“It was wonderful,” Nancy Curtis told ABC's Amy Robach in a sit-down interview. “Usually, he doesn’t have a lot to say to me, you know, typical guy… [but] he was so over-the-top excited. I think, obviously, he has to decompress. He has been through so much, so many terrible things I don’t know about, and don’t really want to know about.”
Curtis' release comes as U.S. officials say they are closing in on the ISIS executioner who killed Foley. Prior to his death, Foley had been held hostage by ISIS for two years. The days after learning of Foley’s execution were “excruciating,” Nancy Curtis said.
“It was a real roller coaster,” she said. “I was getting words of reassurance but when I didn’t hear something. I worried something would go wrong. In Theo’s case, it turned out all right.”
When her son left for Syria, Curtis said she first realized something was wrong when she got an email from him that simply said, “Hey,” but didn't include a message. Then she didn’t hear from him again until nine months later, when a photojournalist who made a harrowing escape through a window in a cell he shared with Curtis revealed the first information about their long captivity.
“There was nobody there to push [Theo]," Nancy Curtis said. "They were alone in the cell, and [the photojournalist] stood on his shoulders. There was a window high up and he tried but there was nobody there to give him a shove.”
The family and U.S. officials then demanded Curtis’ captors show proof that he was still alive, sending questions that only he would be able to answer and wouldn’t be easily found on the Internet.
“I was struggling because you don’t know all these intimate details about your son’s life when he’s 45,” Nancy Curtis said. “Then I remembered, ‘what was the subject of your PhD dissertation, what museum did you write about.’ … and it came back, ‘the Western Museum,’ and I thought, ‘Yes, that’s right, and nobody would know that. It was very exciting.”
Previously, Curtis said she had received a video of her son begging for his life.
Then, this weekend, Curtis got word her son was free.
“I got a call from the FBI agent and she said, ‘Nancy, your son is standing beside me right now, and he’s free,’” Curtis said, recalling the moment she learned of her son’s release.
Once she knew her son was free, Curtis said she emailed James Foley’s mother, Diane Foley, right away.
“The first thing I did, even before I told my daughter, I sat down and sent an email to Diane Foley," Curtis said. "We’ve been through so much together and I didn’t want her to hear it from the media first.”
There are at least three other Americans being held hostage in Syria, and Curtis said knowing their families are still waiting for word about their loved ones makes her son’s homecoming bittersweet.
“I relieved about Theo but I can’t rejoice,” she said. “I know the Foleys and have met the other families I know about their kids.”
Theo Curtis will be back on U.S. soil in a few days, and his mother said the first thing she’ll do when she is reunited with her son is to “give him a big hug and probably cry," she said.
"And he'll probably cry."