three counts of attempted murder with hate crime and gun allegations; and arson of a house of worship. Earnest has been linked to a recent arson blaze at a nearby mosque, according to a law enforcement source.

About five minutes before Saturday's shooting, the FBI said it received online and phone tips about an anonymous, threatening post online. The shooting was carried out before a suspect could be identified, the FBI said.

Earnest's family said in a statement, "How our son was attracted to such darkness is a terrifying mystery to us, though we are confident that law enforcement will uncover many details of the path that he took to this evil and despicable act."

"He has killed and injured the faithful who were gathered in a sacred place on a sacred day," the family said. "Our son's actions were informed by people we do not know, and ideas we do not hold. Like our other five children, he was raised in a family, a faith, and a community that all rejected hate and taught that love must be the motive for everything we do."

PHOTO: Community members and congregants attend a candlelight vigil for the victim of the Chabad of Poway Synagogue shooting, April 28, 2019 in Poway, Calif.
Community members and congregants attend a candlelight vigil for the victim of the Chabad of Poway Synagogue shooting, April 28, 2019 in Poway, Calif.
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"Our heavy hearts will forever go out to the victims and survivors," the family said, "And we pray for peace."

The Florida Senate on Monday passed an anti-Semitism bill, prohibiting religious discrimination in Florida's public education system. The law would call for school administrators to combat anti-Semitism in the same way they address religious discrimination, according to The Miami Herald.

ABC News' Matt Gutman, Josh Margolin, Alex Stone and Bill Hutchinson contributed to this report.

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