Oct 26, 2011 10:25am

Chaz Bono: ‘Dancing With the Stars’ Judges Treat Overweight Men, Women Differently

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Transgender activist Chaz Bono made a graceful exit from the ballroom Tuesday night, but didn’t hide his anger when it came to the judges’ critiques of his dancing, calling comments comparing him to an animal “disrespectful.”

“I got a lot of references from him [Judge Bruno Tonioli] about things that would indicate the fact that I’m overweight, you know, a roundness. I was called a basketball, a penguin, an Ewok, and I just didn’t appreciate it,” Bono said today on “Good Morning America.” “If you want to critique my dancing and give me some constructive advice so I can try to improve the next time that I’m there, that would be great. But I don’t really know how to be less penguish, and so I kind of took offense to that.”

Tonioli compared Bono to a penguin after his Broadway-inspired “Phantom of the Opera” tango this week, and previously to a “little Ewok” dancing with Princess Leia.

Bono said on “GMA” that he believed he was penalized by the judges for being an overweight man versus an overweight woman on the show. His professional partner, Lacey Schwimmer, took issue with the judges’ inconsistency and agreed that the animal comparisons were simply “unnecessary.”

“It’s hard to take this competition seriously when the judges are so inconsistent,” she said on “GMA,” “At the same time, we went out there and did what we needed to do and did it well and had a great time doing it.”

 

Bono, 42, was the low scorer of the pack with 19 points out of a possible 30 for his tango. He and World Cup star Hope Solo had both been in jeopardy, but Bono received the lowest in combined audience and judges’ votes.

Bono and Schwimmer aren’t the only contenders who have taken issue with the judges’ criticism.

Pro Maksim Chmerkovskiy, whose dance with Solo got bad reviews from judge Len Goodman, lashed out at the judges Monday night, causing an uproar for telling Goodman to “get out” of the business and for calling “DWTS” “his show.

Chmerkovskiy, who appeared on “GMA” today, stood by his comments about the judges, telling Robin Roberts that he has “nothing to apologize for.” Read the full story here.

Bono diplomatically weighed in on the controversy, saying, “Everybody has the right to speak their mind.”

Six stars remain in the competition, including Chmerkovskiy’s partner, Hope Solo, actor David Arquette,  reality-TV personality Rob Kardashian, actor J.R. Martinez, former talk-show host Ricki Lake and TV host Nancy Grace.

Who does Bono think is the best dancer?

“J.R., all the way,” Bono said and Schwimmer echoed.

“I love everybody on the cast. … For me, it can’t be about personalities because I love everyone. So I have to pick who I think is the best dancer and for me it’s always, from the beginning of the competition, been J.R.,” he said.

For Bono, his “Dancing With the Stars” journey has been a period of personal growth and bonding with his famous mom, Cher, who rooted for her son and rallied her supporters on Twitter throughout the competition.

“This was something my mom and I could really have common ground on because this is something that she knows what it feels like to go out and perform in front of an audience,” Bono said.

“This experience really exceeded any expectations that I had and was something that will probably forever affect my life. It gave me a confidence in myself that I didn’t have before and a physical awareness, and a knowledge that I can do more than I thought I could, and I get through a lot.”

To watch Chaz Bono’s journey on the show, head over to abc.com for the video highlights

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I THINK MR BONO HAS A LOT OF CLASS TO REACT IN THE NICE WAY HE DID AFTER BEING COMPARED TO AN ANIMAL. CAN’T PERSONAL REMARKS NOT BE ALLOWED BY THE JUDGES? CHAZ WAS RIGHT, DON’T JUDGE HIM BECAUSE HE IS VERY HEAVY. HE’S NOT BLIND, AND SEES EVERYDAY HIS BODY.

Posted by: BETHANY JACOBSON | October 26, 2011, 11:03 am 11:03 am

I’ve watched judges judge everything from food to dancing and I wonder how they even get picked. Most are snarly and down right mean. It’s like they enjoy putting people down.

Posted by: GINNY | October 26, 2011, 11:04 am 11:04 am

Chaz Bono can’t dance. PERIOD. Stop blaming the judges for your inability to dance. Stop capitalizing on your sex change as a reason to win the contest. The show is called “Dancing with the Stars”, so you will be judged based on your dancing! As for the comments that compares you to animals. I could see where Bruno is coming from and I believe that most of those comments are done for the show so it can attract more attention and to make is not boring especially after watching someone like her DANCE. I always look forward to what the judges have to say.

Posted by: Luis | October 26, 2011, 11:24 am 11:24 am

Not very many out of shape, overweight people are known for their dancing skills. You can be overweight and have some muscle control and perhaps still dance. You can’t be overweight, soft around the middle and have no strength in your overweight legs and dance. That’s the bottom line. (Pardon the pun.)

Posted by: Caroline | October 26, 2011, 11:25 am 11:25 am

Chastity is trying to make himself/herself famous on the coattails of two very talented parents who “back in the day” were just wonderful and provided some great music and talent to millions of Americans. Children of celebrities can’t automatically be worshiped and adored by their parents’ fan base. They have to earn their way. Bono so far has not shown any talent. Except he/she gets an “A” in whining.

Posted by: Caroline | October 26, 2011, 11:30 am 11:30 am

In the breath…

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the sunshine
in the middle
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thought, you
live with a
certain idea.

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Posted by: Francesco Sinibaldi | October 26, 2011, 11:32 am 11:32 am

Awe. Poor baby Chaz. Has s/he just come to realize that fat people get treated shabbily in this world? Puhleeze. Fat people all over north America are discriminated against, abused, mocked, isolated, shunned, and treated worse than any ethnicity, sexual preference or confused gender is. Being fat is the only thing left that is socially acceptable (even encouraged) to discriminate against. Most fatties have it much worse than rich little gender confused ewoks like our Chaz. Time to get over yourself.

Posted by: Zach Swan | October 26, 2011, 11:58 am 11:58 am

” But I don’t really know how to be less penguish, and so I kind of took offense to that.”

How about you stop stuffing your face???!!!

BTW, you are NOT an overweight man. You are an overweight woman with mutilated genitals.

Posted by: Michael | October 26, 2011, 12:13 pm 12:13 pm

First of all, ABC shouldn’t select any one who is overweight. We want to see beautiful people on the screen. They (overweight people shouldn’t enter that kind of show. They are giving the jusges and the audiences a chance to redicule them. I feel sorry for them. I would never enter that kind of show no matter how much they offer me. ABC should only pick the real star.

Posted by: Myra | October 26, 2011, 12:33 pm 12:33 pm

Perhaps if Chaz had put a little more effort in when she was on Celebrity Fit Club, her weight wouldn’t be an issue now. I think staying off reality tv shows might be a good idea.

Posted by: Agingdiscoqueen | October 26, 2011, 12:40 pm 12:40 pm

Chaz Bono is not an ‘overweight male”. This thing is not a male. Chaz Bono is a mutilated freak female.

Posted by: Frank Blourtango | October 26, 2011, 12:41 pm 12:41 pm

Everybody’s got a gripe or excuse these days. These people should just get over it and realize that life is NOT fair and they are NOT important in the scheme of things. Maybe they should visit a hospital with children with cancer — or anybody with a serious health problem, to get a perspective of life. Stop the whining!! Move on!!

Posted by: jonnie | October 26, 2011, 1:06 pm 1:06 pm

Quit making excuses “Chaz”. You just can’t dance.

Posted by: msyellarose | October 26, 2011, 1:20 pm 1:20 pm

Get over the criticism Chaz. Welcome to reality. I do not agree about the name calling but stop whining and go on with life.

Posted by: Laoshir | October 26, 2011, 1:28 pm 1:28 pm

Jonah hil, I mean chaz bono is a chick.

Posted by: david | October 26, 2011, 1:36 pm 1:36 pm

She is NOT a man. She is an overweight female that did not lose much/any weight. Maybe the testosterone wouldn’t allow the weight to come off. Women are NOT suppose to have that much testosterone in their system. Women and Men are genetically different. They gain/lose weight in different ways depending on metabolism and body chemistry. Before I get slammed…Everyone has a right to live the lifestyle they so choose…doesn’t mean I want to see a “family show” pushing an agenda.

I agree the so called “name calling” is uncalled for. I agree the judges have their favorites and their “criticism” is expressed as such and as professionals they need not to be biased. I like Derek and think he is an amazing dancer but how can they continue to praise his choreography week after week and not Karina’s ? They love the routine…but just stop short of telling her amazing choreography. Derek is the only one that gets that remark. Maks was right to stand up and defend Hope. Nancy gets a “9″ for completing her routine and Hope gets a “6″ for leading with her heal instead of her toe. Come on…get consistent. Neither one is THAT much better/worse than the other.

On a another note could someone please explain to me what the term “gender reassignment” surgery means ? I was under the impression that it meant that anatomically/physically changing from hole to pole or pole to hole (I heard that used one time). However, she has said she had her breasts removed but from the waist down is still female. So..could it be said that any female that has a mastectomy has had “gender reassignment” surgery ?

Chaz could NOT dance and it was way past time for her to go.

Posted by: s^2C | October 26, 2011, 2:03 pm 2:03 pm

Snide comments aside, Chaz’s dancing on Monday was not the best, it was the worst, and the elimination was appropriate.

It took long enough, but I guess they had to be 1000% instead of 100% sure about it.

Chaz did look like a penguin because of the tuxedo and short steps ~ nothing else.

Every season cheap shots are handed out, nothing new and it will not stop.

Posted by: Susan | October 26, 2011, 2:39 pm 2:39 pm

Snide comments aside, Chaz’s dancing on Monday was not the best, it was the worst, and the elimination was appropriate.

It took long enough, but I guess they had to be 1000% instead of 100% sure about it.

Chaz did look like a penguin because of the tuxedo and short steps ~ nothing else.

Every season cheap shots are handed out, nothing new and it will not stop.

Posted by: Susan | October 26, 2011, 2:42 pm 2:42 pm

Where in the world do you people get the idea that Chaz is commenting on his dancing ability (by his own admission he knows he wasn’t the best dancer) or his weight. It’s about simple, common courtesy – a judge should never, ever call a human being who has taken the risk to compete an animal. It is absolutely uncalled for and shows where that judge came from – perhaps Bruno is still smarting from the bullies he knew when a child in his hometown, who knows. Regardless, this is purported to be a FAMILY show and people like Bruno teach our children that it’s OK to call people who are different (weght comparison only) than us pejorative terms and liken people to an animal. Also the infighting while the judges may think it’s cute it’s rude and sets a poor example for our children.

Posted by: MyMaxie | October 26, 2011, 2:44 pm 2:44 pm

Chaz should have been voted off way before last night. He can’t dance period! All he did was whine – and – continues to whine.

Posted by: irishrose | October 26, 2011, 2:47 pm 2:47 pm

I love Dancing With the Stars HOWEVER all the name calling and remarks regarding one’s appearance is totally unnecessary. Do I think Chaz deserved to be there this long – no – but apparently had enough votes to keep him ( I think that is how the show works). Have not like some of the remarks made toward his appearance – they are to judge their dancing – even telling Hope she needs to walk like a girl wasn’t needed – why can’t they just say she needs to walk sexier.. Max is always controversial – but I do like that he stood up for his partner and their work. When he made his comments “It is my show” I understood what he meant – but knew it would not be understood by all. Why don’t we just start over – judges – please judge on the dance – not how hard they worked or didn’t work or how they look.(don’t make it so obvious who you love – come on Bruno – you can be sickening with your comments). Max – calm down and show the judges what Hope can do! Love it when the public sticks it in the judges faces!

Posted by: Dee | October 26, 2011, 2:47 pm 2:47 pm

And, Chaz is a true class act, I agree with Bethany. He has always been polite, gracious with the judge even in the midst of their scathing commentary. It’s possible to give feedback without denigrating a person’s appearance. Notice comments were all about appearance not dancing…I didn’t know this was a beauty contest.

Posted by: M&M | October 26, 2011, 2:56 pm 2:56 pm

Every year this show has a so-called celebrities that are designed to get niche groups of Americans to watch the show. Ironically, for the past couple seasons these “celebs” have really been freak show children of real celebrities. The only reason Sarah Palin’s daughter stayed on the show as long as she did was because of the right-wing nut jobs that wanted to make a statement. This year it was the LGBT crowd making their voices heard by keeping their patron saint on the show longer than he/she should have been.

That may be tough for little Palin and Chazerdoodle to hear, but that’s the role for which they signed up.

Posted by: JC O'Dwyer | October 26, 2011, 3:00 pm 3:00 pm

If it bothered Chaz so much then why wait to say anything until after he/she was voted off? Why not just speak you mind when the comments were made? Coward I quess. The publilicity now that is over is why, keep crap in the news

Posted by: Brenda | October 26, 2011, 3:35 pm 3:35 pm

Like Jimmy Kimmel told Chaz last night, “take it like a man.”

If you are going to be a man, you better take in on the chin, and move on.

I hope this DWTS experience gave Chaz a different perspective, so she can see how fun it is to be a woman. Maybe she will discontinue further gender reconstruction and use the money for a tummy tuck.

Posted by: Jiji | October 26, 2011, 4:43 pm 4:43 pm

Mr. Bono needs to look in the mirror or watch a video of himself? dancing. The man is terrible, He hops or jumps thru what should be a smooth transition. I watch this show with my wife but since they allowed this farce to continue I go down a shoot a good game of pool and watch cops or history. This guy should have been voted off a long time ago but I do understand’ the judges must fear the has been Cher.

Posted by: Jim Rod | October 26, 2011, 4:48 pm 4:48 pm

This is stupid. Chaz can not dance, sad but true. He whines that overweight women are treated better and yet the over weight women he’s talking about COULD dance, THAT’S why they are treated better. Tuxedos are called penguin suits for a reason, that’s where that comment came from, well that and the shuffling feet like a penguin!! I made the comment at home before Bruno said it! It was the movement and outfit! As for Chaz complaining that it was like they were saying he was a troll, well both penguins and ewoks are cute, cuddly, and adorable so that’s obviously his own issues shining through. Now if they called him something like Quazimoto or something I could understand but they didn’t. He can’t dance and is a whiner, I don’t care if he used to be a she, talent skipped a generation.

Posted by: Lin Grant | October 26, 2011, 5:32 pm 5:32 pm

Okay, let’s think this one out: Bono was on DWTS for publicity and, in all likelihood, as a public exhibition of his new gender and how he is getting along. If this is the case, then he should be prepared for some tough stuff.
The judges treat everyone with similiar curtness and rude comments because this is unscripted TV. It is all hype: judges want to make Simon Cowell’s money, so they are generally awful (unless they have already made their money and then become a nicer judge). Notoriety is what this is all about, not dancing. Judges and contestants want publicity for their next public moves. The professional dancers are doing this for coverage in their attempts to move their careers.
In other words, just shut up about this, Chaz. Quit with the rollercoaster emotions – it is getting old. The oversensitivity, the whining, whatever. I applaud your grace until you open your mouth. Mom/Cher: let Chaz grow up and let him figure this out himself.

Posted by: RRH | October 26, 2011, 5:45 pm 5:45 pm

Chaz is a whiner. A fat, disgusting out of shape slob AND a terrible dancer shuffling around, flailing your arms and sweating are not dancing The women on the show are losing weight and improving -.Chaz has done neither. He looked ridiculous squeezed into that Tuxedo.

Posted by: Melinda | October 26, 2011, 6:02 pm 6:02 pm

I really don’t care what Chaz is, but I think the judges shoud be judges and critique a persons dance and not what or how bad they are. Just tell the contestants that the dance wasn’t all that good but don’t call them names as shown with Chaz Bono. I don’t care what he/she is he’s still a human and doesn’t need to be criticized the way that Bruno or Len did.

Posted by: Keith Gardner | October 26, 2011, 6:19 pm 6:19 pm

Couldn’t have worked to hard, look at what Kristie Alley did when she was on the show. I’m sure medicine has something to do with it, but come on, didn’t lose an ounce. That being said, the judging needs to bring the proffesionalism up a bit, calling people names instead of constructive criticism is wrong.

Posted by: Bryan | October 26, 2011, 6:26 pm 6:26 pm

i love cher’s son i think wendy williams and bruno should go to hell

Posted by: Darrell Ewing | October 26, 2011, 7:22 pm 7:22 pm

I really admire Chaz for his being able to do DWTS. I think that mostof his difficulty came from the massive amounts of medicine and the stress that he has suffered even before the DWTS began. I think it took a lot of gumption to put up with the judges commnts, as I have said before I think it is time for the judges to exit and let a new crew take over. I agree with Maks.

Posted by: Tommie Vermillion | October 26, 2011, 8:31 pm 8:31 pm

Wow. It’s amazing how cruel people can be. I’m shocked that people can be so incredibly mean about anything that is not absolutely mainstream. Chaz has chosen a different gender. Big whoop! Nature makes mistakes all the time. To call him a freak or intentionally misuse his desired pronoun is really no different than calling him an animal. Would you call him a freak or a fat slob to his face? The internet allows this vicious anonymity, and it’s disgusting.

Think about your own lives for just one moment. Do you wear glasses? Are you short? Are you super tall or thin? Do you have an accent? How would you feel being talked about in that way? And celebrity does not matter. All of us are humans.

I’m making the general assumption that most, if not all, people making these horrible comments would check the Christian box on a survey. (I know…assumptions make an ass out of me and you). And honestly my comments below apply to most any religion or belief system with a couple of changes in documents of faith.

Didn’t you learn something in Bible school or Sunday school about treating those around you like you would want to be treated? Maybe you’ve heard of the New Testament…you know, the one that has all that ‘crazy’ stuff in it about loving thy neighbor…I guess that only applies to neighbors who look, speak and have sex like you.

If it wasn’t so revolting, I’d feel sorry for you.

Posted by: Beth | October 26, 2011, 8:45 pm 8:45 pm

Beth: Have you read the Bible, it really does not say Big Whoop about homosexuality. And what “nature makes mistakes all the time.” So you are saying Chaz is a mistake, interesting.

Posted by: Seriously | October 26, 2011, 10:19 pm 10:19 pm

Dear Beth,
You are an amazing person. Your so rght. People are so cruel. The only reason I wanted to watch DWTS this year is to see Chaz and hope he could keep improving each week. Unfortunatley he did not but he tried. He seems to be a very nice person and he deserved to be there just as much as anyone else who has been on the show. I wish him nothing but the very best and I hope he is happy now. Instead of taking the low road and commiting suicide like some do, he took the high road. I enjoy the judges at times but I do not think it is necessary to throw in animal name calling. I hope Chaz and Cher and their friends and family see the criticism as people who have not been taught and brought up to know that they are not perfect either. Good luck Chaz in whatever you decide your goal in life is and where you want it to take you. God Bless!

Posted by: Donna | October 26, 2011, 10:28 pm 10:28 pm

You critical people are cruel and need to get a life. Apparently, you think you are perfect, but criticism makes you wrong. Good Luck Chaz in whatever you decide to venture into with your new life now.

Posted by: Donna | October 26, 2011, 10:35 pm 10:35 pm

I can’t believe what I witnessed on Dancing with the Stars Monday night when Bruno once again charged into Chaz with his very unkind name calling. Because of his weight, it took a great deal of courage to even agree to go on the program. But I bet he never thought a person like Bruno, with his years of being a professional would stoop so low as to go to name calling. No one, unless you have gone through name calling, could possibly understand how devastating that can be, no matter what your age. Shame, shame on you Bruno for going so low, you owe someone an apology.

Posted by: Jean Rajnic | October 26, 2011, 10:43 pm 10:43 pm

This is what Liberal America has turned into: a wuss, the wussification of America. The spineless crybabies in this world have never made anything far in life. Thank God for never having these kinds of people as leaders or the top of anything.

Imagine having Chaz as CEO / President of an organization with his sympathetico here. LOL. What would they do when the competitions thrash them, libel, slander, character assassination etc…? Losers! stop whining, pick yourself up gggg.

Posted by: Tia | October 26, 2011, 10:46 pm 10:46 pm

@Michael | October 26, 2011, 12:13 pm 12:13 pm — Boy, you’ve just been dying to say that and show everyone what a total ass you are. Good job…you did just that.

Posted by: Karen Lee | October 26, 2011, 11:51 pm 11:51 pm

Max & Chaz have litgit complaints. They invite the stars to be on the show and then treat them with disrespect.? Why not complete the 8-10 week program with all of them improving and then give each a trophy with the most votes for the Winner receives the Mirror Ball! No one gets eliminated. Let the stars complete the entire program.

Posted by: Marilyn | October 27, 2011, 12:08 am 12:08 am

Chaz, be grateful Simon Cowell wasn’t your judge. You knew it wasn’t going to be easy when you signed up for Dancing with the Stars. Don’t blame the judges for giving you their opinions. Bruno is animated in his analogies–he uses them on everyone on every season. He was not coming from a place of malice. Besides penguins are cute. Be honest with yourself, you can’t dance. That’s why you were voted off the show. Simple as that.

Posted by: Suzanne Graczyk | October 27, 2011, 12:16 am 12:16 am

I guess I don’t get where Chaz was whining. I must have missed that part. However, name calling no matter what, is not, and should not be a part of the judging. Chaz as far as I know never said he could dance. He just hoped he could learn and improve from the experience. And probably hoped it could help him lose weight. As for the name callers and the rude people, you all have your own opinions and you are entitled to them but, the name calling is not necessary. Take a look at yourselves and make that change! It takes a small, small person to be that cruel and it doesn’t say much for your characters.

Posted by: Donna | October 27, 2011, 12:31 am 12:31 am

Folks…there’s a big difference between being voted off and just not getting enough votes to stay in the game. No one has ever been voted off DWTS – it’s just that everyone else happened to get more votes from the viewers to continue on.

Posted by: Karen | October 27, 2011, 4:08 am 4:08 am

Chaz’s gender isn’t the issue that some on this thread would like to make it to be. The issue is how far the judges, or anyone else should go in making grossly unflattering attacks on a contestant. Chaz does have a short, round body and comparatively short legs. The tango is not a dance that such a person, no matter the gender, would be able to perform well. Bruno often gets carried away in his citiques — it’s one thing to critique a contestant on technique, intensity, musicality and connection with a partner because those are all part of the learning process. The judges should concentrate on how well the celebrities develop from non-dancers to reasonably competent amateurs.

Posted by: amn | October 27, 2011, 8:03 am 8:03 am

I can’t believe Chaz has just now learned that obese people are treated like crap in this world. I guess being rich has it’s bonuses. Maybe most people are too afraid to criticize rich people for being fat, but when it comes to the lower and middle class, it’s ok to criticize?

Seriously this should NOT be a major revelation, nor should it be a headline. ABC news needs to quit posting non-news articles about celebs. It makes them look like a tabloid.

Posted by: Willow | October 27, 2011, 8:19 am 8:19 am

Also I can’t believe Chaz doesn’t know what it takes to not be overweight. Most human beings above the age of 5 know what they have to do. They just have circumstances in their lives that prevent them from exercising enough to lose weight. Chaz is in a position where he has a lot of money and doesn’t need a regular job. He could easily hire a personal trainer if he wanted to.

Posted by: Willow | October 27, 2011, 8:22 am 8:22 am

AND YOU WONDER WHY NO “REAL STARS” WANT TO BE ON THIS SHOW. NO STAR IS GOING TO HAVE THE LIKES OF LEN HUMULIATING THEM EVERY WEEK. LEN IS INCONSISTENT WITH WHAT HE WANTS AND IF THE OTHER TWO JUDGES LIKE SOMEONE HE WILL VOTE AGAINST THEM. HE DOES NEED TO LEAVE BECAUSE HE HAS ULTERIOR MOTIVES. REALLY EVERYONE EXCEPT TOM SHOULD BE REPLACED BECAUSE HE IS THE ONLY PROFESSIONAL AND HE IS HILARIOUS. WE WANT TO BE ENTERTAINED, I DON’T REALLY CARE IF THERE WAS A LIFT WHEN THERE SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN AND I’M TIRED OF THE SAME OLD COMMENTS FROM THE SAME OLD JUDGES. THEY HURT SOLO TO BE POINT SHE WAS CRYING YET THEY GAVE HER DECENT SCORES. THEY HAD NICE THINGS TO SAY TO CHAZ AND NANCY BUT GAVE THEM LOW SCORES SO THERE IS DEFINITELY SOME UNFAIRNESS IN THE JUDGING BY ALL.

Posted by: ladyday | October 27, 2011, 9:44 am 9:44 am

Chaz was long overdue to go home. She did look like a penguin. Yes, she is biologically a woman. Chaz is obese not fat. She seems oblivious to the disgust by wearing wifebeaters and going shirtless. There is absolutely no talent there. The whining makes her more repulsive.

Posted by: Tara | October 27, 2011, 9:46 am 9:46 am

You go Chaz buddy. You got more true grit and cahones than all the wimps that put you down.
And boy, do you shine. Your Mama can be proud. I say you could start your own GLBT DWTS
and make it something far more classy. With all your moxie and hutzpah and connections you
could succeed way beyond the failed DWTS we see now. Yours would be a show that judges
performance and heart only….no one turned away or scorned….even if they’re straight. Ain’t it sad
…many animals are more civil to each other than we people are. And what is it about straight people
who can’t keep their noses out of gay people’s crot–ches…lLive and let live and MYOFB

Posted by: IngMarie | October 27, 2011, 10:33 am 10:33 am

It is ludicrous for Chaz to complain about being discriminated for being a man. She isn’t a man, just check her DNA. Although I have a lot of sympathy for her, she was handled with kid gloves by the judges. Bruno got a little overly enthusiastic with some of his descriptions, but he always does. She was the worst dancer and needed to go on the first show. American Idol has popularized the tough comments from talent judges. These judges are just emulating Simon Cowell. As a footnote, I am an overweight man, and would rather be an overweight man than an overweight woman any day of the week.

Posted by: Ricky | October 27, 2011, 11:42 am 11:42 am

Bruno was very kind to Chaz the first 3 weeks. I was shocked the first week he started the name calling. ABC should have stopped Bruno the first week. LEN NEEDS TO GO. He is ANGRY all the time now. He started the fight with Maks and Maks responded. Len shows he personally dislikes Hope and Nancy EVERY time they dance. Len even got mad at Carrie Ann for giving Nancy a 9.

Posted by: Jan | October 27, 2011, 12:19 pm 12:19 pm

I used to really enjoy the show, but it is fast losing any appeal for me. Just like alot of the people posting hateful comments about someone they don’t even know, our society is turning disturbing.

Posted by: ocmarsha | October 27, 2011, 1:07 pm 1:07 pm

First of all, I will say that since Chaz went through the hassle of having his gender and name changed through the court system, we need to respect the fact that he is LEGALLY MALE, just like Metta World Peace should not be referred to anymore as Ron Artest, since he legally changed his name. They made the effort, let’s honor that.

And yes, it’s not cool to be insulted for anything, including being obese, but at least in my experience, obese males are cut a LOT more slack in this society than obese females. So yeah, the judges are wrong in this case, but Chaz also needs to be more resilient and gain strength from the experience. Words can only hurt as much as you let them, after all!

Posted by: Jane | October 27, 2011, 1:27 pm 1:27 pm

I posted a day ago and came back to read some comments. I left the site again and just had to come right back. believe me I have my faults but” some of the comments on here are just plain unbelievable. The Judges have Judged and Bono is kicked off because the dancing this person put out was plain ole terrible. His Mama cannot save him every time. Critical he claims of what?? dancing? Is that not what the judges are hired to do??? (JUDGE DANCING) Get over it Bono, cry to Mama and just have Mama buy you a new car or island.

Posted by: Jim Rod | October 27, 2011, 1:28 pm 1:28 pm

Jim rod…..I just had to come back after your comments. If you have been paying attention, the problem was not with the dancing….IT’S THE NAME CALLING! Those judges (any everyone here) do not walk on water and; therefore, should have learned by now to be RESPECTFUL to others. I guess you missed those lessons in grade school.

Posted by: ocmarsha | October 27, 2011, 1:34 pm 1:34 pm

Unbelievable! I’ve never thought that American people can be so cruel. I am from Russia and always tried to learn from American to be more tolerant and kind. Is this the real face of people?? How can you call Bono a thing or nothing?? Nature can make mistakes! Bono is very brave to do that! You claimed that he can not dance! Are you?? Have you ever tried? I am a dance instructor and know how it’s difficult! All of them are doing incredible job!!!
That situation was rude and impropriate especially for the family show! Judges and professional dancers should behave professionally! Bruno and Max were openly rude!

Posted by: Lina | October 27, 2011, 1:42 pm 1:42 pm

I am so disgusted by the evil ignorants!
Chaz, I am proud of you and Lacey. I know you gave it all on the rehearsal and the dance floor. I respect you for your courage and determination. you already are a winner in Life! Your journey may not be as easy as it should be but in time you will learn to love the joys the Universe has prepared for YOU. Be happy and ignore the idioats and ignorants that may cross your path…. Paloma from OC

Posted by: Paloma | October 27, 2011, 1:52 pm 1:52 pm

Chaz Bono lacks something very important to call yourself a man, so Ifind it odd that he was allowed to compete. ABC and television in general is entirely out of touch with mainstream values. There is entirely too much “gay” representaiion in eveyrthing from sitcoms to TV Movies. If you insist upon calling yourself a man, Chaz, then man up and admit that you were not fit enough for the rigors of dance competition. By simply offering youself up as a spectacle you opened yourself for any manner of judgement, be it from the show’s judges or TV fans. Going on a diet/exercise program BEFORE you offered yourself up for DWTS would have helped, bur face the facts, you do not have the grace nor the athleticism to take on competitive dancing. I am not trying to be crewl, just stating the facts.

Posted by: Jack | October 27, 2011, 4:04 pm 4:04 pm

CHAZ BONO IS A KIND AND THOUGHTFUL PERSON WHO IS TRYING TO BE HAPPY. HE MADE A DECISION TO BECOME WHAT HE THOUGHT HE SHOULD HVE BEEN BORN AS. HOW MUCH COURAGE THAT HAD TO TAKE HIM. I HAVE SEEN HIM IN THE PUBLIC EYE SINCE HE WAS A CHILD. HE SEEMS HAPPIER NOW THEN HE EVER HAS IN THE PAST. KUDO’S FOR YOU CHAZ!! I WISH YOU ALL THE HAPPINESS IN THE WORLD. THE JUDGE HAD NO RIGHT TO MAKE THOSE DEGRADING REMARKS THAT HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH CHAZ’S DANCING. HE DID NOT NEED TO COMPARE HIM TO ANYHTING TO GIVE HIM A SCORE. SOMEONE NEEDS TO APLOGIZE!!

Posted by: Suzanne | October 27, 2011, 10:21 pm 10:21 pm

Come on Chaz! Bruno wasn’t trying to infer you were an animal/subhuman. You were wearing a tux and waddling around flat footed like a, well, penguin. It was a critique of your dancing technique, not your humanity. Period.
Oh and “Thelma is cooked.”

Posted by: Dolly Pelliker | October 28, 2011, 10:43 am 10:43 am

Freak show.

Ought to go work in a Circus

Posted by: bob | October 30, 2011, 4:27 pm 4:27 pm

I am amazed that people actually think that doctors can turn a woman into a man. Medical science can mutilate a woman and pump enough male hormones into her to shorten her llife but they can’t turn a woman into a man. I don’t agree with how nasty some people can be but I can understand why they’re so angry. Chaz Bono is not a “new kind of man”. She is a woman who is taking dangerous risks with her health and advocating it to others.

Posted by: Jenny | November 2, 2011, 2:55 am 2:55 am

Y’all just leave this man alone and let him live his life in peace. He probaly wouldn’t of agreed to do the show if he knew people were gonna be asses to him about his “gender change”. So if your gonna criticize him do it on his dancing not on his choice to become a man.

Posted by: LGN | November 5, 2011, 9:17 pm 9:17 pm

“A different kind of man” lol lol lol dont care if you dress like a man YOUR NOT never will be

Posted by: Razer | November 8, 2011, 2:44 pm 2:44 pm

“Bono diplomatically weighed in on the controversy” … i see what they did there…

Posted by: David | November 9, 2011, 7:10 am 7:10 am

I believe the judges discriminate in more ways than weight as does the audience, & fans. Although they may not have won either way. I feel this is the true face of our nation no matter what people say they show their true predjuduce in many ways. Excuse spelling errors.

Posted by: Randi Reyna | November 10, 2011, 10:52 am 10:52 am

If Chaz doesn’t like being made fun of for his weight, he could always like, you know, lose weight…

Posted by: Jon K. | January 7, 2012, 4:37 pm 4:37 pm

Honestly i am very grateful for the people in this world who are not ignorant and try to understand the concept of being transgender. To me i is really upseting to see people who have no idea what they are talking about making ingnorant comments about someone who is transgender, and then going on to make comments refering to the entire transgender community. I am willing to bet all of the hatefull comments made came from in fact cisgendered people.I am also willing to bet none of you even know what that means. You REALLY do not understand what it is like to live in a world where it is not safe to tell the truth about how you feel. That your life henges on you repressing you feelings. And praying to god every night that maybe just maybe he will forgive you for whatever it is that youv’e done. Hopeing that maybe you parents will love you even though they tell you that god will send you to hell if you don’t feel like a girl. Please just think about it, what it woul be like as a child to have nightmares that your parents find out how you feel and kill you. Please just take into consideration how your words are affecting people out there, who are dwendeling by a strand of hope that maybe someone out tere will except them for who they are.

Posted by: david | January 11, 2012, 12:02 am 12:02 am

Curley was fat and light on HIS feet. What’s the problem Chaz?!

Posted by: Thomas V. Pedersen Jr. | January 15, 2012, 7:02 am 7:02 am

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