Patti LaBelle Sued for Allegedly Cursing, Throwing Water at Baby

Grammy winning singer Patti LaBelle is being sued by a mom who claims she abused her and her child.
A New York City mom is suing R&B legend Patti LaBelle for allegedly abusing her and and her 18-month-old daughter.
A lawsuit filed Monday by Kevin and Roseanna Monk claims that LaBelle screamed at Roseanna Monk while her daughter walked around the lobby of the Donald Trump-owned apartment building where they all lived in November 2010. The Monks have lived there for more than two years. LaBelle stayed in the building last year while performing in the Broadway musical “Fela!”
The Monk’s lawyer, Samuel L. Davis, told ABCNews.com that LaBelle approached his client, who was gathering the family’s luggage for a trip, and said, “‘Do you know what your daughter is doing?’ kind of implying that she was a bad mother.”
“My client responded as most people would,” he said. “‘Lady, mind your own business.’”
Then, Davis said, “Patti LaBelle lost it. We have no idea what flew her into this rage.”
According to Davis, the singer “started cursing and screaming” and flung water from a bottle she was holding at Roseanna Monk and her daughter.
“It was enough that the mother had to change her shirt and the baby’s shirt,” Davis said. “The baby’s never been exposed to anything like that before. She started crying violently. She started throwing up.”
Things got worse when the scuffle moved outside.
“My client went outside, and on the way to her car, she said ‘Look what you did to my daughter. Look what you did,’” Davis said. “That’s when Patti lost it and she lunged at her, tried to punch her and had to be restrained by her entourage. The bodyguard had to get out and drag Patti into the car.”
Roseanna Monk reported the incident to police, but no arrests were made. She then contacted LaBelle’s management asking for an apology. After not hearing back, she decided to sue for unspecified damages.
“They’re not major damages,” Davis said. “They’re more punitive than anything. We agreed that the proceeds of the case are going to a children’s charity.”
But, he said, the effects of the incident were apparent on the 18-month-old.
“The baby had a hard time with this,” he said. “She started not sleeping through the night. She had issues with loud noises and strangers.”
This isn’t the first time the Grammy winning LaBelle has been accused of violence. In June, a U.S. Military Academy cadet sued LaBelle over a dust-up with her bodyguards in the Houston airport, claiming the bodyguards attacked him unprovoked. LaBelle counter-sued the cadet, saying he tried to get into her limousine and was drunk and using racial and sexual slurs. The case remains under investigation.
Davis said his clients want to prove a point.
“My clients will feel good about any outcome that holds her responsible for her actions,” he said. “Just because you have an entourage and bodyguards doesn’t mean you can scream and throw water in people’s faces.”
Representatives for LaBelle did not respond to ABCNews.com’s multiple requests for comment.

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An 18 month old has the memory of a gnat. A one time incident of yelling will not be remembered by the baby. Memories don’t start until around 3 years old. These parents need to quite using their child as a pawn.
Posted by: mad3cat | November 15, 2011, 12:54 pm 12:54 pm
Actually an 18 month old does remember things, they just can’t communicate it very well. If something of that nature did happen it is very possible that a child that age would react in the way described.
Posted by: Marie | November 15, 2011, 1:07 pm 1:07 pm
I totally agree with Mad3cat. The baby is feeding off mom’s emotions, not her own. If mom would calm down, the baby would be fine. They just need to accept that Ms. LaBelle is a #%$^@ and move on. Why a lawsuit? That makes them just as bad as her….
Posted by: Ann D | November 15, 2011, 1:07 pm 1:07 pm
That’s what happens when a celebrity gets the gnawing fear that she is aging and bound to lose her celebrity status. They project their frustration on everyone else. Maybe GLEE did not accept her offer to appear as a member of the regular cast! She could be meaner that Miss Beastie and she can prove it.
Posted by: Darius | November 15, 2011, 1:21 pm 1:21 pm
I do not believe that Patti Labelle would act like this. This woman is just trying to get $$$$$.
I hope that she does not receive a dime of Miss Labelle’s hard-earned $$$$.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by: Linda D Bryant | November 15, 2011, 1:30 pm 1:30 pm
Okay, all you people who say that an 18 month old won’t remember this? This is a psychology student telling you, yes, the baby will. She’s old enough to remember things. She’s not an infant. She’s getting toward the toddler stage. She’ll not precisely know the reason why all the adults were yelling and getting upset, but she will remember that they were yelling and upset and that she got splashed with something that was cold and wet. She also remember how upset her parents were afterwards which contributes to her own feelings of unhappiness. A baby can remember things, people.
Posted by: Ashley | November 15, 2011, 1:34 pm 1:34 pm
She’s got a new attitude!
Posted by: Jeune | November 15, 2011, 1:44 pm 1:44 pm
i personally think these people are trying to get some money. the mother is just angry because she probably wasn’t parenting correctly and was caught on it. That’s the crux of this case. she’s mad because she let one of her children wander off, someone caught her and put her in her place. she has the nerve to sue Patti LaBelle because she caught her being a bad mother. They are overreaching trying to convince people that Patti LaBelle is some kind of violent diva. This kindergarten teacher who is a mother…giving money to charity…she admits she told PLB to mind her own business…she obviously didn’t care about the whereabouts of her own child. In her own mind, she’s mother of the year and is incapable of making a mistake. Move along people…nothing to see here.
Posted by: darisa | November 15, 2011, 1:52 pm 1:52 pm
“The baby had a hard time with this,” he said. “She started not sleeping through the night. She had issues with loud noises and strangers.”
This is total, 100% bunk. But this is the second time I’ve heard Patti LaBelle’s name associated with an unpleasant event (bystander beaten by bodyguard) – I get the feeling she’s just not a very nice person.
Posted by: Aaron Ververs | November 15, 2011, 1:55 pm 1:55 pm
This story reports that a lawsuit has been filed against Patti LaBelle”s “allegded” behavoir and recants the couple’s Lawyer’s description of the incident. Claims it was reported to police but no arrests were made and makes no mention of an ongoing investigation or any witnesses whatsoever. I have no clue whatther Patti LaBelle is an out of control nut or not. Because that’s not what the story says…only fact that this story ever mentions is that a lawsuit was filed. I think the readers kind of need to back up and pay attention.
Posted by: Maddman | November 15, 2011, 1:57 pm 1:57 pm
The woman doesn’t need the money if she lives there. Patti is a diva and has been since she became rich. Having money doesn’t mean you have class and this is an example.
Posted by: Louie | November 15, 2011, 1:57 pm 1:57 pm
If a celebrity threw something other than a teddy bear to my child…damn right…I’d be mad. No matter what..I protect my child and if it means to sue that celebrity then so be it. It’s not about the money…it’s about being human!
Posted by: sdj | November 15, 2011, 1:59 pm 1:59 pm
Isnt patty la belle being suied because of what she and her bodyguards did. Seems like thats more fuel to his lawsuit. a pattern of behavior
Posted by: Lily Sparkletoon | November 15, 2011, 2:01 pm 2:01 pm
First of all, the previous incident had to do with her bodyguards, and not her. I’m a huge Patti fan and have never read anything negative about her. Nobody’s perfect, but my guess is that the parent glossed over her own actions and provocations. I know I would tell a parent about their parenting skills too. I’m a parent and a high school teacher. When parents don’t correct their children, they arrive to my class and get a rude awakening called rules and expectations(imagine that). If Patti flew off the handle telling the lady to do a better job of parenting, then good for her!
Posted by: Datbury | November 15, 2011, 2:05 pm 2:05 pm
Jeune…..Awesome post!!
Posted by: Timme62 | November 15, 2011, 2:12 pm 2:12 pm
“‘Do you know what your daughter is doing?’ kind of implying that she was a bad mother.” “My client responded as most people would,” he said. “‘Lady, mind your own business.’”
Hmm… it depends upon “what” the daughter was doing and I don’t think that “most” people would respond with; “lady, mind your own business.” That’s enough to get something started…
Posted by: MyTakeOnThis61 | November 15, 2011, 2:18 pm 2:18 pm
She wasnt implying she was a bad mother…..she simply asked her if she knew what her daughter was doing. Apparently, she wasnt paying attention to where her daughter was. It takes but a second for a child to disappear. This mother got offended because she got called out on it and moe than likely told Patty to mind your (effin) business. I bet you this woman let off a barrage of insults and got angry also, before anything else happened. That trick wasnt some innocent woman just standing there, i guarantee she flung the first curse word. You know alot of these folks with money have an attitude! If I see a child wandering and I dont see a parent watching them, or one nearby..ill let them know. I have and I will do it again.
Posted by: Thoughtyouknew | November 15, 2011, 2:56 pm 2:56 pm
As the mother of two I can say that the kid probably was not that affected by the situation. That kind of reaction would be a bit ridiculous. Now with that said, if Patti LaBelle had done anything like that to my child I would be behind bars and Ms LaBelle would be in the hospital.
Posted by: Melissa | November 15, 2011, 3:05 pm 3:05 pm
I was not there, so I want speculate on the behavior of Patti or the child. However, according to this article, it states, that Pattil Labelle, told the parent of the child “Do you see what your child is doing”, here is a concern citizen, looking out for the interest of your child, and their reply to Patti is “Mind your own business”. This is part of the reason, why we have so many children out of control. Parents don’t want to correct, or implement any discipline, or supervision for there kids. I don’t agree with Patti Labelle’s behavior (if she really was as out of control as they have stated), but according to the parents statement, just leave there spoiled child alone, and mind your own business.
Posted by: Faithful034 | November 15, 2011, 3:45 pm 3:45 pm
“The baby had a hard time with this,” he said. “She started not sleeping through the night. She had issues with loud noises and strangers.”
Ya right, as a father of 2 boys I can say an 18 month old remembers nothng at that age. This is a money grabbing ploy, nothing more. The mother was upset because she was challanged by LaBelle’s comment and she didn’t like it.
Posted by: chenz66 | November 15, 2011, 3:54 pm 3:54 pm
6 OF ONE AND HALF DOZEN OF THE OTHER….both sides are nuts. The mother is exaggerating, naturally, for the sake of money…and LaBelle is a runaway diva that has long needed a reality check. They both need to do some hospital time…for the sake of EVERYONE around them.
Posted by: JVB | November 15, 2011, 4:17 pm 4:17 pm
This story sounds so fake. An 18 month old is 1 and 1/2 years old. This child is not going to remember this incident at all. And then the mother says she is having trouble sleeping. Bullsh*t!
The Mother see’s dollars signs.
Posted by: Justin | November 15, 2011, 4:20 pm 4:20 pm
Children have no cognitive memory until around 4 years of age. Her claim the daughter is distraught is crap!
All the lady had to do was say, “Ok, thank you” politely instead of being snippy telling her to”mind your own business lady”. This is what being snitty gets you. A little politeness would have avoided this whole situation.
Posted by: Manda | November 15, 2011, 4:27 pm 4:27 pm
the story says that the proceeds of the case are going to a children’s charity. not mrs. monk. and regardless of the baby being able to remember what happened or not, no one should treat another person that way. it sounds like ms. la belle’s behavior was inappropriate and i personally am so tired of hearing about all the famous people who act and say whatever they want without ever dealing with the consequences. good for the monk family for calling her out.
Posted by: MCDC | November 15, 2011, 5:41 pm 5:41 pm
People are just nasty and careless when it comes to raising children they think its cute to let them get in public and show them up that they are parents with no control over a 18 month old baby if the baby is that sensible to stay awake because of an argument, then it should be sensible enough to sit down if a parent say sit. this is why so many babies disappear and some are never found. people are looking for any crack to sue for money.
Posted by: Delores | November 15, 2011, 6:33 pm 6:33 pm
I hope Ms. LaBelle wins. I am so sick of these ‘dumb’ women who would allow an 18 month old to wander around a hotel lobby when children are snatched and killed everyday in this country. I often wonder if they want the child dead or missing. This mother should be ashamed of herself. Maybe she smells money. Something is wrong in this country when children are not protected.
Posted by: Elizabeth | November 15, 2011, 6:54 pm 6:54 pm
This is the second time this LaBelle and her entourage has assaulted someone. Someone needs to rein in this Wilderbeast. I hope she gets the crap sued out of her.
Posted by: moffet | November 15, 2011, 7:08 pm 7:08 pm
Hey, watch your mouth, talking about a legend like that! Who is calling someone a wildebeast?
Hey, if a parent is not watching her child, and someone asks them do you know what your child is doing? How in the hell is that wrong? Now, if someone threw water on that child, or parent, that is wrong. However, how do we know that any of that is correct? How do we know if anyone had water at all? If so, how do we know that the parent did not do this herself? She is full of s___! All she sees is dollar signs. She needs to get a life. If someone really did that, a police report would have been filed, authorities and media contacted. C’mon now, a lawsuit first, I mean really? How do we take you seriously?
Posted by: NDay1 | November 15, 2011, 10:27 pm 10:27 pm
Once the mother told her to mind her own business, she should have let it go. But, now she escalated it, and started cursing and yelling and threw water on the mother and the child. Obviously this once upon a time “legend” is out of control. Perhaps a little lawsuit will let her know she can’t do stuff like this just because she has money. And I doubt that a family who LIVES in the building is seeing dollar signs. They have money if they can afford to live there. And I am sure also she has a life, she doesn’t need some woman she probably didn’t know from Adam’s housecat to jump in her business. And she said she would give the money won(if any) in a lawsuit to a children’s charity.
Posted by: carole | November 15, 2011, 11:22 pm 11:22 pm
So, can anyone please tell me of their fondest memory when they were 2 yers old? Come on people!!! If someone says to any responsible toddler parent “do you know what your child is doing” the proper reaction from said parent should first be of concern for their child. Definitely not “Lady mind your own business.” That would imply that if the child is messing with my things that it is my business. The question is, what was the child doing in the first place, other than not being watched by her parents, that caused concern. God forbid the child get kidnapped or something because not everyone is going to get your attention when it comes to your child. Some people see that as an opportunity to snatch them up. Then youll be on the news portraying the distraught parent syndrome. Cut it out.
Posted by: cassandra | November 15, 2011, 11:27 pm 11:27 pm
Patti LaBelle behaved in a tasteless manner. Why is anyone surprised? Her entire onstage persona has always been that way, rolling around on the floor & screeching. She’s never presented herself as a woman of class, constantly accusing(falsely, as it usually turns out)other, genuine, celebrities of, either, abusing or ignoring her, always playing the “victim” in every situation, sometimes denigrating other(always more successful)female singers, etc. Her “fans” are just as vicious, especially online, bashing any other female singer who, God forbid, may have sung the same song as Patti sometime during the 20th or 21st centuries. This behavior comes from deep-seeded insecurity on the part of Patti, her fans & associates.
Buildings like this ALWAYS have monitored lobbies, so, there’s probably video of the entire encounter. That should settle everything, once and for all, for all concerned parties.
Posted by: JT | November 16, 2011, 12:20 am 12:20 am
“mind your business’ is an aggressive and beyatchy response if your kid is running around unsupervised and someone is rightfully calling you on it
Get yourself a New Attitude beyotch!! You go patti!!
Posted by: beyatches | November 16, 2011, 12:44 am 12:44 am
All the years that Ms Labelle has been in the entertainment biz believe me if she were out of control manaic that people are all of a sudden saying she would have been acted out..The situation was not handled correctly on either end,but it does sound as though the couple would like a payday…
Posted by: Tav | November 16, 2011, 2:38 am 2:38 am
um – saying that patti has been accused before is inaccurate. her bodyguards were accused. she is being sued because they work for her, not because she attacked anyone. also, the mother sounds like a big liar. get the lobby video. what a loser
Posted by: Tony Smith | November 16, 2011, 4:49 am 4:49 am
i think the baby could remember i remember when i was small my parents screaming at me i remember everything the foster home and my foster parents i was the same age as this baby in this article. iam with team parents and child
Posted by: stacey | November 16, 2011, 8:11 am 8:11 am
Cassandra the only thing that you said that made any kind of sense was that there should be a video recording of the whole incident. The rest? Blank stare….
Posted by: Tony | November 16, 2011, 1:43 pm 1:43 pm
#1) patti and people like her that think its their right to shoot their mouth off at strangers and act a fool with them have severe brain damage. #2) If Patti did this, that woman should have torn the weave str8 out of Patti’s head. Her old but need to go sit down somewhere before someone put both her eyes on swole. lol
Posted by: jstate83 | November 16, 2011, 3:38 pm 3:38 pm
This law suit is ridiculous and a total waste of time for the courts. Had Patti apologized, it would be no lawsuit and all the “trauma” to this 18 month old wouldn’t even be a factor. Just proves that women a Black woman gets upset they are automatically labeled and depicted as a “Mad Black Woman.” This is a joke, out justice system has more important things to worry about than something as petty as this!
Posted by: PJ | November 16, 2011, 3:45 pm 3:45 pm
It sounds like the child was running around not supervised. That really annoys me when people let their children do whatever they want and they think its cute and they think that everyone feels the same way. DISCIPLINE YOUR CHILDREN!!!! Did the mom know what the child was doing when Patti asked? Why did the dad say mind your business instead of “No, I’m sorry we weren’t paying attention.” He said mind your business because he was defensive, his kid was probably running around touching things or throwing things and maybe at her.
Posted by: reader1 | November 16, 2011, 4:29 pm 4:29 pm
I don’t think the question Patti asked was offensive at all. If someone asked me that question I’d rush to locate my child. Sounds like the mom had a nasty attitude and since she admitted to saying that, I suspect that she left out some things to make herself appear totally blameless. Bottom line is there is always two sides to every story. I’m sorry that Patti cursed and threw water, so because she is a class act, I hope she apologizes for that. However, I just have to wonder why the heck did the mom think it was necessary to go after the car yelling at Patti. That is, IF SHE WAS SO WORRIED ABOUT HER UPSET BABY. Who gets to sue her for her contribution to drama that traumatized her kid?
Posted by: Ms. T | November 16, 2011, 7:51 pm 7:51 pm
THIS IS JUST A LADY TRYING TO GET MONEY OUT OF MISS PAT THAT CHILD DOESN’T REMEMBER THAT AND THE LAWYER ADDING MORE ON TO THE STORY IT’S WRONG TO PUT YOUR HANDS ON ANYONE BUT IN MISS PATS DEFENSE THE MOTHER MUST OF BEEN REALLY NASTY WITH MISS PAT FOR HER TO SAY ANYTHING THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMING UP AND WE ARE IN A ROSSECION I THINK THE LADY JUST WANTS MONEY
Posted by: EDWARD PERKINS | November 17, 2011, 6:52 pm 6:52 pm
No one knows the tone of neither one of these women voice during this conversation so you will never really understand the reason why this situation had to go as far as it did. As far as mistreating a human being Ms. LaBelle was wrong and whatever court actions taken, she deserves. Now making a statement on the 18 month olds memory, although she may might not remember this a year from now and it may not stick with her through her childhood and adult years she does remember now and that’s what ya’ll are failing to realize. The toddler is aware of what is going on around her and when something out of the ordinary happens to them it can have a temporary affect. Put yourself in a room with that kind of excitement and at a young age, even as an adult you will have some sort reaction to it and it will leave an impression. It’s not an every day event that is surrounding her so it can be mindfully disturbing. But in any case, whatever that child was doing Pattie had no business throwing water on that baby and that’s the bottom line.
Posted by: Mrs. K | November 18, 2011, 4:54 am 4:54 am
There is more to this story. First of all I don’t think this incdient described would have the child not sleeping and throwing up. What if the child and mom got caught in a downpour with thunder and lighting? This is ridiculous. Also, would she be suing (whether she is donatng the money to charity) if she wasn’t famous or would this be just an incident she brushed off? It really is sickening the way people go after celebrities as a quick payday. Oh, btw she is suing for 20 milloin dollars according to recent reports
Posted by: Douglas | November 20, 2011, 7:17 am 7:17 am
Seems to me the reporting is a bit one sided. There are three sides to each story. The last side being the truth. We haven’t heard from Ms. LaBelle ,nor anyone who may have witnessed the altercation that took place. New York has become a very nasty place to live and people are careless and unappreciative, when they are given constructive criticism. I have know Ms. LaBelle for years. She is somewhat germaphobic and does not approach people unless there is a real need.
I have personally seen her around children, and can say she always has their best interest in mind when it comes to disciplined supervision. The fact that the reporter seems to trump the fact that the woman lived there for two years and Ms. Labelle was there short term, to me insinuates that she was not wanted in a place that is considered so high class. New York is loosing its clientele and residents behind incidents just as this. If you are going to report a story get facts and comments from both sides, and kill the false and snatch headlines. The reporter needs to find another job or go back to journalism school. Sounds yellow to me!
Posted by: Vango | November 20, 2011, 7:38 pm 7:38 pm
Although the baby might not remember the incident, Mrs. K is right. “Miss Pat” had no business throwing water at anyone.
Posted by: Guesty | December 30, 2011, 9:55 am 9:55 am
You people who are commenting on this incident as if you were all there. Believe None of what you hear…. is the start of a very famous quote by Benjamin Franklin. I first heard about this on youtube. this young man apparently has got to be the dumbest ass in captivity. How dear you speak on a matter or an incident as if your were present when it happened which would make you a primary source. Furthermore. as an educator myself I wish most parents would pay close attention to the children’s misconduct. and understand as a man or woman of a certain age and maturity, certain behaviors by children will not be tolerated. I was not present but to buy into what the media and all of these other no names are saying in regards to the allegations against Ms. Labelle, Is just Dumb!!. Remember people it takes a village to raise our children. As a parent myself where ever my child shows out is where he gets worked out. control your kids folks then grown folks wouldn’t have to interject when your rude ass kids are showing out. the rest of you how act as if you witness it first hand should get a life. Ms. Patti, Please remember opinions are like butt holes, everyone has one. Keep your head held high as always. I love and believe in you
CDE….. one is innocent until proven guilty.
Posted by: CDE | January 3, 2012, 8:12 pm 8:12 pm