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It's been four years since Jon and Kate Gosselin split, and their relationship is as icy as ever.

In a new interview with Oprah Winfrey, the former "Jon & Kate Plus 8? star, who now works as a waiter in eastern Pennsylvania, said that he and his ex have very little in common.

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"I don't really have a relationship with Kate. It's more texting, custodial stuff," he said in a special that will air on Sunday. "At this point, there is no cooperation, there is nothing."

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In fact, Gosselin, 36, said that he and his ex-wife keep separate wardrobes for their children, and that neither knows what goes on in the other's house.

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"I wish her the best in all that she does, but [we're] just moving in totally two different directions, just totally not on the same page at all about anything," he said. "There's two different totally parenting styles, two different totally everythings. Which is a shame, because it affects me, but it really affects my children." D