Georgia Mom Arrested for Allowing 10-Year-Old to Get Tattoo

(Photo courtesy: Cobb County Sheriff's Office)
A Georgia mother who was arrested for allowing her 10-year-old to get a tattoo said she had no idea it was illegal for him to get one, even with her consent.
When Chuntera Napier’s son Gaquan Napier asked her if he could get a memorial tattoo for his 12-year-old brother Malik who died after being hit by a car, Napier was touched by the request.
“My son came to me and said, ‘Mom, I want to get a tattoo with Malik on it, rest in peace,’” she told ABC News’ Atlanta affiliate WSBTV. “It made me feel good to know that he wanted his brother on him.”
When Gaquan Napier was asked why he wanted the tattoo, he said, “Because it represents my brother.”
“What do I say to a child who wants to remember his brother? It’s not like he was asking me, ‘Can I get Sponge Bob?” Napier said. “He asked me [for] something that’s in remembrance of his brother. How can I say no?”
Gaquan got a tattoo on his right arm of his brother’s name and his former basketball jersey number. Napier also has memorial tattoos for her son on her right arm.
When someone at his school noticed the tattoo and contacted authorities, Napier was arrested on Tuesday and charged with misdemeanor cruelty and being a party to a crime, according to WSBTV. Napier bonded out of jail on Wednesday but is shocked that her consent was not enough for her son to get a tattoo.
“I always thought that if a parent gave consent, then it was fine,” she said. “How can somebody else say that it’s not okay? He’s my child, and I have the right to say what I want for my child. I can’t go tell anybody else what I want for their child.”
A Georgia law from 2010 states, “It shall be unlawful for any person to tattoo the body of any person under the age of 18, except a physician or osteopath.”
Police say that Napier has refused to cooperate in naming the tattoo artist who could also be prosecuted for violating the law.
Acworth Chief of Police Michael Wilkie told ABCNews.com in an emailed statement that the tattoo appeared “to be the work of an amateur” and said one police theory is that when Napier took the child to get a memorial tattoo similar to her own, she discovered it was illegal and took him somewhere where it could be done “illegally like a ‘jail house’ tattoo.”
“Unfortunately, the mother has elected not to cooperate with the police any further in this investigation,” Wilkie said. “The tragedy of this is that the child’s tattoos are some sort of memorial to a sibling who was lost in a car accident a few years ago. I understand from the investigators that there are several memorial to the deceased child in the apartment where they live. It may be that professional or religious counseling for their/her grief would be more helpful than anything.”
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Given the circumstances of this case, I think all charges should be dismissed.
As a general rule, no, minors should NOT be getting permanent alterations to their body, but this is a MEMORIAL to his DEAD BROTHER and something he chose (and will likely never regret).
And the fact is, kids, even INFANTS, get/have their ears pierced all the time…there is a real stigma against tattoos or other less conventional forms of personal adornment in some areas, which could be considered a cultural bias.
Posted by: RAVEN | January 19, 2012, 12:20 pm 12:20 pm
From looking at daily arrest reports I can say with confidence that anyone with a tattoo on their neck, specifically, either has been, or will be going to jail at some point in theri life.
Posted by: Bruce | January 19, 2012, 12:21 pm 12:21 pm
Another fine example of big brother getting involved in every aspet of our lives. I guess Ga authorities also outlawed common sense.
Posted by: eliza61 | January 19, 2012, 12:25 pm 12:25 pm
This isn’t the best example of parenting, but I don’t think it’s worth arresting the mother. A memorial tattoo for his brother isn’t the kind of thing he will regret later in life, and this certainly isn’t cruelty!
Posted by: Jean | January 19, 2012, 12:25 pm 12:25 pm
Maybe some one show tatto some common sense into the Acworth police department.
Posted by: eliza | January 19, 2012, 12:27 pm 12:27 pm
And what about the person that did the tattooing? Why aren’t they being charged for doing the tattoo if there is a law against it? They had a responsibility to refuse under the law–and now the mother is being charged?
Posted by: karla | January 19, 2012, 12:28 pm 12:28 pm
Almost every tattoo shop I’ve been in here in New Jersey has a sign stating that it’s unlawful for a person under the age of 18 to be tattooed or pierced, WITHOUT PARENTAL CONSENT. If she consented, then what is the issue. Its her child, he certainly wasn’t harmed. He has a greater chance or being harmed attending public school rather than getting a tattoo.
Posted by: Manda | January 19, 2012, 12:36 pm 12:36 pm
I think Chuntera should be prosecuted for dooming this boy, Gaquan, to be a future felon of America.
Tattoes at 10 yr old? Bad parenting there.
Posted by: KEN | January 19, 2012, 12:36 pm 12:36 pm
Maybe someone at the kids school should quit being so pious and mind their own business. It was a tattoo in memory of his brother, not a gang symbol! I am so sick of others putting their noses where they don’t belong! Take care of your own house!
Posted by: wondering | January 19, 2012, 12:37 pm 12:37 pm
This woman is a representation of societies` future. She needs to take parenting courses before she´s allowed back with her son.
Posted by: Ge | January 19, 2012, 12:40 pm 12:40 pm
Parents should be allowed to give consent for their child.Heck minors can get birth control,abortions and quit school without a parents consent. We have drug dealers,fraud. You name it filling up our courts yet this mom is arrested for a tattoo. What a waste of money and undue stress on the family
Posted by: theresa | January 19, 2012, 12:41 pm 12:41 pm
The mother didn’t do the tattoo?? so why was she arrested? if anything, i think the artist should have been arrested, not the mother.
Posted by: Lora | January 19, 2012, 12:41 pm 12:41 pm
@Raven – Thank for showing your ignorance. Obviously you miss the fact that the daily arrest reports only show people who are going to jail. What the arrest reports fail to show is all the people with neck tattoos who are not in jail.
You have mistakenly concluded through flawed logic that because some people in jail have tattoos on their neck, all people with tattoos on their neck will go to jail. That would fall in the basic reasoning skills category.
Posted by: ddnslc | January 19, 2012, 12:42 pm 12:42 pm
Really? Over a tattoo? What about infants, toddlers, etc… getting their ears pierced? That’s painful, against their consent (most of the time), and serves no purpose other than aesthetics.
Posted by: Wayne | January 19, 2012, 12:42 pm 12:42 pm
The article says the artist is being investigated. But, if the law reads as stated, he should have explained that to the mom & there would probably be no problem. That being said, I feel this case should be an exception to the law. I wonder what the laws are in surrounding states? If they’re more lenient & someone took a minor there, there might not be any repercussions. It looks like the law only states that it’s against the law to tattoo someone under 18, not necessarily that someone under that age can’t have one?!
Posted by: Richard | January 19, 2012, 12:43 pm 12:43 pm
I agree with Karla that the person who did the tattoo should be arrested, the mom just should get a warning.
Posted by: Librarian53 | January 19, 2012, 12:45 pm 12:45 pm
She looks like a real rocket scientist
Posted by: Ronny | January 19, 2012, 12:46 pm 12:46 pm
well, i stand for the kid. it shows respect. and to ken, ah, hey fool, just coz you have a tat doesnt mean youre going to prison. what a stupid thing to say
Posted by: nomad | January 19, 2012, 12:46 pm 12:46 pm
Perfect example of too much government. If the child had his mother’s permission AND the tattoo wad administered by a licensed tattooist then there should NOT be charges.
Posted by: LifeisGood007 | January 19, 2012, 12:48 pm 12:48 pm
I wonder what that tattoo will look like when the kid is in his 30s or 40s. Just a colored smear of ink?
Posted by: D-Money | January 19, 2012, 12:49 pm 12:49 pm
Good,they should lock her behind up, it’s bad enough already that kids have all these tat’s black folks don’t even need to go here,here’s a kid with tatoos going to a job interview,now this kid doesn’t get the job then he cries he couldn’t get a job because of being black, he didn’t get a fair shake in life,some black parents shouldn’t be having kids,at all,period.
Posted by: Carl | January 19, 2012, 12:52 pm 12:52 pm
What a crock. Who allows such laws to be passed? Pretty soon parents will be arrested for allowing their kids to stay up too late. government – butt the hell out!
Posted by: kim | January 19, 2012, 12:53 pm 12:53 pm
When I read the headline I assumed the mother was an idiot who should not have children. But after reading that it was a tattoo to memorialize the dead brother (who was hit by a car and not a drug deal gone bad) I have to side with the mother. Tattoos are not just for prisoners and skinheads anymore. This was a really sweet gesture and I’m glad the mother gave consent. And it seems to me the tattoo artist is the one breaking the law here – not the mother!!! There are so many children living in abusive households and this mother is arrested while gangbangers, addicts and child molesters are ignored??? Where are our priorities???
Posted by: Dani77 | January 19, 2012, 12:55 pm 12:55 pm
I’m disgusted that authorities can interfere in the way a parent raises their child! Tattoos today, ear piercings tomorrow. Why not arrest a parent for having their boy child circumcised?
Posted by: Disgusted | January 19, 2012, 12:56 pm 12:56 pm
Why didn’t the school employee speak to the mother before notifying authorities? I think there is something wrong with the person who reported it. He/she assumed it was gang related.
Posted by: Mary | January 19, 2012, 12:57 pm 12:57 pm
Its an understanding gesture. The mother should not have been arrested and I understand her probably not knowing the law. However, the tattoo artist should have known and warned the mother of such.
Posted by: MyTakeOnThis61 | January 19, 2012, 1:00 pm 1:00 pm
@ KEN and CARL
You know the old saying about being a fool. “Its better to keep your mouth closed than to open it and remove all doubt. Some of ya’ll reflect the brainless thinking that has enveloped this country since the mid 1990′s when that male sensitivity / feminization swept through.
Posted by: jstate83 | January 19, 2012, 1:01 pm 1:01 pm
This is a story about different cultures having different perspectives. White people would never have a child tattooed regardless of grief. Its also rarer for white parents to have their child’s ears pierced… not unheard of, but rarer. Black culture derives ultimately from Africa where piercing and tattoos are a crucial aspect of culture… very beautiful culture. I think there are vestiges still alive here today and that its interesting. Still, laws are laws I guess… but easier to guess what they probably are if you come from the culture that authored them.
Posted by: oh no | January 19, 2012, 1:01 pm 1:01 pm
How is this any different from mothers who get their baby’s ears pierced?
Posted by: Moonhill | January 19, 2012, 1:02 pm 1:02 pm
How is this different from parents piercing the ears of the children before they are even old enough to sit up; especially when it is done to little boys. So it’s okay to wax the eyebrows off your 3 year old for television but it’s not ok for this boy to decide to have a personal tribute to his brother. The difference in prosecution of these parents is the color of their skin
Posted by: LS | January 19, 2012, 1:02 pm 1:02 pm
Ummmm. “No” seems to be the way to say it. Instead of a tattoo she could have put the money towards a good deed like planting a tree in the yard with a small plaque – something to have that is a living memorial. The law is to prevent a parent from doing something to harm a child. If the child wants a tattoo, he can wait to be 16-18 when he can pay for himself and is of age to make up his own mind. A tattoo is a personal statement. While I do not like them, he is too young to make that determination that will affect his life.
Posted by: pksk531 | January 19, 2012, 1:03 pm 1:03 pm
Oh yeah the tattoo is for his dead brother therefore it is sacred
He won’t regret it when he can’t get a decent job above minimum wage
A tattoo is a tattoo–it is relatively permanent, it would cost thousands and take years to remove
You are not qualified to decide if you want to cover your arm in permanent ink at the age of 10
Would you feel the same way if he had his dead brother’s name tattooed on his forehead?
Posted by: sylvia | January 19, 2012, 1:05 pm 1:05 pm
This “woman” is a prime example of how the Atlanta area is now basically a third-world country. What human mother in their right mind would allow a ten year old to have ink injected into their still developing bodies, as a symbol or anything for any reason? Seriously – what mentality (or lack thereof) would allow this? You want to memorialize your son/brother? Then collect money for those in need in his name. Form a support group in his name for those who are dealing with the same loss. Have a portrait painted of the lost child and hang it above your fireplace – but allow your ten year old to be “inked” for it? Trash. I’m sorry… but just…. trash. And bring the hammer down on her.
Posted by: Atlantaphotog | January 19, 2012, 1:09 pm 1:09 pm
Arresting her was pretty extreme. I think her punishment should be for her to pay to have the tattoo removed. Once the child is old enough, he can have it put there again. There are more constructive way that he can memorize his brother. I cannot beleive that someone would consent for their 10 year old child to mar their body like that. I’m sorry, but that is Ghetto Parenting. You see all these teenagers with this body ink who will have to wear long sleeves or even not get hired when applying for a job. Kids often have whims that are not in their best interest. It is our jobs as parents to say no or at least not now.
Posted by: Juanita | January 19, 2012, 1:10 pm 1:10 pm
Ignorance breads.
Posted by: greg | January 19, 2012, 1:13 pm 1:13 pm
Tattoos does not a felon make!
Posted by: RZ | January 19, 2012, 1:15 pm 1:15 pm
For the silly people making the “black folks” comments….for God’s sake read a book. Many African tribes tattoo young children for cultural purposes. And WHY…when the law reads it is unlawful for any person to tattoo a child under 18…has the tattoo artist not been arrested rather than the mother?? SHE didn’t tattoo him, the artist did and the artist should have known the laws enough to say no.
Posted by: KC | January 19, 2012, 1:15 pm 1:15 pm
Can’t believe the authorities are pursuing this. BTW, shouldn’t the tattoo parlor have known the law?
Posted by: the Rifleman | January 19, 2012, 1:17 pm 1:17 pm
ARE THEY SERIOUS? Both the law enforcement & mom are wrong. First, couldn’t she just buy him a shirt with his brother’s picture on it instead of marking up his body for life? sure he won’t regret it but she should’ve had more common sense but as I look at her body, it’s easy to see why the child opted for marking up his own, which he probably would have or will do when he’s 18 anyway. The government should take a look at their law, where does it say that even if permission is given it still can’t be done? and if they went there, then they should be fining the tattoo artist instead of the mother because clearly the artist should know the law and should not have done it knowing the child’s age.. or at least this is what they are saying. And to the nosey person who just had to make it known…. why? why did you feel that this needed to be reported? why couldn’t you talk to the mom? why is it your business? why why why? speak up!!
Posted by: Mella | January 19, 2012, 1:20 pm 1:20 pm
Well, this needs to be considered under a Judicial Common Sense provision in order for Justice to prevail here and it just goes to show that no enacted law should not also include benchmarks and parameters that can adjust as warranted. [ not talking loopholes here ]
I for one never agreed with capital punishment for the sole reason that an innocent may be executed.
However, now believe that it NEEDS to be on the books simply as a deterrent in a society with generation’s deep lack of values for Human life.
Sounds like a contradiction but perhaps with the right benchmarks and parameters in place no innocent would be executed while a strong deterrent for indiscriminate killing may heighten the next generation’s awareness with a return toward a regard for human life as they might be more inclined to govern their actions accordingly for the ramifications.
Therefore in regard for Justice to prevail here, I too think that no harm came of this permission granted by a thoughtful mother even though ignorance of the law was sited and as more probably an overall positive ensued out of a tragedy for both Mother and Child.
Thanks for the forum.
Ed
Posted by: Ed Corliss | January 19, 2012, 1:21 pm 1:21 pm
I would have said something like,”I think it is wonderful that you would be willing to undergo getting a tattoo to show how much you loved your brother. But you are just too young to get a tattoo and I want you to wait until you are old enough. The love you and your brother had for each other is forever. It will always be in your heart.”
Posted by: Clemdane | January 19, 2012, 1:23 pm 1:23 pm
I would think the tatoo artist would be responsible for NOT tatooing a Minor…
And informing Mom, that it was illegal.
But then I would tell the child what I told my daughter about tattos…
When you are 18, you have the right to have any tatoo you want…
Posted by: MZLAUREL | January 19, 2012, 1:25 pm 1:25 pm
If it was a professionally done tattoo, the burden was really on the artist to know the law. We don’t expect people to know the regulations around an industry – it’s up to the professionals in the industry to know what the restrictions are. Her arrest is really a basic travesty of justice, even if she displayed some bad judgment. However, for some people tattoos are just a part of their lives – just like some people pierce their ears. And for people saying this kid is doomed because of a tattoo on his arm, I wonder what you would say to my military vet friends who have exited the military pretty much covered in tats, or my friends who own successful businesses and operate in the corporate world with several tattoos apiece? If anything is dooming this kid in life, it’s the fact that his mother appears to be pretty uneducated and probably isn’t pushing him to succeed in any meaningful way – and probably hasn’t gotten him the help he’s going to need after witnessing his brother’s death.
Posted by: JrzWrld | January 19, 2012, 1:27 pm 1:27 pm
To the poster that claims it is rare for white folk to pierce babies ears… try again. I see this all the time and it happens to be one of my biggest pet peeves.
Posted by: onlyanegg | January 19, 2012, 1:28 pm 1:28 pm
I don’t agree with her allowing it but as long as its up on his arm where a t-shirt can cover it, it will not harm him later. the mom being arrested is simply stupid. If anybody should be arrested it is the artist as it is their business to know & follow the law.
Posted by: J42 | January 19, 2012, 1:29 pm 1:29 pm
thats pretty stupid. in Montana, the parent has to sign papers and be present during the tattooing. the tattoo artist should have known the law and informed mom.
Posted by: Ruth | January 19, 2012, 1:31 pm 1:31 pm
Sorry, but she seriously looks like her mom got drunk a lot when she was pregnant with her. Maybe that explains the lack of judgment as well.
Posted by: michelle | January 19, 2012, 1:31 pm 1:31 pm
If parents allow their boys or toddler boys to get their ears pierced, what’s the difference?
Posted by: Boyd | January 19, 2012, 1:32 pm 1:32 pm
If you need a tattoo to remember some body, you have a terrible memory
Posted by: R.E. Dynamite | January 19, 2012, 1:33 pm 1:33 pm
“It shall be unlawful for any person to tattoo the body of any person under the age of 18, except a physician or osteopath.” Hmmm, why was she arrested? She gave permission, the tattoo parlor performed the act. If anyone is arrested, it should be the tattoo artist which would play into The Rifleman’s point. The tattoo parlor should know the law.
Posted by: dan | January 19, 2012, 1:34 pm 1:34 pm
GREG: “Ignorance breads.” Or in your case; ignorance posts. Unless you were referencing a bakery product I’ve never heard of, in which case, sorry.
Posted by: 2hundredthousand | January 19, 2012, 1:35 pm 1:35 pm
I have quite a lot to say about this. I agree with most of you that say the charges should be dropped. Why? Because most states DO allow tattoos on Minors WITH PARENTAL CONSENT. The Tattoo artist failed to tell her the GA Law and did it anyway. While “Ignorance of the law is not an excuse to commit a crime”, I still feel in this case there were two at fault – Mom and the artist. BUT – Then again, you have to take into consideration the environment the child is raied. His mother has tattoos and I am sure they are meaningful to her for one thing or another. She has RIP for her son, and thus the child sees it as something that is good and meaningful. So it makes sense that at 10 years old he asked for one. It will NOT keep him from leading a full life and getting a good job. It is located where it can be covered by a t-shirt sleeve. My children have tattoos, mind you my daughters’ first tattoo was on her 18th birthday, but still. This generation see tattoos as body art, and expression. Oh and in 20, 30 years, that tattoo will look just fine.
Anyone that has had a tattoo on thier shoulder area knows this was not harmful to the child. That is the least painful place to have a tattoo. And apparently it didn’t bother this boy, because he let the tattoo artist finish and it looks good. If it was too painful or too much, trust me, that boy would not have let it get done. Everyone has thier right to thier oppinion and to speak it. That is what my Dad and my brothers fought for in the Military. But I personally think it’s over blown and the media is making too big of a deal over it.
Posted by: Rhylan | January 19, 2012, 1:39 pm 1:39 pm
State laws vary state to state read the whole article
Posted by: Justin | January 19, 2012, 1:39 pm 1:39 pm
Tattoo’s were supposed to be slowly losing their stigmas. I work for the feds, everyone I work with has some sort of tattoo, whether its a butterfly on the ankle, or something. Heck I got my first tattoo when I was 17, they saw our college id’s and let us get one. It was my first week there and my Birthday is in December, but I was 17. I could see if he wanted, like his mother said, a tat of spongbob, but it was a memorial for his brother, I don’t think it was worth arresting the mother for, some people have some nerve.
Posted by: Court | January 19, 2012, 1:40 pm 1:40 pm
I have to agree with the mother. Whether you like it or not, it is nobody elses buisiness. I smell meddling xians behind the law.
Posted by: Dale | January 19, 2012, 1:40 pm 1:40 pm
While this isn’t the best parenting i’ve seen I think its wrong to hold her accountable for a law passed in 2010. I don’t know every single law thats ever passed. But if I went to have a service done, they should be aware and should have informed the mother it was illegal. I mean a lot of us think that consent gives the ok, so who would have thought to look up the legal aspect of this. I blame the tattoo shop. It was their responsibility.
Posted by: Red10987 | January 19, 2012, 1:40 pm 1:40 pm
I am very pro-tattoo. And it’s a great cause, a memorial tattoo. However, you don’t know, at 10 what you really want. If the child was sixteen, I would agree with everyone else, the mother shouldn’t have been arrested. But even at sixteen someone isn’t fully ready for a tattoo. At 10, that child is too young, it’s close to Child abuse in my opinion.
Posted by: Amanda | January 19, 2012, 1:42 pm 1:42 pm
While I think allowing a 10-year-old to get a tattoo is poor judgement the mother has every right to give consent for the kid to get one. The government has no business telling what people can or can not do relative to their own body. Most parents pierce their girls’ ears when the kids are young without ever caring to think whether the kids will grow up to like it. They should be the ones to be prevented. IMO, your body, your choice.
Posted by: Ryan | January 19, 2012, 1:42 pm 1:42 pm
10 to 1 this trash is collecting some sort of government assistance yet can spend money to get her 10 yr old a tattoo.
Posted by: holyhosehead | January 19, 2012, 1:43 pm 1:43 pm
Any decent lawyer could get her charges dismissed: The law, as written, doesn’t say anything about a parent consenting or not. It is against the law to do the tattoo itself on somebody under 18, so unless mom applied part of the ink herself then the only person who violated the law was the tottoo artist.
Posted by: Pondering It All | January 19, 2012, 1:44 pm 1:44 pm
It’s no worse than having him circumsized.
Posted by: gummibear760 | January 19, 2012, 1:47 pm 1:47 pm
The tattoo shop should know the law!…its like a bartender giving a 10 year old a drink because mom said its ok…..on the other hand that was a recent law placed into effect in 2010. the law makers need to sit and think up some new laws to keep their job. we probably have so many laws that we dont know of and or they are as stupid as this one. We are the government… we are the people for which it stands….We should be able to what we want to our human shell and if a child wants a tattoo and the parents make sure they know its on forever it should be ok. I let my sons get their ear pierced at young ages. Riddle me this…I recently read that we as tax payers are going to have to bail out and pay for bad investments into these solar energy/solar panel companies that bellied up and our did not use the cash properly? or, the last massive bail out of the banks???did we vote on that? do we vote for laws before they can be law? the so called government thinks they can do as they please???of course they do, we as a nation need to speak out and not take this corrupt abuse any longer!!!…oh, and how about Mit rommey or what ever his name is only paying 15% taxes and hiding millions in off shore accounts???why didnt they go after him as they did with other corporations and individuals that had accounts in off shore and Switzerland ? AND THEY CAN PRESS CHARGES AGAINST A MOM WHO LET HER SON HONOR HIS BROTHER WITH BODY ART?
Posted by: Mr. Steve | January 19, 2012, 1:49 pm 1:49 pm
The law says ““It shall be unlawful for any person to tattoo the body of any person under the age of 18, except a physician or osteopath.” Im pretty sure the mother didn’t tattoo the boy herself. She should have been informed of that law when she went to the tattoo parlor to get the child a tattoo in the first place, meaning the tattoo parlor and the person who gave the tattoo is liable. With every profession they should know all of the legal aspects about their business and if there is any question of whether it was legal or not they should have looked into it before giving a 10 year old a tattoo. Im not saying it was a good idea for the mother to let her kid get a tattoo, but the business who did the tattoo should have looked into it further for liability purposes before doing something like that.
Posted by: Jessecia | January 19, 2012, 1:51 pm 1:51 pm
You can pull life support, but not give parental consent for a minor to get a tattoo!? I call BS!!!!!!! Ridiculous to arrest the Mom & investigate the artist under such specific and emotional circumstances. US is becoming a police state. Stay out of our lives!!!!!!
Posted by: Skully | January 19, 2012, 1:56 pm 1:56 pm
You all are idiots who think that you can not get a “real” job with tattoos. Who says you can only get a minimum wage job with a tattoo? It’s not like he put the tattoo on his neck. I have 3 tattoos and when I go to get a job I simply wear appropriate clothing. I also don’t and never have had a minimum wage job. I am a professional with education. Wake up people
Posted by: Nijah Victoria | January 19, 2012, 1:57 pm 1:57 pm
Why is the tattoo artist not being charged. He should know the rules. I can understand that this mother did not know the rules and even though the kid is 10yrs old she is his mother and he wanted it to memorialize his brother. We do still live in America, don’t we?
Posted by: Seriously | January 19, 2012, 1:57 pm 1:57 pm
People comparing this to giving a kid alcohol are morons!
Posted by: Seriously | January 19, 2012, 1:58 pm 1:58 pm
The law is the law, and she broke it.
Posted by: kate | January 19, 2012, 1:58 pm 1:58 pm
Let me get this straight-
You can mutilate the genitals of your son as a newborn baby without his consent but if you allow him to get a tattoo if he wants one then that is a crime?
*Not that I advocate letting a kid get a tattoo but how is it worse to let your kid get a tattoo then it is to mutilate your son’s genitals at birth or pierce the ears of your child?
Posted by: Catherine | January 19, 2012, 1:59 pm 1:59 pm
This is ridiculous. Although the boy is a bit young for a tattoo… Ive had all my tattoos done by friends of mine at their homes. My daughter who is now 20 got a tattoo by one of my friends when she was 16 and continued on to get more by her friends after that. That eliminates the “shop” rules but i gave her my permission and sat in with her for a couple tats and her belly button piercing at age 17, its not that big of a deal once they’re over age 16 but younger than that and I draw the line. Now my younger daughter wants angel wings on her back but Shes almost 16 and i will make her wait until Shes 18.
Posted by: ALeigh | January 19, 2012, 2:03 pm 2:03 pm
Tattoos are revolting but trendy . But if people want them so be it. You cannot legislate common sense. There are probably many cases like this . People get tattooed in prison by even more unqualified artists.
Posted by: JayG | January 19, 2012, 2:04 pm 2:04 pm
The text of the law as quoted would seem to implicate the tattoo artist, not the mother. The reference to medical personnel makes clear the legislature intended the law to target practitioners, not parents. She’s not the one who “tattood her sons body”.
If Georgia wants to prevent minors from getting tattoos, that’s fine by me. The people who do it professionally must know and obey the law, and refuse underage clients. But bringing charges against this woman is overreach.
Posted by: ejoe1999 | January 19, 2012, 2:10 pm 2:10 pm
That ‘mother’ makes me sick! You do not give or allow any ten year old child a tattoo! It’s more than common sense! If he wanted to remember his brother with a tattoo then he could’ve waited until he was 18! She should lose custody of her son! When I look at my ten year old I see a child as you should see any 10 year old. Why would you think to do something permanently that is specifically for adults?! Do all you idiots that agree with this trashy woman think it’s okay to give 13 year old girls boob jobs? Where do you draw the line? I’m going to go ahead and blame this one on lack of education, morals, ethics, possibly mental disorder on the mothers part. Poor kid doesn’t have a chance.
Posted by: D | January 19, 2012, 2:11 pm 2:11 pm
Some of you say you should not alter a childs body until they are 18. How many baby girls already have pierced ears? How many children have those gauges in their ears? Belly button rings or tongue stud things? Nose jobs? Boob jobs? where do you draw the line?
Posted by: MSteele | January 19, 2012, 2:11 pm 2:11 pm
Atleast the mother did something that a lot would are saying is irresponsible n abusive….she took him to a salon to get it done…if this lil boy wanted it badly enough he could’ve been put in harm by going to an under ground artist n attracting a disease such as hep or aids. We as society have to realize that if our children are driven to do something…they are going to do it. Like the high society parents that think their kids are perfect, but are alcoholics n pill poppers. Or the ppl with strong religious beliefs who have teenagers that are pregnant. We as parents have a responsibility to keep our kids safe….safe means different things in different situations…this one I can say I understand why she did it the way she did.
Posted by: Aimee | January 19, 2012, 2:14 pm 2:14 pm
The best part is I’m sure it was paid for with welfare money.
Posted by: B_dog | January 19, 2012, 2:19 pm 2:19 pm
Ok, let me get this straight. This little boy loses his brother tragically and he wants something permanent to remember him, and the mom gets arrested and YET, we read about these little boys professing to be “transgender” (how an elementary school child even knows this crap, I don’t know) and allowed to join the GIRLS scouts, but no one does anything to these parents who allow these innocent children to live this.
Posted by: jayjay | January 19, 2012, 2:21 pm 2:21 pm
Nothing says I love (or loved) you like indelible ink. Stupid. It would have been so much more fitting to have given money to a charity in his brother’s name, to a food bank, to a scholarship fund. Anything would have been better than simply following the celebrity trend of getting a “memorial tat”. Dumb.
Posted by: Gretchen | January 19, 2012, 2:24 pm 2:24 pm
What is the difference between getting a tattoo and piercing a 5 year old (or younger’s) ears? If we’re going to arrest this mother, then we should arrest all the parents who allow their children to get their ears pierced. I say if he has his parents permission, then he should be allowed to get a tattoo. I wouldn’t give my children permission to get a tattoo, but that is my personal decision.
Posted by: Virginia | January 19, 2012, 2:25 pm 2:25 pm
Um… why are they going after the mother? Not that I agree with letting your ten-year old get a tattoo, but wouldn’t this be something the tattoo parlor or artist who applied the tattoo should be held accountable for? How is she supposed to know it is illegal?
Posted by: Amanda | January 19, 2012, 2:25 pm 2:25 pm
The general consent amongst the majority of the posts in a nutshell is government should not regulate mores that does not unwillingly harm an individual. The only issue is when something is accepted as social norm is indirectly has an effect (good or bad) on society, especially children. Why would a 10-year old want a tattoo in the first place? Because it is socially acceptable. What other issues will have an indirect effect on society as a whole?—Gay marriage, abortion, polygamy etc.
Posted by: david Claytor | January 19, 2012, 2:27 pm 2:27 pm
A reponsible parent with good judgment and a sense of morality would have told the child: I will put money in a bank account so that when you are 18 and an adult and still want the tattoo it is yours. Otherwise I will need the money to pay fines and Lawyers Judges fees for you to have one “now” even though it seems like the thing to do. Tattoos have an interesting psychology. I read that men in prison with a tatto of the virgin Mary are like 95%+ extremely violent criminals. It is a red flag to law enforcement as to the psychodynamics of an individuals character. People with tattoos of skulls are actially the most afraid of death. If you are afraid then they use your fear. etc Jews hated being tattooed with a number in WWII that was a human bar code .I view it as a personal branding is like telling the materialistic world you are a cow or sheep and this is the idea that owns me.
Posted by: Nakedskinwhennaked | January 19, 2012, 2:28 pm 2:28 pm
Unbelievable. Stupid, stupid mother.
Posted by: John | January 19, 2012, 2:28 pm 2:28 pm
I would never let my child do this, but find some other way for him to express his grief. However, having said that, the tattoo is harmless enough, and the child was there when his brother died, and the mother is right, she should have the right to consent. If the child went kicking and screaming and was being FORCED to do this, that’s another story. Therein lies abuse. After reading the story and listening to the audio, it seems there was some racial profiling going on here. The police rep that spoke took a bit too much pleasure and saying “this is not the way to do it” and “this is a crime.” Just because someone is poor, or not white, or not well spoken does not mean they are a bad parent. (and I am a white working woman, educated)
Posted by: PB | January 19, 2012, 2:29 pm 2:29 pm
Is it bad that all I keep thinking is how the taxpayers more than likely just PAID for this kid’s tat?
Posted by: Maccrew6 | January 19, 2012, 2:30 pm 2:30 pm
It seems to me they arrested the wrong person. The law as written in the article leads me to believe it should be the tattoo artist that should have beeen arrested. The mother didn’t do the actual tattooing.
Posted by: flipper828 | January 19, 2012, 2:31 pm 2:31 pm
I do not much approve of tattoos but I do not believe the government has a right to tell anyone what they can and cannot do with their body. If the boy’s mother approved him getting a tattoo, the State of Georgia should keep out of it. That is just another way for it to persecute black people, as far as I am concerned.
Posted by: AlnHouston | January 19, 2012, 2:33 pm 2:33 pm
It was a memorial for his brother that DIED!! The people that are giving her a hard time about this must not have ever lost a brother/child. I think he should be comended for wanting to display a memorial of his brother. To have something that people will see everytime they look at him and everytime he looks in the mirror, is like having him right there with him at all times. LEAVE THIS FAMILY ALONE!! HAVENT THEY GONE THROUGH ENOUGH!! I see nothing wrong with it in this case. It’s not like she let him get curse words all over his face and body. This is a tasteful act of rememberance. Focus on the real child abusers!
Posted by: Steph | January 19, 2012, 2:40 pm 2:40 pm
I think the crime was committed by the tattoo artist, not the mom. He should be banned from doing this for a living. He should have known the law and refused. I have no issues with tattoos and I think wanting a memorial to his brother was very sweet. But, I don’t think children should get tattoo’s becuase they haven’t stopped growing yet. That tattoo is going to look horrible when he’s an adult and his skin stretches. Although cleary from looking at it the tatoo artist was amatuer so it already is too large and not well done.
Another poster made a good point that ear piercing is more barbaric and should not be allowed on children either. I am always horrified to see a baby with piercings. They didn’t ask for it and it hurt them!
Don’t put the mom in jail. Give her probation or community service and explain that allowing the tattoo really wasn’t using her best judgement. Her heart was in the right place and she is grieving as much as her son is over the loss of her child. The tattoo artist needs firmer punishment though.
Posted by: Anni | January 19, 2012, 2:44 pm 2:44 pm
“10 to 1 this trash is collecting some sort of government assistance yet can spend money to get her 10 yr old a tattoo.” Posted by: holyhosehead | January 19, 2012, 1:43 pm 1:43 pm — Hmm, what makes you think the woman is not a doctor, nurse, attorney or some other kind of professional? Just from your post, I’d bet Newt gets your vote.
Posted by: dan | January 19, 2012, 2:47 pm 2:47 pm
Leave this mother alone… she’s been through enough already….
Posted by: Rhea | January 19, 2012, 2:48 pm 2:48 pm
I wonder how many of you posters berating this woman have the ears pierced on your cute little darlings.
Posted by: dan | January 19, 2012, 2:51 pm 2:51 pm
ghetto is as ghetto does.
Posted by: rick | January 19, 2012, 2:51 pm 2:51 pm
I have never gotten a tattoo for a couple of reasons. One, a lot of countries and social circles and clubs and companies will not let you enter their circle or borders if you have any tattoos. Two, the governments of the world have so many ways to keep tabs on who we are, why would I want to make their jobs even easier? Three, I have noticed that people with tattoos, rarely have only one or two. Four, I have very nice skin, and don’t wish to foul up one of my few real assets. Five, I would not date or spend too much time with a woman with too many tattoos or piercings, so why would I expect any different from any potential friends?
Posted by: rotaryseven | January 19, 2012, 2:52 pm 2:52 pm
What do you say to a ten yr old that wants to get a tattoo? NO!!! who’s the adult here? He wanted to do somehing to remember his brother…get good grades in school, go to college, make something of yourself..there are many ways to remember a dead loved one besides getting a tattoo!!! what is wrong with people and parents today??
Posted by: cw | January 19, 2012, 2:55 pm 2:55 pm
While I can’t agree this Mom made a good choice allowing this for a 10 year old….why is she being arrested. They stated the 2010 law is that it is unlawful for anyone to tatoo a minor…..did the Mom do it….no she took him to have it done…..why isn’t the tatoo artist being arrested.
Sorry for the lose of you son and brother. May God speed you comfort at this difficult time.
Posted by: Sue | January 19, 2012, 3:01 pm 3:01 pm
To the people making black folk comments. Im a white male and i love pierceings and tat’s in fact i have a few of each my ears my nose and 8 different tat’s .
if i had a kid who shared the same interest as me and was getting something done he wont regret then im for it 100%. I never get something im gonna regret 30 years from now.
And if your getting it done right i dont see the harm.
And as far as busting the artists just think of how many underground artists there are doing tats on minors.
I think its kinda racist to black people to say there doing this like saying only a blk person would dare steal. Its a part of traditonal culture.
Many groups of people and races have learned from that culture. An artists paints on paper well some paint on skin whats the big deal
Posted by: jb690 | January 19, 2012, 3:02 pm 3:02 pm
What I find disturbing, is in our country, our government requires you to have a license to cut hair, yet they allow anyone to be a parent. It’s like we care more about a bad hair cut than we do bad parents.
Posted by: Tod | January 19, 2012, 3:05 pm 3:05 pm
I also think this is the fault of the tattoo artist, more than the mother. I believe, while it was a bad decision, she really didn’t know. But, the tattoo artist is required to know. You can clearly tell this kid is not 18, and the artist obviously just wanted the cash. The “Earrings on Infants” debate is hilarious. I don’t know what narcissistic parent would find THAT in their child’s best interest either? Causing a baby such constant discomfort, annoyance and the risk of infection, for what? Looks? Babies don’t care how they look.
Posted by: Alison | January 19, 2012, 3:05 pm 3:05 pm
“Earrings on Infants” IS poor parenting! I don’t think any intelligent parent would disagree with you.
Posted by: HMK | January 19, 2012, 3:09 pm 3:09 pm
This is ridiculous. While I don’t agree with the mom’s decision, I do NOT believe she deserves to be arrested. What about the tattoo artist? They are the ones that should KNOW the laws about tattooing minors, and that they can’t do it even with parental consent. Give the family a break!
Posted by: pfk | January 19, 2012, 3:11 pm 3:11 pm
Of course the tattoo was paid for with government money, just listen to her.
Posted by: trish | January 19, 2012, 3:15 pm 3:15 pm
What did the father have to say? Uhh, silly question… sorry. Any how, he will be quite sporty looking when he finally does his stint behind bars. Does she have her tattoo on the same arm she is collecting her benefits with?
Posted by: GORSHEN | January 19, 2012, 3:18 pm 3:18 pm
Really? Tattoo looked horrible and the girl is going to grow; that number will be faded and stretched out. I would prefer investing in money… Wait, there getting well fare from the government.
Stupid people shouldn’t be able to breed. A fine example here.
Posted by: C | January 19, 2012, 3:24 pm 3:24 pm
What do you say to a child who wants to honor a dead sibling? You say, “Let’s give a smalll donation to a charity in honor of your brother”, “Let’s plant a tree…”, I can go on, but I’ll stop here.
Posted by: Jennifer R | January 19, 2012, 3:27 pm 3:27 pm
There’s a slippery slope here. Unfortunately, if you give parents the right to tattoo their child – how long before a parent walks their 7 year old into a tattoo parlor and has Nazi emblems etched into the child’s forehead and face? Not long, I promise you. And then the child is marked for life. You think that child will have an easy time finding gainful employment later on that doesn’t require wearing a paper hat? I think not. Let’s be responsible with our children and not mark up their bodies in ways that SERIOUSLY limit their future choices for employment and success in life.
Posted by: Hanna | January 19, 2012, 3:30 pm 3:30 pm
There should be an IQ prerequisite for anyone leaving comments. Most of the posts here just scream out “I am a bigot and a biased moron from judgementvile usa”!
Posted by: ALeigh | January 19, 2012, 3:30 pm 3:30 pm
This mother did not break the law! The law states “It shall be unlawful for any person to tattoo the body of any person under the age of 18″, not give consent. The tattoo artist committed the crime here. At any rate, I doubt very seriously this child will ever regret a tattoo in rememberance of his brother, so I say, let’s catch real criminals and leave this family alone!
Posted by: Ginger | January 19, 2012, 3:33 pm 3:33 pm
Not into Tattoos myself, but I have no problem someone else getting one.
Parents are getting little girls ears pierced early as hell… why is that ok??
Posted by: anotherday | January 19, 2012, 3:38 pm 3:38 pm
Is it bad that all I keep thinking is how the taxpayers more than likely just PAID for this kid’s tat?
Posted by: Maccrew6 | January 19, 2012, 2:30 pm 2:30 pm ________________ No, not bad. Just stereotypical thinking, which highlights the smallness of your mind.
Posted by: MsT-Mac | January 19, 2012, 3:38 pm 3:38 pm
Child negligence is in fact a crime therefore the mother IS at fault an did break the law
Posted by: Vincent Nelson | January 19, 2012, 3:43 pm 3:43 pm
Wait, an Atlanta woman is arrested for letting her boy get inked, but a female California couple is allowed to sex change their adopted kid?!?!?
Posted by: oakgrovehobbitt | January 19, 2012, 3:48 pm 3:48 pm
Whoa, Big Fellas with Badges! What about that pesky old First Amendment? It guarantees the right to free speech. Just because the State wants to keep the chilerin’s skin nice and clean doesn’t mean this Mama gonna do that. And that is because she has a right – A RIGHT! – to deface her child while celebrating the death of her other child. And just because this boy will carry his brother’s memory on his body forever and ever, likely making it difficult to get a reasonable job in the process, doesn’t mean that the State has a vested interest in keeping his skin pure.
Anyway, if I was Mama’s lawyer I would start screaming First Amendment and see what sticks!
Posted by: Nunya Bidness | January 19, 2012, 3:51 pm 3:51 pm
I am white so some of you will not agree with my thinking. Now I will get down to the nitty gritty. This child must have really loved his brother to want something that permanent. Being Black has nothing to do with his tatoo. Being Black with a tatoo doesn’t automatically mean that he is Doomed to low paying jobs the rest of his life. Being Black doesn’t automatically say that they are on Welfare. Where I live there are more Hispanics on Welfare than anyone else. And a lot of them are from across the border (from Mexico) and illegal. This law was enacted in 2010 which means most people would not even know about it, even some of the licensed tatoo artists. If mom signed paperwork allowing the tatoo that should be the end of it as long as she was there during the session. The person at the school who reported this needs to get a life. They can’t talk to the mother first and find out the circumstances surrounding the tatoo. It was wrong to arrest the mother in the first place. I really hope that she can get a decent lawyer that can get this family back together. The child needs his mother with him at this point in his life. He has suffered enough already losing his brother in an accident. I will leave my soapbox now.
Posted by: Lena | January 19, 2012, 3:52 pm 3:52 pm
The government has no business telling parents that there kids can’t get tattooed. Especially in a case where the kid wants to honor his brother.
Posted by: Atheists are smarter | January 19, 2012, 3:55 pm 3:55 pm
Child negligence is in fact a crime therefore the mother IS at fault an did break the law. Posted by: Vincent Nelson | January 19, 2012, 3:43 pm.
How is this negligence? She was charged with misdemeanor cruelty and being a party to a crime.
Posted by: A Cynic | January 19, 2012, 3:58 pm 3:58 pm
BRUCE:”From looking at daily arrest reports I can say with confidence that anyone with a tattoo on their neck, specifically, either has been, or will be going to jail at some point in theri life.”
That photo is of the mom.
The son had HIS tat done on his arm.
Just FTR.
Posted by: RAVEN | January 19, 2012, 4:07 pm 4:07 pm
Seriously? if this prosecutor’s office has enough time on its hands to go after a case like this, maybe the taxpayers can find a better use for their money then supporting this office. What a waste of time, money and effort with a bit of ‘malicious prosecution’ thrown in for good measure.
Posted by: Pongo | January 19, 2012, 4:15 pm 4:15 pm
RAVEN: “I think she is a fantastic mom for honoring her son’s desire to honor his late brother in such a tasteful, lasting way.” – By the time this lad is in his mid-teens and his body shape has changed the tattoo will be unrecognisable.
Posted by: 2hundredthousand | January 19, 2012, 4:19 pm 4:19 pm
1st- who the hell said you can’t get a job with tattoos, I work at a National Organization which advocates for children and education and work directly under the Executive Director, I use to be an 8th grade teacher, hold a college degree, married, never been to prison- so think again- you all sound dumb and judgemental. I could look at each and everyone of you and find something that I dont like about you but it doesn’t mean that I am accurate- persception is only an opinion- not fact. Secondly, if she went to a licensed tattoo artist, it was his duty to explain to her the law. Thirdly, her choice in parenting is her choice- no where did it prove she was neglectful so all of you ignorant ranting no lives mad cause you cant have children- go advocate for something worth advocating for like ending childhood hunger you idiots
Posted by: youallaresostupid | January 19, 2012, 4:23 pm 4:23 pm
You wanted a big government for welfare, bailouts, etc. This is what you get. The larger government is, the more laws and interference into your life. They go hand in hand.
Posted by: R. Glenn | January 19, 2012, 4:32 pm 4:32 pm
I HAVEN’T READ ANY OF THE COMMENTS YET, BUT ACCORDING TO THE “LAW”- “It shall be unlawful for any person to tattoo the body of any person under the age of 18, except a physician or osteopath.” IT DOESN’T SEEM LIKE THE MOTHER DID ANYTHING WRONG, UNLESS SHE HERSELF
TATTOOED HER SON! THAT’S WHAT THE LAW STATES, AND IF THEY’RE SERIOUSLY GOING TO PERSUE THIS, THAN THEY NEED TO FOLLOW THE “LAW” AND LEAVE THIS MOTHER ALONE! WHETHER I AGREE OR NOT WITH A 10 YEAR OLD GETTING A TATTOO, IS BESIDE THE POINT. LIKE SHE SAID, ITS HER KID AND SHE GAVE CONSENT. FROM THAT POINT ON, ITS UP TO THE TATTOO ARTIST/COMPANY TO FOLLOW THE LAW!
Posted by: L | January 19, 2012, 4:37 pm 4:37 pm
How is this any different than earrings or circumcisions or other painful things done to young children, before they even know about it? Reading the headline I was going to say, yah, maybe bad decisions on the parent’s part, but not something to be arrested over. But upon reading it was a memorial for his brother, COME ON! I think this is something that can be overlooked!
Posted by: Bob Z | January 19, 2012, 4:49 pm 4:49 pm
2HUNDREDTHOUSAND:”RAVEN: “I think she is a fantastic mom for honoring her son’s desire to honor his late brother in such a tasteful, lasting way.” – By the time this lad is in his mid-teens and his body shape has changed the tattoo will be unrecognisable.”
With all due respect, that is a load of bollucks.
This is an old myth about tattoos and is simply not true in most cases. Perhaps by the time one is 90, the Hula girl on your belly might be distorted out of all shape (much less say incapable of dancing the Hula anymore, lol) but for the most part, tattoos hold their shape with only slight alterations for many decades, esp. when on the arm, as this boy’s is.
The evidence of this is all around…let’s see, check out the “Winoa/Wino Forever tatt on Johnny Depp’s upper arm or the one for his mom on the other upper arm (even older) or the Indian cheif on his arm (even OLDER)…they all look fine, even though he is pushing 50 and they were done in his 20′s or younger.
Posted by: RAVEN | January 19, 2012, 4:50 pm 4:50 pm
Where is the dad?
Posted by: paigecabin | January 19, 2012, 4:53 pm 4:53 pm
I live in Georgia. And its stupid that the state allows 16 year old get marriage when pregnant with parent consent but is so upset when someone allows their child to get a tattoo. And as far is people with tattoo will be or has been in jail that’s completely not true i got one when i was 13 with parent consent. I’m an excellent student 3.5 GPA and I’m college so stop the stereotyping that’s a bunch of bull. Not all people with tattoos are criminals. And the mother should not get charged with anything that is her child how the government going to tell her what she should do with her child? Maybe Georgia should arrest all the parents that has pregnant minors?
Posted by: Jasmine | January 19, 2012, 4:59 pm 4:59 pm
These tats will permanently lower his earning potential but will look great in prison. Thanks MOM!
Posted by: ozakrazorback | January 19, 2012, 5:11 pm 5:11 pm
Tattoos are not cheap. She should have used the money to get her son braces.
Posted by: Mindy | January 19, 2012, 5:21 pm 5:21 pm
how is this different than ear piercing?
Posted by: Sheila | January 19, 2012, 5:24 pm 5:24 pm
Wow. There are much more severe crimes being perpetrated. I don’t think this is a crime at all. Bad judgment? Maybe, but she’s the mother of the child. Spend tax dollars on convicting and prosecuting child molesters, rapists and stalkers. What the hell is wrong w/ people?
Posted by: Naomi | January 19, 2012, 5:24 pm 5:24 pm
I’m tired of people profiling against blacks….its a tattoo for his dead brother….Jeez get over it….People do more terrible things and everyone is worried about a tattoo…He made the decision on his own free will plus whoever did the tattoo should be held accountable anyways….People get tattoos everyday doesn’t mean that their bad people, criminals, felons or thieves…. Alot of the working class people have tattoos…. People need to get a life and mind ur own business and worry about what’s happening your own household because ain’t nobody perfect PERIOD!!!!
Posted by: LELE | January 19, 2012, 5:27 pm 5:27 pm
Why all the “welfare” comments? Oh, thats right…because she is Black. But I am to think, from the commentary out there, that Blacks are simply exaggerating when they speak of racism…well I see it LOUD and CLEAR from reading these comments. You should be ashamed. The mother was wrong, I get that. But to constantly bring “welfare” or her race into the discussion PROVES that it is NOT them that do the “race baiting”! I am sitting here disgusted. IF this article had a blond, blue-eyed Nordic looking woman…welfare would not even be mentioned(even though PLENTY of whites are on welfare). Nowhere in the article did it mention she was on government assistance, and there is only one reason you idiots would assume she is. The little boy may grow up to be a college grad w/a professional career…none of you know one way or the other. And I agree with others that say the tatto artist should have been the first one prosecuted…wonder why he wasn’t?
Posted by: QW08 | January 19, 2012, 5:27 pm 5:27 pm
Mom should have steered her 10 year old toward another way of memoralizing his brother. She could have explained to him that when he’s 18 he can, if he chooses, get a tattoo.
Posted by: Xanthippe | January 19, 2012, 5:28 pm 5:28 pm
if a mother cant give consent then why was the mother allowed to give consent….she most like dosent know the tatoo laws of georgia…. this country loves make people criminals…it was for his brother that recently died…..unbelievable
Posted by: preloe | January 19, 2012, 5:31 pm 5:31 pm
I have nothing against tattoos, but I do agree that children should not be allowed to get them. There are some CRAZY parents out there I can only imagine what some kids would be walking around with tattooed on their bodies if there were no laws in place to protect them.
Posted by: JP4GA | January 19, 2012, 5:58 pm 5:58 pm
2 stupid adults. Question: What do you tell a little boy, only 10, when he asks you if he can get a tatoo in memory of his brother, who has passed? Answer: No, I’m sorry, you may not. If you still want to do this when you are an adult, at least 18, that would be fine. Lets come up with another way to celebrate the life of your brother. It’s really not that difficult to be a responsible and loving parent.
Posted by: Cynthia | January 19, 2012, 6:02 pm 6:02 pm
They need to leave his mother alone. Damn it’s his brother. If my son wants to get a tattoo, I will get him one no matter what the damn law says
Posted by: Keisha | January 19, 2012, 6:31 pm 6:31 pm
Yes! Until the kid is 18 years of age and can’t blame the parent later for her mistake
Posted by: Patty | January 19, 2012, 6:42 pm 6:42 pm
The mother should be given a warning and the charges dismissed. The person who should have the book thrown at them is the one who did the tattooing. They are in the industry and they are the ones who should be making the decisions based on the law. If a ship goes down, because the captain is following a request to go closer to land, it’s not the person who made the request’s fault. It’s the captain where the full responsibility should be placed. Same goes with this situation…
Posted by: Alli B | January 19, 2012, 6:54 pm 6:54 pm
I’m fine with the tattaoo because it’s honoring his brother. This is a memory that will never fade. I do find it ridiculous that people are so quickly to judge this family for this situation. I know plenty of doctors, lawyers, dentists, nurses, and high end business owners with tatoos. Education, the color of your skin, not having a father that’s involved, or welfare has nothing to do with body art. I do applaud this mom because this child came to her and ask. You have no idea how many times i came across parents who has no idea what their kids are doing. I agree with body art not gangster tattoo with guns and the number of people you killed. THAT’S TACKY!
Posted by: Chris | January 19, 2012, 7:06 pm 7:06 pm
THE LIABILLITY SHOULD FALL ON THE TATOO ARTIST — JUST AS WOULD HAPPEN IF THE MOTHER WANTED THE KID TO GO BUY BEER… THE ESTABLISHMENT HAS THE LIABILITY. HOW DOES THE TATOO ARTIST NOT SEE THIS IS A CHILD? HOW DOES THE TATOO ARTIST NOT ASK FOR SOME IDENTIFICATION? PATHETIC!!! THEY SHOULD LOSE THEIR LICENSE!!!!!
Posted by: Shannon1131 | January 19, 2012, 7:25 pm 7:25 pm
Who reported her? No i didn’t read all this. so tattoo shop reports her? why didn’t they say ‘no’ instead of doing it then reporting her.
woman been through enough-take out the fact that his brother died-and the article is on a mom who lets her 10 yr old get a tattoo-now do you change your answer?
Posted by: kat_ham | January 19, 2012, 7:49 pm 7:49 pm
If it is illegal to tattoo a minor with parents permission the the tattoo artist needs to be arrested as well!! They know it’s against the law……. If the mother is charged the artist needs to be arrest and charged also!!
Posted by: Yvette | January 19, 2012, 7:57 pm 7:57 pm
They do reside in Atlanta, Georgia (where racial controversy is still an underlying issue). The person that snitched is more than likely white. Either way, the mother should not have gave her consent for that child’s tattoo. I believe that the mother should’ve gotten fined (not arrested), and the artist who administered the tattoo should have been the one arrested.
Posted by: JayBaby72 | January 19, 2012, 8:16 pm 8:16 pm
The news briefing stated that the law enforcement had to look and find the law that she broke. during that time an average of at least a hundred dui’s, several murders and thousand of drug deal’s a couple of children kidnapped, and some sick pervert had time to hide the body of their latest victim that will likely never be found.all so the county could prosecute a minor misdemeanor that holds fine of around a hundred dollars and a couple months of probation. I do not agree with the mother allowing the child to get a tattoo but it isn’t really any of anyone’s business how she mothers her child. it isn’t like she was abusing him or making him get it against his will. It’s amazing that people take the time to sit around and come up with laws that tell us how to raise our kids. I wonder if the people who come up with these laws have kids their self?
Posted by: Bandon | January 19, 2012, 8:37 pm 8:37 pm
I am trying to figure out why the mother was arrested????? They said that no one should tattoo anyone under the age of 18… Did she tattoo him herself???? No I didn’t think so.. So why isn’t the tattoo artist arrested instead of the mother??? she probably really didn’t know the law on that matter but considering that he does that for a living shouldn’t he have known the law??? and shouldn’t he have refused to do it? I believe that he should be the one arrested instead of the mother.. i am not saying that i agree with the mother’s decision to allow the boy to get one.. but then again where is how she parent’s her child my concern??? Or anyone’s for that matter?? what make us so special that we can say she’s wrong or right???
Posted by: Jessica | January 19, 2012, 8:44 pm 8:44 pm
Personally I don’t agree with ear piercing for kids under 11 or 12, and since I don’t have male organs I can’t have an authoritative opinion about circumcision. There are differences between piercing kids’ ears, circumcision, and a10 yr old with a tattoo.
1) ear piercing is essentially reversible–just take the earrings out and in time the holes will grow closed.
2) unless someone is wearing earrings or you look at their ears very close up, you can’t tell if someone’s ears are pierced or not.
3) standard ear piercing requires one needle pierce of each earlobe, and it’s over in seconds. A tattoo requires many needle sticks over a length of time–long enough for the artist to draw the image.
4) because circumcision is (rightly or wrongly) a religious ritual and a requirement of Jewish and Muslim males, banning it raises all sorts of First Amendment issues. The city of San Francisco tried not too long ago to ban circumcision and they had huge backlash.
5) tattoos are forbidden in some religions, such as Islam and Judaism. The LDS church and some Christians oppose tattooing. So if this kid gets a tattoo at age 10, this could signficantly limit his ability to make religious preference choices later in life.
Posted by: Cassandra | January 19, 2012, 8:58 pm 8:58 pm
Wow! Can’t believe that happened?!? FYI – My tattoo artist, in Portland does a fine job of black and white portraits.
Posted by: Mason | January 19, 2012, 9:21 pm 9:21 pm
People who have tattoos understand – if it’s done as a memorial or other personal reasons, what is everyone’s problem w/it? Tattoos can be removed or covered later if he wishes. I think he took plenty of time to think about it, wanted to keep his brother close, & the design is tasteful. After a significant loss, I felt my tattoo was part of the healing process (& I swore I’d never get a tattoo).
To me, it’s a way to deal w/grief. I don’t have a problem w/it at all. He seems like a good kid, & I think his mom’s reasoning was fine & thought-out. Aren’t there larger problems out there to address?
Posted by: Katherine | January 19, 2012, 9:23 pm 9:23 pm
Where do these mothers come from. Why???? Let the boy pick up a book and read a story to remember his brother. We need to stop this nonsense. Let’s worry about getting into a good college to remember our fallen brothers. Mom WAKE UP.
Posted by: Sherry Walker | January 19, 2012, 10:02 pm 10:02 pm
You know I am from Georgia and watched the story on TV. While I wouldn’t allow my child to get a tatoo this seems to be sad., The mom agreed to do it because this childs sibling died in front of him and it was his way of coping asking to have his brothers name tatooed on him. I honestly think that sometimes you have to consider the psychological state of the mom and the child after going through this loss. They needed counseling not more problems brought on by ignorance but help. This arrest is ridiculous and at most they should have been offered psychological counseling. A truly sad state of America with no commonsense. You have laws but even judges and the wise know sometiimes they have to bend alittle. Extreme and ridiculous in my book. They need help! Jail barbaric.,
Posted by: Steve | January 19, 2012, 10:13 pm 10:13 pm
Parenting FAIL
Posted by: Marcus Wilson | January 19, 2012, 10:24 pm 10:24 pm
What hypocrites let’s go to every high school in Georgia and lets count all the tattoos on all that are under the age of 18, they start high school as a freshman tatted up…hey I am just saying!!! All the crime in Georgia, my neighbor just got her house robbed but no arrests but they made a break with this one, the mom, the child, and the tattoo, a big case for this one!!!
Posted by: Monique | January 19, 2012, 10:52 pm 10:52 pm
I do not agree with the arrest, nor do I agree with many of these VERY racist comments. Just because a little boy wanted to get a tattoo in rememberance of his 12-year-old brother, who DIED in front of him. It’s not like he got a gang-related tattoo! It’s meaningful. It’s art. And the boy should be able to express himself through a tattoo, if that’s what would help him grieve! More important laws are broken EVERYDAY, EVERY WEEKEND!! How about underage drinking??? Is that just going ignored now-a-days? A tattoo isn’t as dangerous as doing drugs, drinking and/or driving under the influence! Is that little boys’ tattoo hurting anyone? Or is that just someone crying out for some type of control over this woman? Her arrest is ridiculous, to me; and, really? Child abuse? I really do NOT believe that this hurt the child any more than physical pain when it was getting done. It was a choice. No one forced him to do it. Shame on the negativity and ignorance that goes on these days.
Posted by: Pamela | January 20, 2012, 12:33 am 12:33 am
As a mother of 2 teenage sons, I was asked if they could get a tatt with my name cause I’m all they have, & I was flattered! but my response was no because u are a minor but when you become an adult its up to you what you do, & I advised to be smart & think about it. Dead or alive I’m still their mother, but a tatt is something they can regret later, they can find other ways to show their love & THAT’S WHAT SHE COULD OF TOLD HER SON …….
Posted by: kewanda jones | January 20, 2012, 12:38 am 12:38 am
All I can say about the mother is that I am not a parent; therefore I have no idea how I would deal with the loss of a child. My heart goes out to her.
The most major problem is the teacher calling the cops instead of the parents .There’s absoloutely no excuse for that. As far as the tattoo artist, it is possible he had a valid license and didn’t know of the law enacted in 2010. He probably works in a legal shop that has to pass an inspection every year with the health department- part of passing is providing proof that the owner or manager is certified in knowing the laws and health department standards regarding tattoing. The thing is that these certifications are probably valid for 3 to 5 years which means that whoever took the class or test may have gotten certified prior to this law taking effect. That having been said, I do believe ignorance of the law IS an excuse because this is the first time the police bothered to enforce it (because they had to look it up before arresting her). Lastly, as far as your tax dollars paying for the tattoo, it cost a lot less than putting this woman through the legal system for trying bond with her son in the wake of a family tragedy.
Posted by: King Friday | January 20, 2012, 1:50 am 1:50 am
This makes me sick. The fact that this sort of ignorant animal is allowed to breed goes to show how little hope the human race has. What makes me even more sick are the people sticking up for this low life.
You know what you say to a ten year old CHILD who wants a tattoo… EVEN a memorial of his dead brother?
NO. You are too YOUNG.
When you are an ADULT I will help you pay for it, but those laws are there to protect you, and I am a RESPONSIBLE, LAW ABIDING PARENT.
She’s just lucky that poor kid didn’t get hepatitis or some other disease. A tattoo shop foolish enough to tattoo a ten year old has NO STANDARDS.
And neither do the defenders of this BS.
Posted by: Ivan | January 20, 2012, 2:00 am 2:00 am
so was the tattoo artist arrested too????????????????????
Posted by: Abby | January 20, 2012, 2:04 am 2:04 am
This is why we DON”T NEED Big Government! The government should be out finding parents that kill their kids…
I’m white but if this was a rich white kid they would not be areesting the parents but the tattoo artist.
Problem is there are so many laws who knows all of them???
Posted by: Nique Ta Mare | January 20, 2012, 2:27 am 2:27 am
Crack is Wack!!!!!
Posted by: abdul | January 20, 2012, 4:31 am 4:31 am
Please people, cut the nonsense about the so-called “African heritage”. I’m from Central Africa and i can guarantee you : we do not get tattooed in Africa. Only convists get tattoos, prison-made tattoos. It’ very much frowned upon to have one. Both my grandmothers didn’t have tattoos, it is absolutely not a tradition in Africa, and i have been on many African countries, christian and muslim countries, and gess what…African people don’t get tattooed. So it’s maybe an African-american “thing”, but they did not inherit that from Africa, where its considered gross to have your body invade and mark that way…
Posted by: Frédérique | January 20, 2012, 4:38 am 4:38 am
Why is law enforcement so powerful and headstrong against things like this when we have much more serious matters that they should be focusing on? They would ignore the gangs, drugs, burglaries and spend all their time locking up poor black mothers. Ridiculous.
Posted by: Davis Bradley | January 20, 2012, 5:08 am 5:08 am
Oh please! This all comes down once again to black and white. If this had been a white mother the police never would have been called. Why didn’t the law apply to the tatoo artist? Why wasn’t he or she arrested? There seems to be someone in news weekly receiving what I call previleged justice and they’re never black! Shoot and kill 9 people and you’re a white male you don’t go to jail, allow your son to honor his brother and you’re black then you’re held to the letter of the law. Abc do you ever run positive stories featuring blacks?
Posted by: Lolly | January 20, 2012, 5:19 am 5:19 am
So Let me get this straight. People such as Justin Beiber, selena gomez, miley cyrus, soulja boy, bow wow, to name a few, can get more then one tattoo before the age of 18 and it’s cool. Where was the possible jail time for the parents of these underage patrons. Its a shame that it’s ok for them but now its such a big deal. I don’t agree with kids under 18 being tatted but i also don’t think that this mother should be punished. Put the parents of the aforementioned kids in jail too for that matter. Then i’d be able to understand. Further proof that when you have money any freaking thing goes huh? SMDH! got to love how the rich always win and the regular everyday people get F’d over. God bless america.
Posted by: Ubiquitous Essence | January 20, 2012, 5:56 am 5:56 am
i can not believe all the judgement that is being posted about this woman! how many of you on here have lost a child? so what, it is a tattoo ! her race or financial background have nothing to do with it! is this what our country has come to? every generation gets tattoos. the is question about allowing her son to get a tattoo……why do some of you judge her by her color, assume she is on welfare and say that her son will amount to nothing! her son showed love, compassion and respect for someone he loved with something that will always be with him. that gives me hope for his generation…..because what I see on the news and tv with kids that young are doing or their parents are doing for them scares me. stop judging her for trying to help her son cope with the loss of his brother!! I am sick to see how so many would rather see this woman locked up and this boy put into foster care over this!! it amazes me that most here think their parenting skills are better…….where is the compassion for them that they lost a son…a brother?? I would like to know how many on here would voice their ugly and judgemental comments to her and her sons face?? how many who say tattoos are a jail sentence and that you won’t amount to anything if you have one actually leave their house?? ask your friends, family or neighbors…..I am sure you would be surprised who has tattoos! they are expensive….you won’t find many low income people with them…..check in the suburbs and colleges for tattoos, and body piercings. stop judging this woman and show compassion for her loss
Posted by: kat | January 20, 2012, 6:13 am 6:13 am
Illegal to get a tattoo, something that CAN be reversed with some difficulty.
Legal to circumcise all you want though, why is that body alteration allowed? Religious reasons?
Is there a religious exemption for tattoos?
Posted by: Jack | January 20, 2012, 6:20 am 6:20 am
The law was enacted to protect children with parents to ignorant to make right decisions. I agree the tattoo artist should be punished but the original story states the mother has not been cooperating with authorities. The tattoo does not look professional and looks like a “jail house” tattoo, in my opinion I think mom paid someone her or dad met in lockup to do it. The kid is not old enough to accept the potential risk of hepatitis, aids and the other risks associated with getting a tattoo. Mom should have known better and deserves to be punished and reffered to some good counseling. If you don’t like the way Georgia law is written get the heck out of my State!
Posted by: Joe | January 20, 2012, 7:38 am 7:38 am
Jack, I live in this backwards state of Georgia where men are allowed to pierce their privates and women are not. If women do they are subject to 2-20 years in prison. Now that is backwards! I bet you wrote that bill
Posted by: Casey | January 20, 2012, 8:24 am 8:24 am
MSTEELE wrote:Some of you say you should not alter a childs body until they are 18. How many baby girls already have pierced ears?
Excellent point.
Posted by: Joseph | January 20, 2012, 8:34 am 8:34 am
I think it’s crazy that with parental consent you can lob a baby’s foreskin off, a permanent alteration, without religious reasons but not tattoo your kids if you want. In Egypt, Christians tattoo their 2 year olds with a tiny cross on the wrist. I guess all those parents would be arrested here too. Idiot laws.
Posted by: Casey | January 20, 2012, 8:34 am 8:34 am
I think parents have a right to do whatever they want with their kids- including screwing them up. It’s the beauty and scary part of being a parent.
My personal opinion is that I would never ever give a child a tattoo! EVER! They don’t need tattoo’s. I believe circumcision is wrong. If I had a daughter, I would wait to get her ear pierced until she asked. However, ear piercing and a tattoo are NOT the same thing, it’s an uneven comparison.
What credible tattoo artist would ever give a child a tattoo anyways?
Posted by: Jaclyn | January 20, 2012, 9:11 am 9:11 am
I allowed my 10 year old daughter to get her ears pierced because she wanted to do it. Should moms be arrested for that too? If a child wants to do something, and the parent is in agreement, why does the government get to say otherwise? And I do not mean stupid things children want to do. No I do not advocate allowing children to do what they want in all circumstances, but a parent should have authority in most issues.
Posted by: ray | January 20, 2012, 9:34 am 9:34 am
First of all, a ten year old should not be getting a tattoo. They make those temporary tattoos just for them. Many people have presented the argument that babies get their ears pierced and that causes pain, so why not a tattoo. Well, an ear piercing comes out and is no way permanant. A tattoo is not something that comes off easily or without pain. This is a blatant lack of common sense with parenting. If the kid wants to honor his brother, he can plant a garden or make a sign.
Posted by: Heidi | January 20, 2012, 9:41 am 9:41 am
If the child and mother were caucasian, and the tatoo was cross, i seriously wonder if we would be reading about this. Most of you are making some pretty severe criticism of this mothers character and the childs future based completely on steriotypes. I am in the miltary and almost everyone I know, male, female and all races, now have tatoos. Get a grip. This is not 1950!
Posted by: Chris | January 20, 2012, 9:46 am 9:46 am
I believe that the mother( parents) should be able to make that choice for their children, not laws or government. I personaly don’t have tattos, but all 4 of my children do, (all 18 & over), Everyone they have tells a story, or is in rememberance of loved ones. So I am with the mother on this one.
Posted by: Laurie Seymore | January 20, 2012, 9:47 am 9:47 am
It’s insane how many of you all automatically assume she is on welfare & that this was paid for with government money & she is uneducated & doesn’t care about her son or whatever. Y’all are some snooty ass people. Because she is black & has tattoos she is definitely on welfare & a bad parent? Y’all have no idea what kind of person she is. It’s just crazy how quick y’all are to judge someone just from a 2 minute clip on the news… Anyways, a 10 yr old shouldn’t be getting tattoos but it isn’t anyone’s place to tell him that he can’t but his mom. I have a 7 yr old & would laugh if he asked me but that is MY choice, not anyone else. I, in no way see how anyone says this is child abuse, cruelty or whatever, it’s a freaking tattoo done by an artist, not a broken bone inflicted upon him by his mother. There are MUCH bigger fish to fry out there… Go after the Casey Anthony’s that are killing their kids, or parents that are truly abusing their kids, real live cruelty, not a mother who made one decision that she didn’t know was illegal & took as a sweet gesture. It may not make sense to you, but who said what you think is right anyways..
Posted by: Jessica | January 20, 2012, 9:50 am 9:50 am
With a mother like that, what hope does the child have ?
Posted by: Robert | January 20, 2012, 9:55 am 9:55 am
i think if anyone should have gotten in trouble it should have been the tattoo artist. Just because someone does something out of the norm according to society, everyone is against it. It was something that was sentimental. Not some gang number or phrase. Just because it’s something you personally wouldnt do doesn’t mean it’s wrong.
Posted by: marisa | January 20, 2012, 10:06 am 10:06 am
He will regret it if he ever reads the Bible and believes what it says.
Posted by: TriTam | January 20, 2012, 10:06 am 10:06 am
The law is the law and exceptions can’t be made for individuals just because it’s in memory of his brother. HOWEVER, the tattoo artist is the one who should be coming under fire. The mom did not know it was illegal (and many people wouldn’t know that parental consent isn’t enough), but a licensed tattoo artist SHOULD know and turn down the job. The mom should, at worst, be getting a slap on the wrist. The tattoo artist should be facing charges.
Having said all that, I do see the inconsistency with tattoos and piercings on minors. It’s something that perhaps should be reviewed.
Although, personally, I wouldn’t want to see parents having their kids tattooed before the kid understands the permanence of the decision. How many adults have regretted a dumb tattoo?
Posted by: Watson | January 20, 2012, 10:31 am 10:31 am
She should not have gotten arrested for this. As a kind-of-heavily tattooed person and obvious ink lover, I must say that waiting a couple years would have been appropriate. When I was younger you had to be 18 to be tattooed or 16 with parental consent. 10 is a little young, but it was done for respectable reasons and why are tax dollars being wasted arresting this woman?
For those of you throwing bible comments at this, grow up. If you are God’s child you would respect, welcome and love everyone regardless. Continue to go to church on Sunday with upchuck on your shirt from the night before to have a probably child molester wearing a cross tell you, you are forgiven for your sins…wacko…
Posted by: Lauren | January 20, 2012, 10:38 am 10:38 am
The law is the law, no matter how emotional the situation. That’s why we have them. In this case, I’d give the mother probation and I’d put the tatoo guy out of business. He definitely knows what the law says.
Posted by: Bob | January 20, 2012, 10:55 am 10:55 am
In ancient Pictish society tattoos (especially on a woman) meant that you and your family had rank within the society. The more tattoos a woman had on her body, the higher ranking her husband had as a warrior and provider. I would not have my child tattooed that young, but I did allow my oldest to get her nose pierced at age 16. (And she did modeling locally –without her nose stud –Lol!)
My advice is: get over it. The law is a dumb one to begin with and probably pushed by those who equate tattoos with criminality. Which is really the criminal act!
Posted by: Naj | January 20, 2012, 10:58 am 10:58 am
I don’t understand why she should get arrested for it considering I have seen tons of people have their 1 month old up to 3 yrs old have tattoos on them. I don’t approve of it at all until the child turns 18 then it’s up to them.
Posted by: Merlia | January 20, 2012, 10:58 am 10:58 am
What is most apparent based on the comments here is that most of you can’t read. There was no tattoo on the kids neck, it was on his arm. The tattoo artists has not been charged because the mom refuses to give up the name. Having a tattoo on your arm will not stop you from getting a job, most jobs require a shirt. Tattoos can be removed, you can also add color to tattoos as they fade over the years. Don’t get me started on those of you who judge how others raise their kids. All you know about this mom and here kid is the tat part of their life, yet you judge them like you know the family.
Posted by: jay | January 20, 2012, 11:13 am 11:13 am
I would never allow my child to get a tattoo at 10 nor 18. However what she does to her childs body as long as its not harmful,should be her business. There are more important things goin on in the world,than us reporting about a tattoo on a 10 yr old.
Posted by: Chappelle | January 20, 2012, 11:16 am 11:16 am
No PROFESSIONAL tattoo artist would have done this tattoo. In the article, it was mentioned that the tattoo could have been done “jail house style.” Which means someone, tattooing illegally out of their home, was the person likely to have done the work. This is yet ANOTHER reason Scratchers, the tattoo industry term for people who tattoo out of their homes, should be given harsher penalties for endangering the public health.
Posted by: Celeste | January 20, 2012, 11:21 am 11:21 am
As a mother of two boys, one being ten, I cannot say I would allow him to get a tattoo. HOWEVER, as many people have posted it is a memorial to his brother not a gang tattoo and if the mother consented I don’t understand what the issue is. There are much worse things happening so they need to busy themselves with the real crimes instead. And as for the people accusing this mother of creating a future criminal just because he has a tattoo that just shows pure ignorance. Ink on an arm doesn’t make a criminal, you shoulf think before you speak!
Posted by: Angela | January 20, 2012, 11:22 am 11:22 am
THIS IS FOR MANDA ARE YOU A PARENT IF NOT THEN KEEP YOUR OPINIONS TO YURSELF B/C GA HAS STUPID LAWS AND THIS IS A PRIME EXAMPLE WHERE THEY SHOULD ENFORCE THE LAWS THEY DON’T SO AS STATED EARLIER IF YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT’S GOING ON KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT
Posted by: EMMA | January 20, 2012, 11:23 am 11:23 am
WOW….This is where we are now i see. I personally could give a care less about what one does with their child as long as they are not abusing them. I just read someone’s statement saying the woman should lose custody of her kid due to this…ARE YOU SERIOUS??? That’s a bit drastic. What you do in your house may not be what one does in their house..This is just another way to separate people and class. No one is mentioning all the little rich white kids that are getting tattoos but let some Black person’s child get one and it’s off with her head…If you people do not get it together we will continue to fall apart. Putting a mother in jail over a tattoo is a bit much, I bet you don’t see any white people in jail for crap like this…They way the government separates us is wild, Now I’m not saying I agree with the whole scenario because my son sure as hell is not getting one of his dead brothers uncles sister or anyone else for that matter until he is grown, but that is my opinion and how it works in my household. She felt strong enough to get her son one no matter how raunchy it looks that’s on her. He is going to have to live with that tatto for the rest of his life not none of us….
Posted by: Chantelle | January 20, 2012, 11:37 am 11:37 am
He should have gotten spong bob instead.
Posted by: Josh | January 20, 2012, 11:41 am 11:41 am
I feel like the government has no right to interfere with a parents decision to let their child get a tattoo of his dead 12 year old brother. The government is acting like the child is being brutally beaten. Instead of worrying about this parent the government needs to be out there arresting parents who are neglectful and abusive. Also, for the people who said this child is going to be a future felon; how ignorant are you? So are you saying just because one has an tattoo they are going to be in prison or jail?! no!!!!!!!
Posted by: MariAnn | January 20, 2012, 11:42 am 11:42 am
So, we can shove pieces of metal through INFANTS ears without their consent because it’s socially acceptable, but this boy decides and asks for this memorial tattoo and his mom goes to jail. Makes perfect sense. We let murderers and rapist go free but God forgive a parent gives permission to something that state disagrees to.
Posted by: Anon | January 20, 2012, 11:46 am 11:46 am
So what if your kid wants to tip a 40 to the memory of his brother, is that going to be ok with Mom too? Ridiculous. Take him for some jailhouse crap tattoo at 10 years old and probably expose him to Hepatitis with some dirty drug infested scratcher tattoo “artist”, just because you can’t say no? Here’s an idea, tell him when he’s grown he can get whatever tattoo in memory of his brother. For the time being, print him a picture or something. Good grief!
Posted by: RG | January 20, 2012, 11:46 am 11:46 am
Lakasumbooooooooooooooooooooooooooodie, I think She shouldn’t go to jail because if the mom thinks it’s OK I think its OK.
Posted by: Korn | January 20, 2012, 11:48 am 11:48 am
I would like to know where has it been proven that just because he or her gets a tattoo that they will likely be arrested for something down the road. There are many law abiding citizens with tattoos. People need to quit stereo typing people and worry about themselves being a law abiding citizen
Posted by: Marvin Tillman | January 20, 2012, 11:53 am 11:53 am
okay, to me this is not as bad as somethings people get. it is a remembrance of his. like really ?
that should not have charged her. it is her child, if he wanted a tattoo then he should be okay. it is on his body then it is fine. if he wants people to talk crap about him then he can. if he didn’t then he shouldn’t get one. it is his choice of what he wants on his body. i mean he is going to end up getting one anyways.. i think that the person that gave him the tattoo should get charged, cause he didn’t tell the mother that it was against the law to let a miner . i am a 13 year old girl but i don’t think it is that bad, but in some ways it is bad, it depends.
Posted by: Courtney Tilley | January 20, 2012, 11:54 am 11:54 am
I think that it would be ok because as long as it is ok with the parents then it should be ok.The only person that should be punished is the one who put it on it.
Posted by: Bob Jr | January 20, 2012, 11:54 am 11:54 am
This is ridiculous, the mother has the authorithy to give permission to her son for this. She takes care him, she feeds him, she takes him to the doc when he is sick, no one has more rights to him that her, therefore that is between her and her son,she does not hurting her son in any way doing this, was a decision between them and its nobody business , shake my head people , get in cases where the mom do not feed the kids, or do not send them to school, or abuse them, quit being in noise and take things to the extreme, whoever order her arrest is hurting the kid seen that his mommy is at jail, that is causing more damage to the kid that the tattoo itself.
Posted by: Lida | January 20, 2012, 11:55 am 11:55 am
She looks like Jay Z.
Posted by: Leaf | January 20, 2012, 11:56 am 11:56 am
Someone has to step in, when parental judgement is skewed by emotions. My grand daughter got a tattoo, a picture of her father, on her left shoulder after he died unexpectedly. She was 14, her mom approved (my daughter). We understood her pain of losing her father, but did not agree because of her age. It should be controlled through the artist giving them, and now have clear cut laws.
Parental guidelines have become cloudy in this generation. IT’S NOT OK.
Posted by: Tina | January 20, 2012, 12:00 pm 12:00 pm
Losing a child is not something a theapist or counseling can help. It is not like losing any other person in your life, mom, dad, sister, brother etc…. There is no way around the grief, it is a roller coaster that you can not get off and the only way is go through it. Unless you have been there you can never understand the depths of pain you live with for the rest of your entire life. I have come to understand there is no greater love than that of a parent for their child. I agree she should have told her son when he is 18 he could make that choice and only for that reason. But in this case alone I believe this woman should be granted mercy as she is hurting in a way that is very hard to bear and not thinking as clearly as she would have normally.
Posted by: Jesus | January 20, 2012, 12:03 pm 12:03 pm
The child wanted a tat to remember his brother that dose not make you a criminal!! its her son and his body he should be able to do whatever he wants!!!!!!
Posted by: Mary Had A Little Lamb | January 20, 2012, 12:06 pm 12:06 pm
IF you ask me both the mom and should be ashamed of there self but they do not need to be thrown in jail putting that grieving women in jail with all those crazy wholegrain who are real felons is just wrong how dare they she most be in a bad state wit the lost of her son so i feel bad for her
Posted by: Tanookah | January 20, 2012, 12:07 pm 12:07 pm
Though the mother’s decision isn’t something I would have allowed my own child to do– she is his mother and I have no right to place my values and ideals on her. She has experienced the loss of a child and the son has lost his brother. Haven’t they been through enough? All charges should be dismissed. Ridiculous.
Posted by: Kimberly Beward | January 20, 2012, 12:08 pm 12:08 pm
If the mom is cool with it then I am cool with it. the laws there are so harsh. >:^(
Posted by: Korn | January 20, 2012, 12:08 pm 12:08 pm
Cody love’s Tiffany
Posted by: Cody+Tiffany=LOVE | January 20, 2012, 12:09 pm 12:09 pm
Reallyy??? I mean com’on she should have not let her child get a tattoo at the age of 10-YEARS-OLD! that is too young in fact you should NEVER get a tattoo because (well I believe in God) and getting a tattoo is against the Bible….I would never let my kids get a tattoo even if they r 30 or 40-Years-old.
Posted by: KP | January 20, 2012, 12:09 pm 12:09 pm
Real talk his brother died he loves him enough to scar his body in remembering
Posted by: Da Kidd | January 20, 2012, 12:09 pm 12:09 pm
I believe that the child SHOULD be able to have the tattoo because A) He wanted it, and B) His mother said it was okay. There was no need to arrest the mother, only the tattoo artist. The mother did not deserve to be arrested.
Posted by: CapnDesDes | January 20, 2012, 12:09 pm 12:09 pm
As a tattoo artist myself, I understand what went on here. Here is a son and a mother that faced a dark tragedy and for the woman to be arrested is ludacris! I have had underaged clients and the parents gave consent to have the tattoos done. I do agree that 10 is a little young, but it’s not like it was an illicit tattoo. It is a memorial for a deceased sibling. I think that is a great honor to his brother and not something that should be condemned. The lawmakers need to focus their efforts on more demanding things than 2 consenting parties getting a tattoo. I think it is neglectful of the state to enforce such a law in this situation. Save it for if the parent forced it upon the child! I cannot believe that in this day and age a parent’s rights to decide what is good for their child is taken away from them. Would you believe that when a child gets a sunburn the parents can be prosecuted for child endangerment??? What has this world come to? I’m disgusted with the charges against this poor grieving mother!
Posted by: Blayre | January 20, 2012, 12:10 pm 12:10 pm
Sorry for the lost of her son leave her alone
Posted by: Mrs.Sally Walker | January 20, 2012, 12:11 pm 12:11 pm
I’m not sure baby earrings and circumcision are comparable to tattooing. Ear piercing and circumcision are both brief and precise procedures–and earrings aren’t necessarily permanent, but tattoos are wide-ranging and difficult to reverse, what if the kid wanted a full-back with multiple colors? Arm sleeves? That’s why we don’t go on the word of a consenting child alone, who does’t yet have full mental capacity for understanding consequences. Also, laws that restrict parental actions are put in place to protect kids from their own caregivers because we recognize that parents do not always act in the best interest of a child. In this case, it’s not in the best interest of children to get tattooed, therefore no parent has the “right” to tattoo their kid. To me, this mom sound well-meaning but ignorant. There are worse crimes, but she shouldn’t have pursued this.
Posted by: Ava | January 20, 2012, 12:11 pm 12:11 pm
think that it is OK because it is his body and he should remember his brother but he wanted something to remember his brother forever and ever proboley instead of a tee shirt with his name and it get to small.
Posted by: someone | January 20, 2012, 12:12 pm 12:12 pm
i am a 39 year old mother and i would never let my child get a tattoo. The reason i say that is because my son is th most vaule person to me in the whole wide world
Posted by: mom | January 20, 2012, 12:13 pm 12:13 pm
This is crap
Posted by: KORN | January 20, 2012, 12:14 pm 12:14 pm
he wants to remember his bro forever and ever probably.
Posted by: kid | January 20, 2012, 12:14 pm 12:14 pm
mom should not be arrested the person that did it should be in stead!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by: Royla foru | January 20, 2012, 12:14 pm 12:14 pm
D-money- RACIST
Posted by: yo mamma | January 20, 2012, 12:15 pm 12:15 pm
I just want to comment on a few things…
1. the people who said that some “black people” shouldn’t have kids… what do you say to the Latina grandmother who threw her infant grandchild off of the 6th floor and killed it. Or the white man who sexually abuse his kids? Some of ALL people should not have kids… your statement was pure ignorance.
2. All people trying to justify this by saying that black people get tattoos because of African customs…. This is also BS most Black Americans know just as much about African Customs as White Americans know about European Customs, close to nothing by experience anyway. ALL of my white friends (which is plenty) pierce their daughters ears many of them have tattoos as do many of my black friends and friends of other races and NONE of them would let their 10 year old kid get a tattoo no matter what. Trying to group people into boxes because of race is stupid especially since I know that everyone on this blog has seen white people with tattoos covering 75% if their body and with those weird crazy piercings…. Let the race crap go EVERYONE.
The point is this little boy is 10 and is a child. If you let him do everything when he is a child he will have nothing to look forward to when he is an adult. He needs to wait… he can find other ways to remember his brother get him a piece of jewelry with his name on it…. Not a tattoo. We as Americans of all races need to take a good look at what we teach our children about priorities… They are only kids for a little while and once they are adults it is forever… Tattoos, slutty clothes, make up, boyfriends, girlfriends, sex , cursing all of that can wait. They will be exposed to it in the world eventually so why rush them to it… Let them maintain their innocence as long as you can because life is hard and they will enough time to worry about the BS of the world. Focus on raising good hearted and intelligent kids that will grow into good adults and hopefully be able to chose what is right and wrong for themselves….
Posted by: Rakira | January 20, 2012, 12:16 pm 12:16 pm
1. Read the article. The police said it looked like a jail house tat. Plus, she probably went to a licensed tatoo artist and found out she couldn’t do it legally, and got an amateur to do it. Then she wants to claim she didn’t know…BullSh!T She knew and lied about it. Great lesson to teach your children.
2. Bottom line, Ghetto parenting. Anyone who says otherwise is Ghetto too. How hard would it be to say..”Aww that is so sweet, but your only ten. Let’s find another way to remember your brother. At 18 you can get a tatoo like mommies”
3. This has been a law for a long time. Next all the tards on here will say it’s ok for teenagers to smoke. We know it’s not, that is why they passed laws keeping cigarettes and alcohol out of the hands of kids.
Posted by: BB | January 20, 2012, 12:17 pm 12:17 pm
It is pretty amazing though how well people stereotype a picture. The paper does not state what income bracket the woman is in, doesn’t state her address her social security number her employer, her police record if she even has one, but so many are ae under the assumption this must be a poor woman…I must say reading all your comments makes me realize what I already knew to be true, White people still think less of Black people and that our government has done a very good job of separating Black people as a whole. Black people that feel they are not poor and on welfare think less of Black people that are, not realizing white people don’t like your black azz either….This article isn’t really all about a 10 year old getting a tatto cause at the end of the day who the hell really cares he is not your son it’s about dividing and separating people. When are we going to stop that madness????
Posted by: Chantelle | January 20, 2012, 12:20 pm 12:20 pm
I think the law is bull. That law was just passed a year ago so how could the mom have known. NOT to mention the tattoo artist did the work and HE should have known the laws and told her. I am with the mother though. UNTIL YOU LOOSE A CHILD LIKE I HAVE YOU NEVER REALLY UNDERSTAND THE HURT OR THE NEED TO REMEMBER THEM, and if that is in the form of a tattoo then I am all for it. It isn’t like it was some stupid tattoo or something. It was a brother wanting to remember his brother. I would have done the same thing the mom did and you can disagree all you want but that IS her child, and that law is just yet another way the law sticks its nose in your business so they have yet another way to make money off of us hard working citizens. UNTIL YOU LOOSE A CHILD LIKE I DID then you shouldn’t have an opinion on this because YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND THE HURT OR NEED TO REMEMBER THAT CHILD and if your only living child wanted to do something to memorialize the child that was gone YOU would have probably done the same thing too
Posted by: jsd | January 20, 2012, 12:26 pm 12:26 pm
what a bunch of dumb posts by a bunch of dumb folks… i am a teacher with 11 tattoos and no i’ve never been to jail and HELLO it states that the mother REFUSES to give the name of the tattoo artist and it states that it looks similar to a prison tattoo because they don’t believe she went to a professional shop for fear of being turned away because of the law…
Posted by: ap | January 20, 2012, 12:30 pm 12:30 pm
This is insane. The “Law” has no right to interfere with a parent’s decision. Last I heard this was the land of the free. Not so much in Georgia I guess.
Posted by: Brian | January 20, 2012, 12:32 pm 12:32 pm
If is was a white celebrity’s child in Hollywood it would become the next fad. Ear etc. Piercing, and plastic surgery is common in the children of the wealthy at this age. If the boy and mother want this why should the go@3mn government have any say. Get out of our lives!!!!
Posted by: Mike | January 20, 2012, 12:39 pm 12:39 pm
OMG EVERYBODY IS WORRIED ABOUT THE WRONG DAMN THING!!!! GET A LIFE! WORRY ABOUT SOMETHING WILL BENEFIT THIS COUNTRY,,,,,FOR EX THIS ECONOMY OR ABOUT WHY IT IS SO HARD TO GET ANOTHER JOB!!!!!!!!! LEAVE THIS LADY AND THIS CHILD ALONE!!
Posted by: Ashley | January 20, 2012, 12:41 pm 12:41 pm
You people are defending a woman that took her child to get a “jail house” style tattoo….you should all avoid having children of your own. There is enough ignorance in this world without adding more people to the pool. It is NEVER okay to do this. The way it was done is dangerous and it isn’t a proper way for a child to mourn. Ask any therapist or counselor and they will tell you how stupid this woman is. Quit defending her. He’s going to want it removed and redone properly the second he turns 18. Stupid, stupid, stupid woman.
Posted by: Lua | January 20, 2012, 12:47 pm 12:47 pm
“CHUNTERA”??? LOL.
Posted by: Col. Sanders | January 20, 2012, 12:48 pm 12:48 pm
My husband is a tattoo artist so I fully support tattoos on adults. However, a 10 year is not an adult, does not have the brain function and reasoning of an adult and should not be able to legally make the decision to permantly alter their body in a noticeable way. It should not matter WHAT the tattoo is, the point is a child should not be able to legally make that decision about their body. Other commentors keep bringing up ear lobe piercings, but those are such a tiny alteration that it is barely noticeable if there is no jewelry in the hole. You can choose to take out piercing jewelry, you cannot remove a tattoo without spending quite a bit of time and money, so it is not a valid comparison.
Aside from that, there are many other way that this child could have memorialized his brother until he is 18. From my personal experience I find that there is a relationship between impulse control and tattoos. Many children do not have the impulse control to wait until they are of legal age to get a tattoo; many adults will not wait until they can afford a tattoo to try to get one. If something is so important that it will be on your body the rest of your life, what is the rush?
Posted by: Melissa | January 20, 2012, 1:01 pm 1:01 pm
I think that the moms shouldnt be arrested but also shouldnt go unpunished either, she had to of know it was illegal no matter what she claims and for that she should have to pay a fine and i think they should make her take the health classes that tattoo artists go to so she can know the risks she put on her son
Posted by: Ashley | January 20, 2012, 1:12 pm 1:12 pm
Tritam — YOU will regret being JUDGEMENTAL if you ever read the Bible and believe what it says.
Posted by: MsT-Mac | January 20, 2012, 1:14 pm 1:14 pm
@ LUA… Being the father of 4 children I’d probably encourage my 10 year old to find another way to celebrate his siblings life and passing. BUT… If I approved of his being tattoo’d it’s none of your friggin business, nor should it be that of the state’s either. These people are overstepping their authority with this kind of legislation.
If you truly want to be free a vote for Ron Paul is a good start.
Posted by: Remington | January 20, 2012, 1:15 pm 1:15 pm
It must have been a slow day for the Acworth P.D.. Let this mom and her son grieve in peace!
Posted by: David | January 20, 2012, 1:19 pm 1:19 pm
It might be bad parenting,and I personally think it was wrong for her to do it,But is it really any business of the Government.They could really care less if she had of killed the kid before it was born,even lied and paid for her to do it.But to arrest her for letting him get a tattoo?Government needs to STFO of every ones personal lives.Next they’ll have bathroom monitors that require you to wipe front to back under penalty of jail time if they continue to get their way They will claim that it falls under the all inclusive commerce clause because you bought toilet paper from an out of state company instead of using you’re local obtained fingers. And the liberal controlled courts will agree with Holder at the DOJ.
Posted by: eddy james | January 20, 2012, 1:20 pm 1:20 pm
She should be in jail for naming her kid “Gaquan.” What is that?! Maybe that makes perfect sense to someone named “Chuntera.”
Posted by: Dave | January 20, 2012, 1:20 pm 1:20 pm
First off its Georgia.
Secondly, if you read the comments you notice that most of the comments that are against the mother are racist comments.
Wake up Georgia, the mother should not have been arrested.
I personally would have not let my child get a tattoo, no matter the reason. I would have offered of the options as a visual, like a wall painting or a painted picture. That way when he got older he could have made the decision to transfer the picture to his skin.
But that’s ME and MY child.
Posted by: KarlaJ | January 20, 2012, 1:24 pm 1:24 pm
So all you idots are for the government telling you how to raise your kids but yet they can give the kids birth control, condoms and go to clinics without a parents consent. But you want to make remarks about this mother giving her son consent to get a tatoo in his brother’s memory, something that will be with him rest of his life and help him cope with seeing his brother killed by a car. Thats the way me and my children coped with losing their father eleven years ago, we all went got tatoos with a nickname and a heart, something that represented him and my youngest son just got another tatoo with his dad’s and uncle’s intials with a four leaf clover and i’m fixing to get one with his name and all three of my children’s names.
So I’m with this mother at least she was thinking about helping her son with his grief and not just thinking about herself and i know a lot of people only thinks about themselves.
Sorry for your loss and son stay in school and make yourself and your mother proud.
Posted by: betty | January 20, 2012, 1:25 pm 1:25 pm
there is a lot of laws we never hear about this now more than ever we r toke in control by the gov. r rights r taken from us more n more what is it going to be next look at all the things the gov trying do to us today u may c how later u wont be able do a lot of things leave that that mother alone she did what some of us do in r culture
Posted by: for real | January 20, 2012, 1:31 pm 1:31 pm
Parents are giving their kids hormone suppression therapy so the kid(s) can decide if they want a sex change.
But a tattoo, a tattoo is abusive.
The state owns your kid.
Posted by: Montford John Greenwood | January 20, 2012, 1:32 pm 1:32 pm
I wouldn’t let my son get one but I don’t think it’s the government’s right to make that decision. I’ve seen parents who should have been arrested for real abuse but are still free. This seems like a waste of tax payer’s money, go get the real criminals.
Posted by: Person | January 20, 2012, 1:33 pm 1:33 pm
The woman should be b**ch slapped for giving her kids stupid names then again for allowing a 10 year old to get a tattoo. The “artist” should also lose their license for doing this.
Also, how stupid will the tat look when the kid is 20 and filled out. He looks like a scrawny turd right now.
Posted by: jb80538 | January 20, 2012, 1:36 pm 1:36 pm
To all of you who are commenting that a tattoo will ruin his life and ability to get a job above minimum wage you have no clue what your talking about. His arm is easily covered up and it wont effect his job abiliry unless hes wearing sleeveless shirts to work. I have well over 10 tattoos and i have a very respectable job in the medical field and have never been turned down for any position. I agree that he is a bit young but it is a memorial to his brother somthing that he will want for the rest of his life. just another thing the government is trying to control.
Posted by: Sarah | January 20, 2012, 1:43 pm 1:43 pm
She may not have too much to worry about. I read a man in Floyd County in Western Georgia had his 3-year old tattoo “daddys boy”.
I know the 3 year old didn’t ask for that, he may grow up to hate his daddy.
But he only got 12 months probation and a $300 fine. Hers SHOULD be much less.
Posted by: karlaj | January 20, 2012, 1:45 pm 1:45 pm
In Georgia a parent can get arrested for permitting a minor to get a tattoo, but the courts in Georgia can permit a minor to get an abortion without parental consent. This is crazy.
Posted by: Kristy | January 20, 2012, 1:45 pm 1:45 pm
Welcome to post-constitutional facsist America where everything is illegal, selectively enforced. People should mind their own business and quit making trouble just because they can. This ‘mandatory reporting’ bullsh*t has gone way too far!!
Posted by: Cheryl Anne | January 20, 2012, 1:52 pm 1:52 pm
So is it illegal to get their ears pierced too? This is really dumb. Parents rights apply unless physical harm is being done to the child. Tattoos are not harmful. So getting a tattoo is against the law for an underage minor with parents permission, but getting an abortion is legal without parents permission. Society is becoming quite ludicrous!
Posted by: Wade | January 20, 2012, 2:00 pm 2:00 pm
Chuntera Napier demonstrated a complete lack of common sense. her kids should be taken away from her.
Posted by: Tyrone | January 20, 2012, 2:17 pm 2:17 pm
If she was consenting for him to get a sex change operation that would have been perfectly legal.
Posted by: shawn Tippie | January 20, 2012, 2:19 pm 2:19 pm
Why wont the gov’t just leave us alone!
This sums it up right here “How can somebody else say that it’s not okay? He’s my child, and I have the right to say what I want for my child. I can’t go tell anybody else what I want for their child.”
I completely agree with her!!!
Posted by: George | January 20, 2012, 2:20 pm 2:20 pm
I don’t agree with mom allowing her son to get a tattoo at the age of 10, or before 18 at any age. With that being said I am appalled to know that there has been another law enacted that takes away the right of a parent for their own children. Just because I don’t agree with mom and son for making the decision they made, it’s not my place to judge them or tell them what they should do or believe. What scares me the most about what is going on in this country is the fact that we have all become so judgmental when someone sees something from a different perspective than our own. It is instantly considered wrong. Grow up, take care of yourself and your own family and stop judging others that don’t see things the way you do. Stop electing people that take away your right as a human being to chose what is right for you and your family!
Posted by: sthrnbrn | January 20, 2012, 2:20 pm 2:20 pm
if they’re gonna arrest a mom for LETTING her 10 year old get a tattoo, then swat should be kicking in doors of families with circumcised infants.
According to the American Academy of pediatrics, the data to support any benefits are not sufficient to recommend routine neonatal circumcision. In other words, we’re just following traditions some other idiot came up with.
Posted by: Corey | January 20, 2012, 2:27 pm 2:27 pm
Mother of the Year. hope he didn’t contract hepatitis or some other disease from getting the tat. god knows she looks like the type that goes to the finest and cleanest of tattoo parlors. LOL
Posted by: caligula | January 20, 2012, 2:30 pm 2:30 pm
The right to tattoo your child aside… the point is that this was likely (according to the article) to have been done by someone not trained to professionally do tattoos. In most such cases, improper care of equipment could be a serious issue. Reused needles that are washed in hand soap and dried with a kitchen towel are not safe.. If she refuses to name the tattooist, it was very likely not to be a professional in the area.
Posted by: Common Sense | January 20, 2012, 2:38 pm 2:38 pm
I have to agree with Cheryl on this matter.. How can it be illegal to allow your child to get a tattoo, but your child can get pregnant on her own & have the baby aborted on her own without her parents ever knowing about it!?! Tattoos are no different then getting you ears pierced & people have that done to 9 month old babies all the time.. WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE PEOPLE? This 10 year old boy wanted to remember his brother forever & with art that the world could see. Why is that so wrong? I think the police should worry about the other criminals & crimes happening today that put real lives in DANGER.. not a boy wanting to remember his brother! Geeeeeeeez…
Posted by: Toni M | January 20, 2012, 2:38 pm 2:38 pm
This is stupid . . . the Mom has every right to raise her son however she wants.
We cannot legislate stupidity, and if the Mom wants to have her son’s ears pierced, have him circumsized, or have him tattooed, where does it end?
Interestingly enough, if a “doctor” tattoed Malik on the boy’s arm, according to the law, that would be perfectly okay . . . as long as it’s not done by a tattoo professional who probably has 1,000% more experience tattooing human flesh.
Posted by: Jerry | January 20, 2012, 2:42 pm 2:42 pm
Here is a case where the “letter of the law” conflicts with the “spirit of the law.”
Body modification has been happening for thousands of years. We do this in modern culture with ear piercings, circumcisions, and cleft removal on children. Adults do this more radically for freedom of expression.
Hopefully, the judge will see the child’s development is not impaired by this act and she will only receive a small fine.
Posted by: Cool Running | January 20, 2012, 2:46 pm 2:46 pm
what weird society we live in. in california, no one under 18 can use tanning bed. no tattoos even with parental permission. BUT, a minor can get an abortion with or without consent in most states…and it is lega. like i said,,,,one weird socity.
Posted by: booneg | January 20, 2012, 2:47 pm 2:47 pm
If the kid wants the tattoo and the parent okay’s the tattoo, it is okay. Then real criminals kidnap woman and hold her for ransom (aka bond). She pays ransom, and now will be asked, under the threat of future incarceration for non-compliance, to defend her-self against the charges of not obeying the ‘law.’ Another clear example of ‘law’ for profit and oppression not for justice, unfortunately these victimless crimes further discredit the justice by thieves system we have. A step in the revolution is all of us standing against bs like this. Never use violence, just don’t cooperate or pay the thieves.
Posted by: tom smithwick | January 20, 2012, 2:50 pm 2:50 pm
I think if this boy was a little older…say 16, it wouldn’t be that big of a deal. BUT, he’s TEN. that’s still a baby :/. This mom should’ve been supportive of his decision but told him to wait a few years to get it. A tattoo is something you should get when you’re old enough and responsible enough to take care of it by yourself. What is she going to do if it gets infected? Or the artist who did it probably out of their house used a dirty needle?
Posted by: Christina | January 20, 2012, 2:52 pm 2:52 pm
The mother probably went to a professional place and discovered it was illegal and then went on to find someone else who would still do it. she and the person who gave the tattoo should be in trouble. a boy getting a tattoo of a brother that passed away, its noble, and i get that it is still his brother and will be forever, but its not someone that he remembers very well if the accident happened years ago and he is only 10 now. how much do we remember from when we were 5? 7? or 9? not every much.
he is too young to decide what goes on his body forever. forever is a long time and young kids dont realize what seems like a good idea now, isnt such a great idea in the future. the mother should have said he can wait until he is older and if he still wants a tattoo, she will be more than happy to take him to get it done!
Posted by: Corey | January 20, 2012, 2:53 pm 2:53 pm
A family of winners.
Posted by: mike | January 20, 2012, 2:56 pm 2:56 pm
Really? Over a tattoo? What about infants, toddlers, etc… getting their ears pierced? That’s painful, against their consent (most of the time), and serves no purpose other than aesthetics.
Posted by: Wayne | January 19, 2012, 12:42 pm 12:42 pm
APPLES AND ORANGES WAYNE!!!! you honestly want to compare a little TINY ear piercing to a tattoo? one little needle, in and out once compared to the pain of a tattoo?
you are confused.
Posted by: corey | January 20, 2012, 2:58 pm 2:58 pm
I find it funny that we live in a society where parents can elect to have a cosmetic surgery performed on their infant sons (circumcision) and can pierce the ears of their daughters with out consent. But a little body art, that no one even has to see, is so terrible. It isn’t like he tattooed his face. None of his future employers will ever see it. Culturally, I don’t see a problem with it, it was his decision and she consented to it. It isn’t illegal to pierce a minor if the parent gives consent.
Posted by: Lilith | January 20, 2012, 2:59 pm 2:59 pm
i think it was ok for the mom to do it, i mean seriously its HER business. not the governments, or the person who reported it. also she didnt know the law, and the person who gave the kid the tatoo should have known the law. so, the government and the person who reported, MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!!!!!
Posted by: Sasquatch | January 20, 2012, 3:01 pm 3:01 pm
I AGREE WIth THAT MIKE DUDE
Posted by: name | January 20, 2012, 3:01 pm 3:01 pm
i think that giving any person a tattoo is bad because then they wont have success in life. i (if i was the child) would want to be famous, i will noit do this to my child because my child will be beast mode without it
Posted by: THE NATEINATOR | January 20, 2012, 3:01 pm 3:01 pm
i think it is bad for the mother to let her child get a tattoo it is very dangerous and should not be allowed. I think it was right for the mom to get arrested because it is not good for a 10 year old to get a tattoo it is dangerous and very irresponsible.
Posted by: Shelby | January 20, 2012, 3:01 pm 3:01 pm
I think it is ridiculous to let your child get tattooed even if the mother did not tattoo him she let him get it. You can do many other things to remember his brother other than a tattoo.
Posted by: Taymoose | January 20, 2012, 3:02 pm 3:02 pm
i don’t think its OK because 10 year old don’t need a tattoo. it is okay to have something to remember your brother but not this way.
Posted by: butter cutter | January 20, 2012, 3:02 pm 3:02 pm
I understand why the mom would let the 10 year old get a tattoo, but it isn’t right to get one at the age of 10. I believe that you should not get a tattoo until the age of 20. I don’t think that it is the child’s fault, I think that it is the parent’s fault.
Posted by: Peace Girl | January 20, 2012, 3:05 pm 3:05 pm
First I would like to say to all the people that stero-type Black people…. I’m the only Black kid in my academically gifted class. Chew on that!!! Secondly, no one should judge this family. They lost a brother and Gaquan just wanted to do something in memory of his Big Bro. Yea, Mommy may have done something wrong but give her a break!! it’s HER child. If any one gets arrested let it be the tattoo artist!!
Posted by: Yreva Ecreip | January 20, 2012, 3:05 pm 3:05 pm
I want to give my input on this..those that may think it is wrong that is your moral judgment..But there are cultures out their that pierce and tattoo their bodies to give honor to to what they believe in. I have seen this in images where the children are just learning to talk and walk and i can tell you there is no numbing agent used. And at least it is something to sincere. I have a tattoo on the back of my neck for my sister as we are twins and she is my only sibling i wanted to do something to show how much she meant to me and this is the most permanent way of doing it in my eyes. I also have a tattoo the has meaning to me after someone close to me died. He would of been 21 right now…taken from this world at an early stage in his life.
These laws are placed so that businesses can’t profit off of minors…that is a parental consent is needed. And if anyone read the post, the people who did the tattoo aren’t being charged because the mother doesn’t want to give up the name.
But all in all, this was her choice to grant HER SON’S wish…not like she imposed it on him and death can have an impact that therapy cannot fix sometimes memorization can bring some peace whether it be a statue, a plaque or in this case a tattoo… Who are we to judge??? Her allowing this isn’t hurting anyone… When you have your own children you can dictate what you want for them….
Posted by: Nadia | January 20, 2012, 3:18 pm 3:18 pm
I am also upset that this made NATION NEWS….AREN’T THERE BIGGER THINGS WE NEED TO BE WORRIED ABOUT?!?!?!?!?!?!?
Posted by: Nadia | January 20, 2012, 3:20 pm 3:20 pm
The real reason people should be warned away from having their kids’ ears pierced while they’re babies is because they grow up, their ears grow too, and there’s a good chance the poor kid will wind up with piercings that no longer match; one will be higher than the other, both may be far too low in the lobe to properly support a heavier earring, and the now-grown individual will need their ears re-pierced anyway. It’s not about cruelty or pain involved, it’s about doing things the right way the first time so that you only have to do it once.
The same thing goes for this little boy — he is still growing, and there’s a good chance that tattoo is going to be wrecked during a sudden growth spurt (provided it’s not wrecked already by being done by some kitchen magician; no tattooer worth their salt would dare put a ten-year-old under the needle). If his mother truly wanted to honor his wish to have a proper memorial done for the boy’s beloved brother (him wanting a tattoo himself is indeed a touching sentiment, nothing wrong with that!), she would’ve had him wait until he was done growing (16 at the very least), taken him to a state that allows tattooing on 16-year-old minors with parental consent (if hers does not allow it), and had that tattoo done right.
I do agree that she should be punished for not revealing the name of the person who perpetrated what is (in my state, at least) a felony, but when the person who performed the tattoo is eventually flushed out of hiding, I feel she should be left alone to deal with her son (though perhaps with some family counseling to help them cope with their terrible loss). _That_ person is the one who should be punished, as they’re the one who had the chance to say ‘get lost’ when she showed up on their doorstep, and yet they chose not to.
Posted by: TBD | January 20, 2012, 3:24 pm 3:24 pm
It does not sound like this Mother forced her son to get a tatoo. So, what business is it of the government to tell any parent how to raise their child? Personally, I don’t agree with her decision, but it is not up to me to raise her son.
There is more than one way to do everything. Who is to say which is the right way? Easy answer, the individual. As long as what you are doing does not hurt anyone else, or put others at risk, my philosoph is to each his/her own.
Posted by: hootie00 | January 20, 2012, 3:26 pm 3:26 pm
Another example of excessive government interference, with a bit of racism thrown in,
it looks like. However, the mother should think it over a bit more, imho.
Posted by: greg | January 20, 2012, 3:28 pm 3:28 pm
What kills me with this entire story is that there are criminals walking the street and the authorites arrest a woman for allowing her child to get a tat? Really?? We don’t all have the same parenting styles, and we don’t all have the same lives, that is what this country was founded on. I don’t think this has anything to do with race, color, or religion. If it was my child, and they wanted a memorial tattoo, yes I would probably make them wait until their body stopped growing, but that was that families choice.
Posted by: GAmom | January 20, 2012, 3:35 pm 3:35 pm
People, please read the article! It clearly states that the person who did the tat is not being charged because the woman will not cooperate with police and tell who did it. READ!
Posted by: Steven | January 20, 2012, 3:42 pm 3:42 pm
The state owns you and your kids- they want to be sure you know it!
I cry for the death of freedom, liberty and common sense.
The only hope to restore sanity and freedom is Ron Paul.
I shiver to think of the next 5 years if he doesn’t get elected.
Posted by: USEYERHEAD | January 20, 2012, 4:04 pm 4:04 pm
Its simple, the parent has the right to give permission to the child..Govt should not tell me what I can do with my child… a tatoo isnt that harmful to the child compared to circumcissions, percings, etc… And to those that say he wont be anything because of it, I say screw you!!! Tats arent just for criminals and it doesnt mean youll become one!!!1 It also doesnt mean you wont be sucessful because of it. This kid can still be a star, an inventor, something that makes him a millionare or billionare where he doesnt need to bow down and ask for employment from someone else!!.. If employed, it could be because of skill or talent and not because of a tat not being there. Everything is all appearances with Americans, and most of you speak like he’s at a disadvantage because of his skin color already!! He can be the employer, ceo, whatever he wants with or without the tat.. YOU PEOPLE DISCUSS ME!! I guess the American Dream only applies to only a certain race and other races that conforms to those societal beliefs. And to memorialize his older brother I believe that is commendable.. And for those that say he can start a fund or grow a tree. Well that may be fine for you but it isnt a view or action that “everyone” takes. Thats your way to remember someone. In a place where money is scarce and trees are knocked down constantly, and also consider the fact that t-shirts fade or he will grow out of it, the tat is the perfect comemoration of his brother. Let this family live. Its doing more harm having his mother in jail over anything because you dont agree with “her” parental decision.. Well I dont agree with dressing lil girls like hookers, or piercings, or having my kids watch Hanna Montanna, Fred, or other shows that depicts kids acting older than what they should be and behaving in a manner that isn’t to my high pius standards!. Or wearing clothing I wouldnt even see my wife wear!!! I can control my kids from watching it, I shouldnt have control over yours!!!
On a lighter note, doesnt his mom look like lil wayne’s aunt!, just saying lol
Posted by: CJ | January 20, 2012, 4:18 pm 4:18 pm
I think it was wrong for her to let her kid get the tattoo. Scriptures clearly teach that people are not to make mark on their body for the dead (Leviticus 19:28).
However, with that said, if I were sitting on the jury, I would probably vote to acquit her. This was done out of ignorance, and due to the fact that tattoos have become ingrained in American culture, there probably was not any evil intent.
The judges, politicians, and bureaucrats say, “Ignorance of the law is no excuse.” A majority of them violate the highest man made law regularly. That law is the Constitution. They nearly always get away with it as well. I hope that they violate the Constitution out of pure ignorance rather than contempt or putting lessor “laws” before it.
Why is it right for an average citizen with good intentions to receiver a harsher punishment than someone whose lawbreaking causes thousands more times harm. Where there is justice, there is also mercy.
Posted by: William Keeley | January 20, 2012, 4:21 pm 4:21 pm
If more time was spent going after a corrupt congress and less on a TATTOO maybe the debt crisis would be solved. Mom apparently did not use common sense, a lot of that going around…
Posted by: HKaufman | January 20, 2012, 4:25 pm 4:25 pm
This should go on the Ridiculist. Apparently, the police think they own our kids, and get to make the decisions about our own kids! Just get out of people’s business already, and start focusing on real criminals.
Posted by: Ridiculist | January 20, 2012, 4:26 pm 4:26 pm
Our government is out of control and the people better wake up or we will lose all our liberty.
The mothers actions were questionable, but not criminal.
The governments action are criminal, but not questionable.
Something is wrong with that!
Posted by: MrLiberty | January 20, 2012, 4:34 pm 4:34 pm
Gee, maybe he could remember his brother in another way. Lead a better life and become a positive role model.
The mother should have had her tubes tied.
She’s the parent, say “no”.
This will lead to more problems for this “family”.
Is their a father out there?
Posted by: bruce987 | January 20, 2012, 4:35 pm 4:35 pm
TNB..
Posted by: Steven Bean | January 20, 2012, 4:39 pm 4:39 pm
@ ATRUEAMERICAN. I hope that comment was meant as a joke otherwise I must say you are the DUMBEST person I have had the displeasure of hearing from in quite some time. How exactly does one “act white”? Stick to attending your clan meetings and stop posting. Intelligent people dont want to hear that BS. I wouldnt have made the same choice for one of my 3 sons but I agree it is just a possible error in judgement. I have several tatoos & my sons ask but I tell them they can make that choice when they are grown. I dont believe she should have been arrested and it is no one elses business. For all those making stupid comments like get the kid braces instead, grow up. Is that the type of adults you are, insulting a 10 year child.
Posted by: LISASOSWEET | January 20, 2012, 4:45 pm 4:45 pm
What ever – I just would like to know of this mom is receiving public assistance – if you can’t afford to buy your kids food than you certainly shouldn’t be buying them a tattoo!!
Posted by: Sasha | January 20, 2012, 4:53 pm 4:53 pm
When did America stop being America? I don’t want the government telling me what is and is not appropriate for my child. I’m not sending my kids to get tatted any time soon, but where does it stop? In some places, you can’t spank your child. How long until sending your kid to her room is considered unlawful imprisonment? Part of being a free country is giving people the freedom to be stupid, and that might come at the cost of some underaged tattoos. That is a price worth paying to keep the government out of my home!
Posted by: Michael | January 20, 2012, 4:57 pm 4:57 pm
Just like the guy in Florida who was taken to jail for spitting on a sidewalk. It’s called a Police State! We are not even close to being free. Nearly every move we make in public is on camera. They can track cell phones and now have auto liscense plate scanners. The left is digging their own graves by allowing a centralized government to obtain so much power because they think they are on the their side.
Posted by: Alex | January 20, 2012, 4:57 pm 4:57 pm
With a mothers consent, there should be NO issue here. End of story. Besides, i’d rather the memorial be on his body than one of those crappy roadside memorials I have to pass on a daily basis that looks like a roadside trash pile. Those things should be outlawed. They are an eye sore.
Posted by: Marshall | January 20, 2012, 5:01 pm 5:01 pm
Posted by: RZ | January 19, 2012, 1:15 pm 1:15 pm
“For the silly people making the “black folks” comments….for God’s sake read a book. Many African tribes tattoo young children for cultural purposes. And WHY…when the law reads it is unlawful for any person to tattoo a child under 18…has the tattoo artist not been arrested rather than the mother?? SHE didn’t tattoo him, the artist did and the artist should have known the laws enough to say no.”
Really? You say the tattoo artist should be arrested “RATHER” than the mother? Did the mother make the decision to bring the child to get the tattoo? Does this mother make many more decisions about the childs well being or should we just let tattoo artists, teachers, friends, and others make the final decisions about our childrens upbringing?
Posted by: Bah | January 20, 2012, 5:02 pm 5:02 pm
They say the Road to Hell is paved with good intentions. Her son was 10yrs old and wanted a tattoo for his deceased brother. She found some scratcher to do the work because no REAL tattoo artist would have done it. She and the artist broke the law and deserve to be punished for it.
“How can I say no?”
Easy…..SAY NO! She’s the mother, she could have used her brain and said, “When you are old enough, I’ll take you to a reputable tattoo artist and you can get the tattoo.”
Posted by: Chuck | January 20, 2012, 5:06 pm 5:06 pm
Kid wanted it. Mother consented. That should be where the story ends. It’s not my taste but it’s not my life. Nobody has a right to pose judgment. Ear piercings, plastic surgery, and circumcision are all performed on children without anyone blinking. Someone said you need a license to cut hair but not to be a parent – to that I say, why the heck are we paying the government for permission for anything? It is our God-given right to prosper however we see fit as long as we do not cause harm to another person. I don’t think there should be licenses for anything – marriage, business, driving…etc. It’s just another way the government extracts money from us and inhibits people from making a living and taking care of themselves, which has led us to a government-dependent society.
Posted by: nunya | January 20, 2012, 5:10 pm 5:10 pm
Wondering how different these posts would be had the child become infected or contracted something else from getting this tattoo. Would you still be against laws protecting children? Would you still think it was OK for a 10 year old childs mother to make the decision to bring her child to get a tattoo.
Posted by: Bah | January 20, 2012, 5:10 pm 5:10 pm
She should just say since her son went to heaven, it is a religious tattoo. cant mess with someones religious beliefs…correct?
Posted by: Ryan | January 20, 2012, 5:11 pm 5:11 pm
There is only one relevant question here. Why do the people of the state of Georgia have any right to tell a parent that she cannot allow her kid to do anything that does not demonstrably harm the child? Sure, if she had disfigured him with tattoo’s all over his body that could be addressed under cruelty charges, but a single tattoo (which I consider to be bad parenting) does not come close to this level. The government continues to get further and further away from what it was created to do and continues to escape the limitations that the Constitution placed on it, and that should terrify us all. History has taught us how this will turn out.
Posted by: Michael | January 20, 2012, 5:12 pm 5:12 pm
I make the same statement every time I see a news story like this. “Do our children belong to the government?”
Posted by: MIKE | January 20, 2012, 5:19 pm 5:19 pm
So stupid, but what do you expect? This happened in Cobb County, GA, Newt’s old district. I think it’s funny how the people here like to complain about over-reaching federal government, but yet have no qualms about inserting their thoughts/beliefs into others lives. You should see how they drive too. ::facepalm::
Posted by: Doobious | January 20, 2012, 5:27 pm 5:27 pm
She should be arrested for naming the kid “Gaquan”.
Posted by: Vinnie | January 20, 2012, 5:29 pm 5:29 pm
Okay big brother I did not invite you into my house, so get the h#ll out. This was a very thoughtful gesture by the boy, he will never forget his brother and maybe this helps his greiving process. Granted she does not look like the bank manager or the typical businesswoman but having tatoos DOES NOT make you scum. People get over yourselves and let her raise her child!!!!!
Posted by: Shelly | January 20, 2012, 5:30 pm 5:30 pm
It’s amazing to me the number of people who have all the answers once an incident is reported. Where are all of these knowledgable, opinionated people prior to the incident being reported? Only a small percentage of all the incidents (good and bad) make it into the media. So when all of these things are happening out in public, where are all the self righteous, crusading saviors? Why don’t they speak up before hand? Keep your Monday morning quarterbacking to yourself and turn that magnifying glass around on your own home first!
Posted by: Concerned | January 20, 2012, 5:34 pm 5:34 pm
GO AFTER THE ARTIST FOR DOING IT!!!!! HELLO PEOPLE! About 4 posters have mentioned this “Unfortunately, the mother has elected not to cooperate with the police any further in this investigation,” and the investigating officer said “to be the work of an amateur” and said one police theory is that when Napier took the child to get a memorial tattoo similar to her own, she discovered it was illegal and took him somewhere where it could be done “illegally like a ‘jail house’ tattoo.”
So, go after and charge the artist, but how when the mother is not giving them the name.
The mother is “Withholding Evidence” to a crime”.
If you people don’t like the law go to another state or country that will do it. Problem Solved.
I would like to see a law against circumcision, but it’s too late for me. Men, read up on it, we have been robbed of a lot more sensation from having the circumcision.
Damn religious idiots believing in fire side stories from 2000 years ago. Oh, but the Bible says it’s true!!!
Posted by: Pompi | January 20, 2012, 5:35 pm 5:35 pm
Has anyone seen the Tat? 10 year old weighs 80 lbs. At 20 he will be 160 or so. wonder how that Tat will stretch. There is a reason you don’t get tats when you are still growing. Common sense people. I know that her community loves tats but we are in america and not in tribal Africa.
Posted by: greg | January 20, 2012, 5:36 pm 5:36 pm
Who is the government to tell me what I can and can not do with my own body, or how to raise my child. For consistency are both piercings and circumcision also outlawed?
Posted by: John | January 20, 2012, 5:50 pm 5:50 pm
Just wonder how this ‘tattoo’ may set this youngster back in decades to come? Why is it that plastic surgeons are now making MILLIONS in attempting to remove these ‘unwanted’ body modifications once an adult learns they are a negative, and NOT A POSITIVE?
What do you want to bet that the mom is a single mom; probably on government assistance; and probably used money that could have been spent on food, clothing or housing! SHAMEFUL!
Posted by: GrannyCares | January 20, 2012, 5:56 pm 5:56 pm
Why should a physician or osteopath be able to tattoo a child but a parent cannot?
I know all about “medical markings for procedures”. but a parent allowing a child a tattoo is usually more concerned for the child’s welfare than a medical stranger.
This mother obviously loves her child. To her credit, she is willing to take the blame on herself and not involve the artist who did her a favor. This law does not belong in a free country where people should be able to express their differences and preferences without the government butting in to say which customs are right and which are not.
Posted by: Jessica S | January 20, 2012, 5:57 pm 5:57 pm
Appears the mother is incapable of saying NO!
Posted by: Pius Paul | January 20, 2012, 6:00 pm 6:00 pm
I hope the specific circumstances of this case results in a reasonable, lenient punishment for her.
Posted by: SamIam | January 20, 2012, 6:19 pm 6:19 pm
All you people saying that “next they’ll make circumcision illegal “:
Circumcision should already be illegal. Circumcision is unnecessary surgery on the genitals of a child without their consent. There are few things more unethical than taking a knife to a child’s genitals without medical necessity and often without any anesthesia.
Posted by: Brad | January 20, 2012, 6:23 pm 6:23 pm
My Children are MY CONCERN I will raise them as I see fit…all other opinions posted here mean nothing..
If I raise my kids under Gandhi or Hitler..its NONE of YOUR BUSINESS!!
Posted by: Jason Kahl | January 20, 2012, 6:39 pm 6:39 pm
Perhaps the childern of the arresting officers should be detained by CPS until a full investigation can be performed to determine if there is anything happening in their households we don’t care for.
Posted by: TeaRunner | January 20, 2012, 6:44 pm 6:44 pm
Ridiculous that she gets arrested for letting her son get a tattoo. If she had wanted her 7 year old daughter to get an abortion the ACLU, OBama and the rest of the dems would have been marching in the streets to let her.
Posted by: retired milit;ary | January 20, 2012, 6:46 pm 6:46 pm
The law is unconstitutional. Period. No government should be allowed to prevent a parent from doing what they want with their child when it comes to something like this. Had she forced the tattoo on the kid maybe. Next thing you know not sending your child to communist indoctrination centers (public schools) will get you the death penalty. Or at least take your child from you because you want to home school them.
Posted by: tax revolt | January 20, 2012, 7:13 pm 7:13 pm
all though i dont agree with getting a 10 year old son a tattoo.. i understand why she let him get it.. you should have said when your older you can get a tattoo.. but for now lets get a t shirt with his pic and name and do some sort of protest for people who do not pay attention to the road.. but it said and done .. nothing left to do ..
Posted by: audra | January 20, 2012, 7:20 pm 7:20 pm
Big Brother!
What the heck, the our Government is so jacked up!
If they what to harass and arrest people; they should start with all the criminals and minions in DC
Posted by: John | January 20, 2012, 7:36 pm 7:36 pm
Keep this up, and there will be some liberal members of congress that will want to start issuing license to become a mother. Nice way to raise some revenue — and possibly control the population.
Posted by: GrannyCaresII | January 20, 2012, 8:24 pm 8:24 pm
babies get ears peirced! who said that was ok? but it is..i agree he should have waited,but a number of a jersey from his brother and his name! come on government,get a freakin life! yes he was 10.but thats for the parent to judge.and the mother getting arrested was b.s. too..anything to make a dollar.what a crooked system..
Posted by: jessica hodges | January 20, 2012, 8:32 pm 8:32 pm
Obviously, she took her son to Florida to get the tattoo. Since she did it out of state, Georgia law doesn’t apply. I defy anyone to prove otherwise.
Posted by: noone | January 20, 2012, 8:35 pm 8:35 pm
My question is simple – Where was mom when the kid was killed by the car?? We are doing this to ourselves!!!!! STOP!
Posted by: LaQuan | January 20, 2012, 8:36 pm 8:36 pm
Let me explain something. We HAVE NO RIGHT NO RIGHT WHAT SO EVER TO JUDGE THIS MOTHER. SHE DID NOTHING WRONG NOR DID THE TATTOO ARTIST. THE CHILD WANTED IT, AND IT MATTERS NOT WHAT WE THINK, DONT LIKE IT, DONT LET YOUR CHILD GET A TATTOO. SHE AND HER CHILD ARE THEIR OWN PERSON(S) AND THEY HAVE A CHOICE TO DO WHAT THEY WILL TO THEIR OWN BODIES. ****COMMON LAW**** JUST BECAUSE THE FEDS OR STATE MAKE A LAW, IT DOES NOT MEAN ITS RIGHT OR WE HAVE TO LIVE BY IT. WE THE PEOPLE HAVE BECOME SHEEP IN THE GOVERNMENTS AND STATE EYES, WE LET THEM CONTROL US BECAUSE WE DONT KNOW BETTER, WELL MOST OF US. LEARN YOUR BIRTH RIGHTS—- DONT HURT SOMEONE OR THEIR PROPERTY AND YOUR LIVING “LAWFULLY”. WE DONT HAVE TO AGREE WITH WHAT SOMEONE ELSE DOES OR THE CHOICES THEY MAKE. LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE.
Posted by: Kimberly Foley | January 20, 2012, 8:52 pm 8:52 pm
Stupid parents and stupid kids will do stupid things.
Posted by: LenGrady75 | January 20, 2012, 8:53 pm 8:53 pm
This child belongs to this woman more than he belongs to anyone else—including The State, or The Collective, or Society. A tattoo may be tacky, and momentarily painful (slightly. I know—I have ONE)—but it’s not harmful . Bad parenting is not the same as harmful parenting. We are allowing government to be our nanny and guardian, and that is dangerous, and contrary to the Natural Rights Theory laid-out in the Declaration of Independence (i.e., our unalienable rights, coming from God…giving us the right and duty to challenge and replace destructive government, and all that sort of thing).
Posted by: Dave | January 20, 2012, 9:10 pm 9:10 pm
@Dave .. you are 100% spot on and I’m an atheist. Government is not god and they have no business telling anyone what to do with their child.
Government is men and women providing services at the barrel of a gun. If they were really there to protect you, your family and property, they wouldn’t be the first to use deadly force and confiscation.
They are paid with your wealth, extracted by taxation with the threat of deadly force if you don’t pay their inflated salaries. Ergo, they are the degenerates.
Posted by: duff | January 20, 2012, 9:53 pm 9:53 pm
This is such a screw-up by authorities. The intention of the mother was apparently to honor a lost loved one. This kid wasn’t getting a gang banger tattoo. What I would do is take everyone responsible for turning a private grief matter into a criminal enterprise and make them get big honking tattoos on their foreheads that say, “I’m stupider than dirt.”
Posted by: ClearyJ | January 20, 2012, 10:10 pm 10:10 pm
The kid obviously went to an illegal tattoo artist since no business would risk losing their license and JAIL TIME. So odds are this kid now has hepatitis. The mother should have the kid taken away before her lack of parenting kills another kid.
Posted by: Fake Name | January 20, 2012, 10:25 pm 10:25 pm
Good grief! The child’s tattoo is going to look awful as he grows. Not to mention he could have contracted something awful! It’s nothing like getting ears pierced.
I can’t believe all these comments. Get the kid a t-shirt, a poster, a keychain but NOT a tattoo!
Posted by: Mon Ami | January 20, 2012, 10:48 pm 10:48 pm
This story is ridiculous. How about arresting parents who abuse their kids? how about putting childd molesters behind bars for more than a few months? There are real criminals who need to be arrested, like the Wall Street banksters and the crooks in Washington, DC. ***For personal freedom and liberty, vote Ron Paul 2012!
Posted by: Jane D | January 20, 2012, 10:55 pm 10:55 pm
This tattoo was for a special remembrance of a brother. The mother O.K. the tattoo and that should be enough. I see babies all the time with pierced ears. The babies didn’t ask their mothers to have their ears pierced but society seems to be O.K. with that. My mother gave me perms when I was a child – all those nasty chemicals on my little soft skin, but that was O.K. since everyone was doing that.
Posted by: Kay | January 20, 2012, 11:16 pm 11:16 pm
Not sure I get this…..it’s OK to pierce the ears of babies, but tattoo’s are bad for 10-year old kids? One leaves a mark, the other leaves a hole. I wouldn’t let my kid do it, but really………
Posted by: yeah, ok | January 20, 2012, 11:24 pm 11:24 pm
He had his mother’s permission. Fine. The government should stay out of this.
Posted by: MrEguy | January 20, 2012, 11:48 pm 11:48 pm
Many states state that a minor can get a tattoo with a parent’s consent. It’s perfectly understandable that she would make that assumption.
Like she said, it isn’t like he asked for Spongebob either.
Posted by: Robert | January 21, 2012, 12:01 am 12:01 am
There may be valid health reasons for children to not get tattoos, but I can’t imagine the new law being that highly publicized that a parent would it had passed, as opposed to say, a drivers license. But there is no reason that a tattoo artist, whoever that is, would not be aware of the law, and go ahead and apply the tattoo; it could result in the loss of their license. It must not be a licensed shop.
Posted by: DAM | January 21, 2012, 12:57 am 12:57 am
Really are you kidding me… Law says no one under 18 unless you have parents consent. As a parent that has taken both my children to get inked you have to have a paper filled out and notarized before the shop will even discuss getting the tattoo done. This is ridiculous I do think the child is a little young but its not like it was some random tattoo. When my kids came to me and wanted their tattoos I told them I had to approve of them or I would not sign for it. They both got memorial tattoos at the age of 15 and they are beautiful tributes to people they loved dearly and wanted it to shown on their bodies, which I had no problem with. I made sure they thought about them and they had to come up with the design and drawings done for my final approval. It’s no one’s business on what someone allows their child to do as long as they are not hurting anyone.
Posted by: Tracie | January 21, 2012, 2:20 am 2:20 am
If people would take the time to read, the tattooist is not being charged because the mother won’t tell who did it. Also, any respectable tattoo shop would never even consider tattooing a ten year old. The police said it looked amateur. Therefore it was done at someone’s house by some kitchen magician who would never be good enough to work in a professional shop. People that tattoo out of there house are ghetto and are always hurting for money. They will do anything and everything they can get their hands on for work. Even if it means tattooing 10 year olds.
Posted by: Please learn to read | January 21, 2012, 2:24 am 2:24 am
Would I let my 10 year old get a tat, probably not but a family grieving and a younger brother who misses his older brother who died in a car crash, if the tat would help him remember his brother and help him move on, and seriously that tat might always push him to succeed in life. How can you deny him or judge them it’s not your life. Is anyone here hurt by the tat? You know why the world finds it easy to hate Americans, well because they see how much we hate on each other.
Posted by: JACK | January 21, 2012, 2:38 am 2:38 am
shortly after I was born, a doctor chopped off skin from by wee wee with my parents consent. let’s throw them in jail too.
Posted by: Junior | January 21, 2012, 3:36 am 3:36 am
“Chuntera” and “Gaquan” sort of says it all, doesn’t it.
Posted by: Tom Thomas | January 21, 2012, 3:58 am 3:58 am
They should leave this family alone. And for those who have not lost a child and think this is horrific, you need to keep your comments to yourselves. This is a very real way we as a family even considered remembering our son in a special way. We may not have acted upon the thought but they chose to and they should be left alone. The kid will never regret doing it unless they send his mom to jail. Then shame on them for adding more tragedy to the family!
Posted by: lost1too | January 21, 2012, 4:10 am 4:10 am
Tattoos certainly serve a useful purpose…they identify the person wearing them as an idiot. Very much the same way a body-piercing does. Or a bizzare first name such as LaToya or LaTrine. They are warnings.
Posted by: Lord Ligonier | January 21, 2012, 4:32 am 4:32 am
I TOO BELIEVE THAT THIS SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED A CRIME. THE CHILD WAS NOT FORCED AGAINST HIS WILL OR TREATED CRUEL. IF THATS THE CASE MAYBE PARENTS WHO PIERCE THEIR CHILDRENS EARS WITH BE CHARGED NEXT!!!!! GOTTA LOVE GEORGIA!
Posted by: PATRICIA | January 21, 2012, 4:49 am 4:49 am
Why is it anyone’s damn business what other people do if it isn’t harming you…..70 percent of these comments are just ignorant, close-minded people talking about how tattoos are trash.
Posted by: Pointless. | January 21, 2012, 5:30 am 5:30 am
First… Why don’t these people have “normal” names!! Chuntera and Gaquan – do they think they are living in Africa?? Second… There have to be laws for “minors” in particular, for their protection – and 18 yrs is a good standard to work with!! Many times certain people never become and act like adults even if they are 38 yrs old!! In the good-old-days – tattoos were mainly for “military men”, who maybe only got one or two, whereas today I see a lot of “idiots (especially women and girls) who have tattoos everywhere on their body!! They just look ridiculous especially when they are on the faces, necks etc!! We have lowered our standards far too much!! Thank God not everyone is retarded in this country!!
Posted by: makemyday | January 21, 2012, 5:52 am 5:52 am
“Chuntera” and “Gaquan”
I for one am grateful that blacks bestow bizzarre names to their offspring. Whenever there’s a wilding‚ or riot‚ or vicious beating these freak-names are the only way to learn who is responsible. The mainstream media is uselessly vague lest they offend this particular demographic.
Posted by: Lord Ligonier | January 21, 2012, 5:53 am 5:53 am
Parents who “tattoo” their children are just plain dumb – NOT very smart!!! What next?? Nothing surprises me any more – as we have lowered our standards terribly!!! Thank God I’m a normal parent and have “normal” children!! They certainly will NOT be “gangstas” – listening to “rap-crap” all day!! My kid’s are growing-up in a normal 2 parent home with rules and supervision!!
Posted by: makemyday | January 21, 2012, 6:00 am 6:00 am
@Lord Ligonier | January 21, 2012, 4:32 am 4:32 am… You said – Tattoos certainly serve a useful purpose…they identify the person wearing them as an idiot. Very much the same way a body-piercing does. Or a bizzare first name such as LaToya or LaTrine. They are warnings.
Then you say the opposite in your comment at January 21, 2012, 5:53 am 5:53 am!!!
MAKE YOUR MIND-UP!!! Are you another Internet “Troll”???
Posted by: makemyday | January 21, 2012, 6:07 am 6:07 am
So a 10 year old can get an abortion without a mom knowing, but can’t get a tattoo with permission? That makes sense!
Posted by: Dj | January 21, 2012, 6:10 am 6:10 am
I think it’s pretty stupid that a 10yr old has a tattoo yes. But the idiots on here saying that he is now going to become a future felon just because he has a tattoo to remember his brother is ignorant.
Posted by: Chris M | January 21, 2012, 6:35 am 6:35 am
The law is the law is the law. Does the law say it’s ok if the tatoo is a remembrance of a sibling? NO!
What don’t you ignorant posters get?
Guilty as charged!
Posted by: Ron | January 21, 2012, 6:57 am 6:57 am
When I was 12, a girl had a tattoo party and got a tattoo of tweety bird on her arm. Of course now at 27, I’m sure she regrets it…but who doesn’t regret their first tattoo even at 21 years old? It was no big deal for her mom and it didn’t scar her for life. Even at this age, I will never get a tattoo, but it’s really no big deal to me. I grew up around tattoo and piercing parties and honestly, kids with tattoos did not grow up any different than me…Sure his purberty will make the tattoo ugly, but whatever. The meaning of the tattoo will forever be with him. I can relate because when I was 12, my cousin was murdered and it still means a lot to me how the adults handled the situaton. His mom did something for him that you will never understand unless you’ve experienced this type of loss first hand. But trust me, he will thank his mother forever.
I like what DJ said about a 10 year old getting an abortion. That’s really true. Doctor’s by law do not disclose their patients information so if a 10 year old got a abortion, that’s fine, but this kid who had parental consent could not get a tattoo…the difference is: one is legal and one is illegal, despite our personal feelings…sad, but true.
Posted by: Boo Simms | January 21, 2012, 7:04 am 7:04 am
I think this is very sad.. Has anyone on here lost a close relative on here? Ehen my son was 15 his step father passed. My son thought the world of him. I got a few memorial tats & my son wanted one ( it”s on his upper arm with his step dads initials). I let him get it & it was by a friend in our home. To this day he does not regret.. would I let him do it again.. YES!! He is my son not yours… He wasn’t tortured, teased. or otherwise… either when he got it or today. Some cultures say it is fine.. however here in America it’s ok to let you young daughte dress like a “hoochie”, but not allow her to ink up… or your son to dress like a “gansta” , but not allow him to ink up… Where are our priorite? A tatoo is a story on a persons body. They all can be covered for a job, church.. ect… So personally I don’t see what the problem is….
Posted by: lucy collins | January 21, 2012, 8:25 am 8:25 am
Not a good idea, but arrest/jail? Seriously? “There ought to be a law” soon
becomes, effectively, tyranny.
Posted by: Go_figure7722 | January 21, 2012, 8:43 am 8:43 am
OMG its a tatoo representing his brother whats the problem people do worse things to children then that and to the racist shame on you for saying black people shouldnt have children there are bad people in all races creeds and colors Stop blaming everything on black people because are some great black people in this world there would be no America without them
Posted by: Tracy Spencer | January 21, 2012, 9:06 am 9:06 am
Tattoos are ugly and become uglier as the person ages. I would never allow my 10-year old to get one. That said, this kid’s reason for wanting one is unique and different – he doesn’t want it so he can fit in with the crowd or look cool. He wants it as a memorial to his brother. There is something to be said for that. I personally still wouldn’t allow it, but I think that when one considers all the factors in this case, all charges should be dropped. That family has already been through enough.
PS: Where’s Dad, by the way? Just wondering.
Posted by: Mike | January 21, 2012, 9:14 am 9:14 am
What an incredibly stupid thing to allow a 10 year old to do. The mother stated, “What was I supposed to say when he wanted to get a tattoo in memory of his brother?” How about NO! There are lots of better ways to memorialize a loved one! The tattoo artist should have known the law!
Posted by: Ida Kern | January 21, 2012, 9:15 am 9:15 am
Getting a tattoo that is readily visible is a career ending injury…
Posted by: Billy27463 | January 21, 2012, 9:16 am 9:16 am
Vote Ron Paul to gain back our liberties, even if we wish to make “poor” decisions, we will have the right to make them without fear of recourse from the government. This woman should have every right to let the boy get a tattoo, I personally think he’s too young, but what does that even matter? At least this is a special tattoo with some heart felt meaning, and not a ring of barbed wire around his arm. May we be free from the tyranny of Big Brother soon!
Posted by: Cody | January 21, 2012, 9:20 am 9:20 am
It could be for religious reasons and why is it ok to give a baby ear rings holes…………..
Posted by: Ear rings are OK??? | January 21, 2012, 9:25 am 9:25 am
Yet, to get an abortion, no parental consent is needed, and the procedure is not considered a crime. Bizarre.
Posted by: George B | January 21, 2012, 9:29 am 9:29 am
I haven’t herd anyone mention the father……where is the boy’s father?
Posted by: swg | January 21, 2012, 9:33 am 9:33 am
Gaquan then asked his mother ” After I get the memorial tattoo mom, can you buy me some crack amd maybe a 44 ounce beer? Oh, and I think maybe I need a Glock 9mm because the boys at school somethimes pick on me ”
His mother was so taken by her son that she asked her drug dealer to secure all of the young man’s requests. His mom cashed in all her food stamps to by the items but said that nothing was too good for her son.
Posted by: JoeHoliday | January 21, 2012, 9:37 am 9:37 am
I agree with the mother. Her son wanted to get it as a memorial to his brother not some gang signs or stupid stuff.. That was as extremely mature gesture for this young man. And get some counseling? Really? Spoken like a lefty. She consented and the boy consented. Period. Remove this ridiculous law from the books and keep the government out of every business.
Posted by: Rob | January 21, 2012, 9:38 am 9:38 am
This is the choice Americans continually face today. Do you want Big Government trying to control your lives or do you want the freedom to make your own choices?
Posted by: Mikee | January 21, 2012, 9:56 am 9:56 am
Freedom of choice! The parent consented, end of story. What’s next, babies getting their ear’s pierced? How about circumcision? I don’t need the law to tell me what I can and can’t do. I abide by the law, but Im not going to give the law my life! People allowing this behavior of the police is giving them more power they don’t need to have.
Posted by: M2CNRY | January 21, 2012, 10:10 am 10:10 am
I hope the artist spelled his brother’s name wrong.
Posted by: The Dude | January 21, 2012, 10:18 am 10:18 am
i think NOBODY should judge this mother because of the simple fact , yall calling her a bad mother and saying that its BAD PARENTING skills which it reall ISNT ! thats HER child NOT nobody elss’s child . i feel like she did NOTHING wrong by getting her 10 year old son a tattoo its her son she can do whatever and get whatever she wants to and for HER child . for example there are 14 and 15 year old boys and girls walkig around here with a tattoo all on their body and what not but, you not saying something to their mother about her parenting skills ! 9/10 they parent WASNT there wih them when they son or daughter had got the tattoo . so whats the difference ?
Posted by: jamie | January 21, 2012, 10:30 am 10:30 am
Well it has finally happened. Gang prison culture, in the form of grotesque full-arm or body tattoos, took hold of most major league and men’s FB and BB college sports within the last ~10 years and has now become mainstream. That has now permeated into grade school. Don’t tell me that the content of the tat makes it okay on a 10 year old. By 14, with the guidance of this dim mother, he’ll likely have a teardrop or two (in memory of his brother of course) and other assorted symbols and artwork. And, if I may ask … where in the world are people on public assistance finding the cash to get all this body art? No mention of Gaquan’s father in the article. I would be shocked if the good people of Georgia are not paying for rent, utilities and food for them.
Posted by: Jimmy not THAT Jimmy | January 21, 2012, 10:30 am 10:30 am
I feel it is NOT the gov’t authority as to how; are what a parent does to raise a child. As long as she is not abusing the child or not giving him food, shelter, or even an education, the gov’t needs to stay out of parents lives. It was consensual to honor his brother; her son. That is why crime is such a high rate…PARENTS CAN NOT RAISE THEIR CHILDREN AS THEY SEE FIT!
Posted by: Mike | January 21, 2012, 10:35 am 10:35 am
Lets see in some states girls can get abortions without parental consent, in some states they can be given birth control without parental consent, now California has a law that children can consent to vaccines without parental consent, but a mother cannot consent for her child to get a tattoo. Slowly but surely the state is taking over the role of parenting.
Posted by: Peggy | January 21, 2012, 10:40 am 10:40 am
The people on this comment threat that are justifying the mother’s actions are hilarious – a tattoo, absent expensive laser removal – is a permanent mark. It doesn’t matter if a 10-year old requested it for his dead brother; a 10-year old cannot exercise that kind of decision-making. This is why we have distinctions between majority and minority ages. The mom should sure as hell be prosecuted for using her living son as some kind of memorial for her dead one.
Posted by: Adan | January 21, 2012, 10:41 am 10:41 am
This is ridiculous. The state can perform an abortion on a minor without parental consent but a parent cannot authorize their child to get a tattoo. I agree with the Mother in this one.
Posted by: Tony | January 21, 2012, 10:44 am 10:44 am
Big brother in everyone’s business. Ear piercing is ok, circumcision is ok but tattoo not? Hmmmm As far as the cops go, remember, they are not very intelligent people and they prey on the weak to get their kicks of authority and power. The little guy is the easy prey. When you are a hammer everything looks like a nail!
Posted by: JVC | January 21, 2012, 10:55 am 10:55 am
All she has to do now is tell the court that a physician tattoo’d her son and then shut up. She does NOT have to name the physician, the authorities have to PROVE she is lying. Its not against the law to have a tattoo provided by a physician and the courts CANNOT ASSUME she is lying.
Posted by: Dennis in Texas | January 21, 2012, 11:09 am 11:09 am
Yet another example of how the America I grew up in and love is disappearing.
I disagree with her decision but I’ll defend to the death her right to make it.
Posted by: Beircheart | January 21, 2012, 11:24 am 11:24 am
I can’t believe the people on here saying that “He will likely never regret it” Yeah, because everyone knows that people are done growing at 10 years old and the tattoo will likely just grow and stretch with the rest of his body, and NOT look like some horrible bruise or even worse. Man, the stupidity of people NEVER ceases to amaze me.
Posted by: mike | January 21, 2012, 11:47 am 11:47 am
The law is without a doubt a violation of the first amendment.
Posted by: Lastword | January 21, 2012, 12:09 pm 12:09 pm
hmmm…and taking a gun away from a 10 year old would be a violation of the second amendment? Or is a 10 year old not old enough to make decisions for himself to have such a thing?
Posted by: mike | January 21, 2012, 12:27 pm 12:27 pm
Every day, we are reminded that our “representatives” are representin’ only themselves, and have no regard fo our freedom or our Constitution.
What business is it of the state if a mother allows her son to get a tattoo in remembrance of his brother? How do we allow the state to deprive the mother of her liberty for this?
And the fool cop who says that counseling would be better than a tattoo— It is not up to him to make such a determination for free people. Families decide how to grieve for a loved one, and no input is needed from the police.
That so many comments indicate that this is somehow a matter to be decided by strangers is indicative of how we have lost our way as free people. It is a personal, family issue. Just because somebody wrote and got a law passed does not make it a just law.
We may be too late to keep from losing our nation, but we need to start standing up to “representatives” who propose these laws that steal our freedoms. Get in the habit of it.
Posted by: james g | January 21, 2012, 12:28 pm 12:28 pm
Sad, a parent can authorize a child to donate a kidney for transplantation to a sibling, but can’t authorize a tattoo.
Posted by: Dino | January 21, 2012, 12:28 pm 12:28 pm
The USA has achieved overreaching government with the excuse that they are protecting us. Badge of shame to have a laws like this on the books. Busy bodies need to focus on sweeping their own porches and use government for real issues. Hang on tight, anti-constitutionalists are squeaking loud with no intentions to stop until we live in a total nanny state sharing in equal opportunity misery.
Posted by: Meg | January 21, 2012, 12:57 pm 12:57 pm
A grieving boy making a decision to honor his brother, on his own body, is somehow wrong; but, little girls, including babies, punching holes in their ears to wear earrings for the sake of ‘looking cute’ is somehow okay. Think about it folks. YOUR life is not affected by what someone else draws on their own body. Your life WILL be affected when our out-of-bounds government finally gets its’ tentacles into a freedom YOU enjoy.
Posted by: callach | January 21, 2012, 1:08 pm 1:08 pm
Why is this mother considered to be on welfare? Is it because she is black? If she was a white mother would she have been arrested? Shame, shame, shame on all the racist commenters.
Posted by: RMT | January 21, 2012, 1:15 pm 1:15 pm
A. Not illegal to give consent but illegal to tattoo (personally given the relevance of the tattoo charges should be dropped)
B. What closed minded thinking are all you people talking about not being able to get a job with a tattoo. Simple rule nothing above the neck or below the wrist and a perspective employer cant see it to begin with. Seriously I know very few people that are successful and dont have a tattoo. I know more people who arent and do not though.
C. Everyone is forgetting he is black and you can barely see tattoos on him anyway besides with enough practice he could be the next NBA star. Then his only job will be to tell your kids what they should buy.
Posted by: Billy Dee | January 21, 2012, 1:23 pm 1:23 pm
Shudda just gotten “Hopie Changie, Who Ma Daddie” tattooed ….
Posted by: rufus levin | January 21, 2012, 1:25 pm 1:25 pm
And the news part of this story is…?
Posted by: Ace | January 21, 2012, 1:46 pm 1:46 pm
Everything is a crime now. No, I don’t approve of her allowing a 10 year old to get a tattoo, but come on, it’s not a crime.
Posted by: Kelly | January 21, 2012, 1:54 pm 1:54 pm
It is pretty silly how many people in the comments apparently only read the first paragraph of the article.
The mother is refusing to say who the tattoo “artist” is. The DA would gladly charge them, but their identity is not known at this time.
Also, if she was a white woman she would have definitely been arrested. A very similar circumstance cropped up with a trailer trash woman last year and she was also arrested and charged.
Posted by: Rebecca C | January 21, 2012, 1:54 pm 1:54 pm
Why didn’t the tattoo artist say no to doing the tattoo? I find it hard to believe that they don’t at least know the laws…
Posted by: Shaylee | January 21, 2012, 2:09 pm 2:09 pm
You wouldn’t think twice If you saw pictures of children with tatoos in National Geographics. Why is it against the law even when the parent gives permission??? Why are we allowing government to decide what is culturally acceptable in our country? Third world countries have more freedom than us!
Posted by: csjt | January 21, 2012, 2:19 pm 2:19 pm
Tattoos are not as widely accepted as most of you think. Just because my husband and I don’t say .”.We abhor tattoos” to a person who has one doesn’t mean we don’t. We cannot stand tattoos on anyone for any reason. Tattoos cheapen a person. They are not seen as cool by many many people. Most of us just silently judge a person with a tattoo as one who MUST make a statement to the world, which is obnoxious in almost all cases. So just because you all either have tattoos or don’t seem to mind that other peope have them doesn’t mean you know what LOTS of people think of you and your ugly permanent mark of stupidity and classlessness. I would never tell anyone with a tattoo that it looks crass,ugly and I hate it I judge them for it But all of that is true nonetheless. Also we do not hire people with visible tattoos.
Posted by: Karen B | January 21, 2012, 2:30 pm 2:30 pm
Could this just be additional proof that Herrnstein and Murray were correct? The mother must have an abnormally low IQ. Yes, I know she is one of God’s children, but she is dumber than a box of hammers for letting the kid get a tattoo.
Posted by: RightStuff | January 21, 2012, 2:32 pm 2:32 pm
On these little things people almost entirely see the intrusions of the state for what they are, yet with more important examples a much larger percentage of people seem to have a blind spot. On a fundamental level what is different about this law regarding tattoos than government telling us what we may eat, what drugs we may take, and a seemingly infinite number of top down one size fits all regulation of our lives?
Why does this cross the line but not say compulsory government run schooling (and regulation of all alternatives) that aims to program a child’s mind? Why does this cross the line but a an adult smoking pot being illegal doesn’t? The list goes on and on.
I am with the majority here that there was no crime committed here, but the state isn’t doing anything fundamentally different here than it does anywhere else.
Posted by: B | January 21, 2012, 2:39 pm 2:39 pm
When I was growing up people would just take their kids to mexico.
Posted by: Leo | January 21, 2012, 3:00 pm 3:00 pm
Whether folks would like to make this into a racial thing (now there’s a stretch) or whatever, it’s against the law and I think they’re probably right, a legit shop likely turned them away and the job was done in someone’s kitchen or something like. A comment, though, for every really great tattoo you see there will be dozens that are sloppy and quite poorly done. Just saying.
Posted by: MustangLee | January 21, 2012, 3:08 pm 3:08 pm
Where are the boundaries between the govt and private citizens. I don’t think it was a good idea, but why does the government need to step in? Can’t we just agree that it was not what “we” would do and move on? I just don’t want the gov making all of our decisions for us.
Posted by: Scott | January 21, 2012, 3:09 pm 3:09 pm
Ok My mom had braces put on my teeth, arrest her. My mom cut my hair, arrest her.
I got an abortion without moms consent, oh I forgot thats ok!!!!!!!!
Posted by: Marly | January 21, 2012, 3:13 pm 3:13 pm
This arrest is the kind of thing that happens in a police state. As long as the child isn’t being hurt, parents should be able to raise their children how they want without interference from the nanny state.
Posted by: Johnny | January 21, 2012, 3:22 pm 3:22 pm
The law makes it illegal for anyone other than a physician or osteopath to tatoo anyone under 18. The mother did not do the tatoo. She is not required by law to divulge the name of the one who did.
These charges will go away
Posted by: L GORMAN | January 21, 2012, 3:31 pm 3:31 pm
Geez. Let’s arrest all the doctors and parents for circumcising their children while we are at it. This parent has a right to make choices for her child. The government does not have a right to decide if this is wrong unless this child is being tortured which he was not.
Posted by: JS | January 21, 2012, 3:43 pm 3:43 pm
Carl Johnson approves.
Posted by: Carl Johnson | January 21, 2012, 4:09 pm 4:09 pm
Every comment here is really a vote for Ron Paul 2012. Less, Less, Less government interference in our lives.
Posted by: kbrali | January 21, 2012, 4:38 pm 4:38 pm
They lock her up for this when so many male children in the US are sexually mutilated (circumcised) without having a voice in it… Makes no sense. Not the best parenting in the world perhaps but seriously, this is too much.
Posted by: MC | January 21, 2012, 4:42 pm 4:42 pm
Why is it anyone’s business but his and his parents? Oh, right, I forgot… We don’t own our children, the government does. Good game, America.
Posted by: Danny | January 21, 2012, 4:52 pm 4:52 pm
This is disgusting! How can you be arrested for letting your son remember his brother??
This is just more proof of how sick people are now adays.
Posted by: Plazzma. | January 21, 2012, 5:13 pm 5:13 pm
Goverment need to stay away of our life. This is what Dr Ron Paul talks abou freedom and liberty. big Goverment wants to control our lifes. I cant wait until this federal gov will dissapear. Stupid people!!!!
Posted by: Mile | January 21, 2012, 5:21 pm 5:21 pm
Sounds like Chief of Police Michael Wilkie thinks of himself as an expert on tattoos, religion, and emotional response. Doesn’t he have better things to do with his time and staff other than going after mothers who love their children?
Posted by: Jms11 | January 21, 2012, 5:26 pm 5:26 pm
The Georgia police and justice system have!!too much money!!I If they can afford to go after mothers for allowing their kids to have tattoos (unless its gang related).
Let Georgia send more $$ to .pay down the national debt !!
At most a offering a counselling session regarding a family death may be required.
Why to go GA –kick’em when their down.
Posted by: J dady | January 21, 2012, 5:34 pm 5:34 pm
Now what will be some fun is to watch this case play out in court. The Judge should dismiss this case as soon as the State has presented its case. The story indicated that the law allows a monor to be tatooed by a pyhsician or an osteopath, and since it is the prosecutors burden to prove that it was NOT a physician or osteopath, how will this be accomplished since the prosecutor has no idea who actually did the tatooing? My guess is that it was an osteopath. Maybe not, but just a guess.
Posted by: Tom Jones | January 21, 2012, 5:35 pm 5:35 pm
It is not a good idea for anyone to get a tattoo – legal or not. I know have at least two persons in position to hire people at their respective companies and both said they would never hire someone with a visible tattoo. The positions for which they hire people generally require a college education but, just because someone doesn’t want a job requiring an education, doesn’t mean it’s OK to have tattoo – especially as one might change his mind someday. It should be none of the government’s business if someone wants a tattoo but it also shouldn’t be the government’s business if employers refuse to hire people with tattoos.
Posted by: David Wooten | January 21, 2012, 5:38 pm 5:38 pm
Circumcision without any anesthesia, ear piercing infants (with no anesthesia) and this woman is arrested for allowing her son to get a tattoo memoralizing his dead brother? Granted, I would not have made the same choice but this is another example of way too much government interference with our lives!
Posted by: anothermother | January 21, 2012, 5:53 pm 5:53 pm
Serious parenting FAIL. Epically.
Sounds like mom has a lot of guilt over her older son’s death. He was hit by a car?
Was he also allowed to do whatever he wanted ?
It’s sad, it’s tragic, and so uneducated.
Every so often, we get to look into the mindset of poverty. It’s about choices.
#1 where is the Father of these boys?
#2 who paid for the tatts?
May I just say that I am more than a little tired of seeing people on public assistance with weaves, tattoos, gold jewelry, and fake nails? I’m working, and cannot afford any of that stuff, or cable. I drive an old beater, yet I see the people pulling up in BMWs to get medical care for their kids under medicaid.
If her family is getting ANY public assistance, cut it off. She does not need it.
Posted by: Miselaineous | January 21, 2012, 5:53 pm 5:53 pm
for those of you that are talking about laws in some other state then Georgia, you should be arrested for being stupid. for those of you posting about the artist should be arrested instead, read the story! the Mother is not telling the popo the artist name, and you should be sent away also. then maybe the people that can read and think will be the ones that vote.
Posted by: stuart | January 21, 2012, 5:54 pm 5:54 pm
Apparently, Barney Fife is also a professional counselor.
Posted by: Michael McSpick | January 21, 2012, 6:17 pm 6:17 pm
Okay, let us say we make an exception for this child because the tat was to honor his dead bro. Where is the line drawn?
Another kid, say 8 years old gets a tat on his neck honoring Malcolm X? A swastika on the forehead honoring Hitler? A tattoo of a half eaten thigh honoring Jeffery Dahmers?
So, is a Judge to pick who we are allowed to indelibly honor and at what age?
For the record, pierced ears will grow shut. Tats are pretty permanent.
Posted by: Springer Rider | January 21, 2012, 6:36 pm 6:36 pm
It’s really stupid not to see the difference between pierced ears and tattoos.
Posted by: Joe Smith | January 21, 2012, 7:03 pm 7:03 pm
I teach middle school and the majorityof my 12-15 year old “babies” had ink. I taught in NC, and as far as I know no one ever said boo to the parents. Seems like there is real abuse happening everyday that should be looked into more than a memorial tattoo.
Posted by: Crys | January 21, 2012, 7:17 pm 7:17 pm
Considering all other arguments aside, pro or con, what the heck is this going to look like when a 10 year old’s body, and therefore his skin, doubles in size – it will become a stretched out and crappy memorial to a loved one.
Posted by: Obeserver On The Hill | January 21, 2012, 7:25 pm 7:25 pm
Whether or not her kid gets tattooed is the mother’s choice, not the state’s. This is an example of the nanny state invading people’s private space and making choices for them that they should be able to make for themselves.
I knew a kid whose dad let him get a tattoo when he was 16. Would that be a crime nowadays?
Posted by: Silver Fang | January 21, 2012, 8:16 pm 8:16 pm
Apparently everyone failed to read that the mother refused to tell authorities who tatooed her child therefore she is guilty of a crime. How can they prosecute the artist if she is refusing to tell who did it?
Posted by: Kball80 | January 22, 2012, 5:11 am 5:11 am
REALLY?? Doesn’t the police have any better laws to uphold? This is stupid. Where’s the petition to stop harassing this woman? Stupid law. And definitely not your usual “abuse” … the kid wanted the memory of his brother ON him….. She didn’t know it was illegal…. and so on top of her son’s death, she has to stand trial so as to further traumatize her now-tatted (God forbid!) child….. (What I posted on Google+…. SOMEONE START A PETITION!!! How the hell do these . .. stupid, ignorant laws… Don’t police have much more serious things to worry about? Ugh.
Posted by: Kim Hazelwood | January 22, 2012, 10:46 am 10:46 am
I love how some of you are referring to “African” culture because she is black. News flash…this is not Africa and I doubt seriously that she feels that this is cultural. Laws are put into place to try and prevent this type of ignorance from happening because people don’t have the common sense to make the right decisions for themselves. Sad!
Posted by: mi2cents | January 22, 2012, 11:08 am 11:08 am
For those of you saying that the parents should decide and not the state or government, do you also feel that it’s ok for a parent to consent to a 12 yr old smoking even though the laws says they have to be 18? What about drinking alcohol? If mommy and daddy say it’s ok should they be able to drink at any age? Again, laws are in place to protect from ignorance and lack of common sense! This is poor parenting and she should be held accountable.
Posted by: mi2cents | January 22, 2012, 11:17 am 11:17 am
I think the true show of ignorance is being proven right here in many of the previous comments. While I don’t agree with a ten year old getting a tattoo, even in memory of his brother, the tattoo itself won’t permanently scar this child. What will scar him is seeing his mother being arrested over something the child thought was a loving and caring gesture for his deceased brother.
As for tattoos, stereotypes do nothing but make you seem unintelligent. I am a 40 something WHITE stay at home soccer mom. I was raised middle class. I have old fashioned values. None of my children are allowed to swear, drink or do drugs. One child in college and one starting next year. I have tattoos. Including *gasp* a neck tattoo. The college student has a tattoo in memory of her dear friend. And I’m planning on getting more. Oh, I’ve never seen the inside of a prison cell or have been in handcuffs. Being afraid of someone else’s differences only shows how insecure you are. Good day all.
Posted by: Kay | January 22, 2012, 2:12 pm 2:12 pm
I wonder how many of the outraged posters here voted for Obama, or any other big-brother- big-government, Patriot-Act-voting, NDAA-voting-politician?? Until you stop encouraging these dictocrats, you have no right to complain. You get what you vote for. Think about that. Then support the only man who opposes all of them – Ron Paul. Restore the Constitution, Restore the Republic! End the wars, end the Fed, end the IRS! Ron Paul 2012!
Posted by: belle | January 22, 2012, 2:48 pm 2:48 pm
If this is representative of how our tax money is being spent it’s no wonder that we’re in debt as a nation up to our eye balls. The state needs to step back from being the parents and let the parents worry about what’s right or wrong for their child. What is right for my child may well not be right for other children, i am not going to presume to push my values onto them. the Police are not social workers and social workers are not the police- and as a taxpayer i sure don’t appreciate having to pay for this crap. i want the Police to protect us from those people trying to kill us or steal from us and pretty much stay out of everything else. i want social services to help those people that need help providing food and shelter and a limited degree of healthcare- and that’s about it. i do not want to fund the budget of militarialized police units or social services police- the next thing you know they will be arresting parents for not setting a good example for children (and who, exactly, decides what that will be??).
Posted by: Glenn | January 22, 2012, 3:11 pm 3:11 pm
My biggest fear is having to live in a world where people like MI2CENTS are going to try and decide what’s common sense and what isn’t. Anyone that fails to understand that there is no way to legislate common sense should have their children taken away and re-educated by the state. See how that works? Don’t like it, do ya?
Posted by: Glenn | January 22, 2012, 3:19 pm 3:19 pm
Why is this news? Don’t we have a bunch of crooks trying to become president? And a few wars that have been going poorly for several years? Way to keep you eye on the ball, ABC.
Posted by: Tom | January 22, 2012, 3:33 pm 3:33 pm
Can’t the mother be arrested for her choice of names for her kids ?
Posted by: mike | January 22, 2012, 5:29 pm 5:29 pm
@Juanita
“Ignorance breads”? This is not about bread. Bread is for eating. This story is about tattoos. Please discuss your opinions about baking in an article about food. I don’t think bread is ignorant at all anyways. It can be very intelligent at times, especially if it is wheat bread.
Posted by: Rod | January 22, 2012, 5:46 pm 5:46 pm
I see nothing wrong with what she did. The law is too strict. Clearly this kid made the decision to do it for very admirable reasons. As long as his mother gave her consent nobody should be allowed to stand this kids way. Its not like the kid wanted a gang symbol or something. Then mom would need to step in say no. As for the tattoo artist that did it. If it was illegal to do in the state then he probably shouldn’t have done it but again that goes back to the point many have made about the law staying out of parents business on small issues like this. I hope she doesn’t turn the artist in and I pray they drop the charges.
The law is actually the one that caused this kid harm by making him feel like he caused his mother to get arrested over his own desire to do something good. He will respect the law less because of it.
Posted by: Mike | January 22, 2012, 5:53 pm 5:53 pm
A parent should have the right to decide whether or not to allow their willing child to get a tattoo without the government being involved. This was not an unreasonable application of the law, given the circumstances.
Posted by: Emerald | January 22, 2012, 6:56 pm 6:56 pm
With the names parents are giving kids these days, there’s a lot more parents out there who are putting “cruel and unusual” punishment on their kids that will get them scarred for life and bulled all through school. If they aren’t being arrested, this mother shouldn’t be either. Big Brother, quit trying to tell us how to live our lives!
Posted by: Joe | January 22, 2012, 6:58 pm 6:58 pm
If it’s a jailhouse type tattoo, everybody should consider the health risks involved. Had the child lost an arm, well, all the supporters might be singing a different song…
Posted by: John Tate | January 22, 2012, 7:23 pm 7:23 pm
This is ridiculousness. They shouldn’t be arresting mothers under such circumstances, the law shouldn’t exist, and the fascist thug force(the cops) should use some judgement. None of that happens often in our fascist third world police state.
At least she’s not cooperating with the cops, that’s the last thing she needs, to talk her way into more charges.
Posted by: Xira | January 22, 2012, 7:45 pm 7:45 pm
The kids name is Gaquan. I don’t think a tattoo is going to affect this childs future. Enjoy my tax dollars Gaquan.
Posted by: jw | January 22, 2012, 8:41 pm 8:41 pm
“A parent should have the right to decide whether or not to allow their willing child to get a tattoo without the government being involved.”
That is EVERY parent’s right in this country and the law should be declared unconstitutional!
Posted by: BCR | January 22, 2012, 8:43 pm 8:43 pm
Tattoos are old and lame. But it is his mom’s business if she wants to let him nobody else has the right to poke their nose in. It can’t hurt him.
Posted by: grikdog | January 22, 2012, 9:09 pm 9:09 pm
How about YOU stay out of MY life, and I’ll stay out of yours.
Screw the government.
Posted by: Thatguy | January 22, 2012, 10:29 pm 10:29 pm
I wonder what the boy’s dad had to say about this? oh, wait…..
I guess the good news is that since he is 10 years old, the kid only has 2-3 years of school left.
What a loser mom! Child abuse. Epic Parenting Fail from ANOTHER single loser mom!!….surprise!
Posted by: mixintl | January 22, 2012, 10:31 pm 10:31 pm
In 99.9 percent of cases I am opposed to government involvement; however, laws are made to prevent the stupid and the ignorant from harming themselves and others….and this lady obviously needs help.
I am REALLY SURPRISED that so many people are siding with the mom on this one….and I am disappointed….it just shows the moral decay of this country. This kid has NO CHANCE – soon we can all get tats to memorialize him!!! Where has all the common sense gone in this world???
Posted by: mixintl | January 22, 2012, 10:42 pm 10:42 pm
Seems like the state has no case. Since they don’t know who did it, they can’t prove the tatoo artist wasn’t a doctor, or even that it was obtained in Georgia.
Posted by: Dan Lavatan | January 22, 2012, 11:04 pm 11:04 pm
It’s perfectly ok to submit a child to genital mutilation aka circumcision, but not a tattoo? For that matter you can raise your kid as a psychotic racist or homophobe or in a cult like Westboro Baptist, but this is a jailable offense?
Posted by: kenneth | January 22, 2012, 11:18 pm 11:18 pm
To the African poster who said Africans do not get tattooed:
YOU ARE LYING. This is an example of European culture invading Africa and making us forget our traditions!!!!!!!!! We have tattooed ourselves for thousands of years in traditional, religious and health circumstances. Sometimes we do it in the form of scarification. I consider scarification part of tattooing culture. A lot of my young friends back home have tattooes and a lot of my family has tribal face marking. I’m from Nigeria. This woman did nothing wrong!!!!
Also, the racism against blacks evident in a lot of these posts is just sickening. continue. In fact, how about you racists leave America? That is NOT what America stands for.
Posted by: Omolola | January 22, 2012, 11:21 pm 11:21 pm
This is where the “law” and politics take it too far and Americans aren’t really free enough. The mother isn’t being charged for beating or neglecting her child,so the law needs to get off her back… Their needs to be an amended law rearding this. My 4 year old child has recently lost her father and if she were at least 8 years old and asked me for permission to get a tattoo oneday I wouldn’t object: I would FULLY support her. I believe 8 years is a minimal age to allow such since this age is when the understand more complex issues, especially since the child begins to understand permanency by around the young age of 5. I would just make sure it was in an area that won’t give her an “unprofessional” image for the sake of the judgemental a–holes involved with her future career that this world obviously still has (like some viewer’s comments posted here prove me right). And WHY is it that it’s legal to pierce your child’s ears at whatever age then?! Where’s the consistency with between these two VERY similar issues?! Ear piercing hurts too. Yes, it is less permanent, but to argue that, I know of many parents who have re-inflicted this pain on their child due to the ear piercing healing really fast..I wish this mother the best of luck and that justice is on her side. I also hope that the law regarding this is at least amended to allow a child to decide at the youngest age of 8 and that if a child was to desire such for something as sentimental as this case just make them present their case to the judge and have the child appear and personally ask the judge for permission. That way there isn’t an issue of the child’s legal guardian imposing on the child’s rights.
Posted by: Sarah | January 23, 2012, 12:46 am 12:46 am
This wasn’t done at a tattoo shop as some of the people think that are commenting, it was done by someone on their on, as some call a jailhouse tattoo. Which means there are no sanitary regulations in place and who knows how it was done. That alone is enough to arrest a mother who allowed whatever Tom, Dick or Harry to do this to her child. Can’t believe she asked how can she say no to a tattoo for her son since it is memorializing her son who was killed! That shows she is missing the point concerning health concerns, as it has nothing to do with why he wanted it or what the tattoo said, it wasn’t safe for her son. Ten year olds need intelligent parents to make the right decisions and steer then in the right direction and explain to them why. Clearly she’s not playing with a full deck.
Posted by: alice rose | January 23, 2012, 1:55 am 1:55 am
There seem to be a lot of self-righteous people who think they know best how to memorialize some one else’s lost love ones. Tattoos are art, and an upper arm tattoo is easy to cover. While a child of ten may not fully understand the pain of a tattoo, I’m sure he understands the pain of losing a brother. To let someone’s memory live on your body is a noble and decent thing, the child’s love shows empathy beyond his years. Lastly, its not on his face or neck, and having a tattoo removed can be done easily in relatively little time. I too would be proud of a child who would honor his lost brother, in an otherwise permanent gesture.
Posted by: justin | January 23, 2012, 2:07 am 2:07 am
What business is it of the government? We do not use Deuteronomy as law. If the kid wants a tattoo to EXPRESS his feelings about his brother, how is this not free speech? And is the kid circumcised? That practice is far more barbaric than getting a tattoo. I cannot understand what the government’s legitimate interest is here. The law, as it relates to this issue, should be retooled. Or, in other words, the GA gov should @#$%^ itself and mind its own business.
Posted by: EDIPTLLC | January 23, 2012, 2:15 am 2:15 am
They hate us for our freedoms!
ROFL
Posted by: Chewie | January 23, 2012, 7:16 am 7:16 am
When my dad was ten, he took some indian ink and gave himself a tattoo on his arm of his name that you can still see to this day. I think the next time the old man gives me some lip, I’m calling the Georgia police.
Cant she just say that she had it done in another state and let it be done?
The little boys brother died, her son died, and you have the audacity to throw her in jail? That’s shameful to be so cruel to a family in their grief.
Posted by: melissa | January 23, 2012, 7:21 am 7:21 am
this mother should be let go free. this law was intended for human children. its clear that this kid is maybe 20% human (at most) therefore the law shouldnt apply to him. baaa-booom.
Posted by: paul kersey | January 23, 2012, 7:57 am 7:57 am
This is insane. The mother sounds like a principled woman and I’m glad she’s refusing to tell police. I hope public outrage causes them to drop the charges, but unfortunately she’s black and all the racists aren’t going to let that happen. Any excuse to lock another one up, right guys?
Posted by: Matt | January 23, 2012, 8:20 am 8:20 am
So many things wrong here. The fact that so many are defending this womans actions is the most frightning thing here.
Only a fool would tatoo a child. Period. Her greif for her lost child is being spread out to her live child. She needs help, and I daresay not just for the missing sensibility about the tatoo on a child.
What world does she live in where a tatoo is o.k. for a kid? Thats the real issue, and if you dont see that tatoos on kids are wrong, then you yourself need help.
Posted by: Chris | January 23, 2012, 9:01 am 9:01 am
Props to the mother for not snitching on the artist. Really. The government needs to get out of our lives. Many people have memorial tattoos. The mother included, its not a leap that the boy would want one too.
Posted by: Stephanie | January 23, 2012, 9:02 am 9:02 am
Definitely not the business of the state and, if you read the law as it was written, the mother has committed no crime.
Posted by: Herb | January 23, 2012, 9:28 am 9:28 am
The state has no right to intervene in this situation, regardless of the opinions of the masses, the judges or the police the child has his mothers permission and parental rights should trump state or federal law every time. Ultimately we should have enough respect as a society to honr the rights of childrens as much as parents and allow the kid to do what he wants.
Posted by: letfreedomring | January 23, 2012, 10:13 am 10:13 am
So, parents can administer puberty-delaying drugs to their children but cannot let them get a tattoo at their own request? Thanks government, that makes perfect sense.
Posted by: Commonsense | January 23, 2012, 10:15 am 10:15 am
Reading what the law states, I don’t think the mother should be held responsible. Only the tattoo artist should be charged unless he/she is a physician or osteopath. Doesn’t GA DA have more severe crime cases to pursue?
Posted by: Kab | January 23, 2012, 10:21 am 10:21 am
They arrest a mother over a tattoo but I imagine they have no problem with newborn circumcision, another cosmetic procedure that’s painful, against their consent, and serves no purpose other than aesthetics.
Posted by: Arf40 | January 23, 2012, 10:47 am 10:47 am
So you can circumcise a baby with no worries, but let your son, who is old enough to articulate the request in adult terms, get a tattoo and look out-you’re going to jail. Oh, Georgia, when will you ever win?
Posted by: Alfred | January 23, 2012, 11:36 am 11:36 am
Those of you who are saying that this should not be prosecuted because of the type of tattoo it is are morons. There is a reason why children should not be tattooed. She obviously did not take this child to a repuatable place. Any place that follows the rules,laws and regulations of tattooing would not have tatted this kid. So she took him to a place that is seedy and most likely unclean. If these people are willing to tattoo a child then who is to say that they use a clean needle everytime. She could have just exposed her child to HIV, AIDS, Hepetitas, not to mention infections that can occur in tattoos that are done at clean places. I am not against tattoos. I have 4 of them my self and I have no problem with my daughter getting a tattoo when she is 18 but to do it before that point is obsurded. If the tattoo ment that much to him then he could have waited until he was 18. She should go to jail and that boy should be tested for HIV, AIDs and Hepetitis.
Also that is the law in almost every state. some states you can be 16 or 17 with parent permission but there is not a single state that allows a 10 year to get a tattoo under any circumstances
Posted by: alm | January 23, 2012, 11:49 am 11:49 am
I love stories like this. Reading all the idiotic comments from brain-dead right-wing trash who can’t wait to load the page with racist, slanderous crap shows better than anything else what kind of liars and hypocrites you all are. You’re all for “less government, no more nanny state, liberty and freedom!” – except when someone ELSE’S “liberty and freedom” is involved. Crawl back under your rocks, you pathetic vermin.
Posted by: CharlieAdamsIn Kentucky | January 23, 2012, 11:51 am 11:51 am
“It shall be unlawful for any person to tattoo the body of any person under the age of 18, except a physician or osteopath.”
So only physicians or osteopaths can get tattoos if they are under the age of 18?
Posted by: Arf40 | January 23, 2012, 11:53 am 11:53 am
I don’t agree with that tattoos but I don’t think the mother should’ve been arrrested. There are are worst things out there. Don’t believe me? Just put on that awful Toddlers and Tiaras program and see what those awful mothers do their their kids in the name of beauty just to win a lousy contest! If you ask me that’s more abusive!
Posted by: Sabrina | January 23, 2012, 12:09 pm 12:09 pm
To the person that stated this boy is doomed to a life of crime and prison for getting a tattoo is a moron. I personally have 9 tattoos and am very close to finishing my PHD. Just another example of ignorant stereotyping. Maybe next time you are visiting with your Dr. or Lawyer you should ask if they have any tattoos. You would be surprise how many professionals these days have them!
Posted by: DiAn | January 23, 2012, 12:24 pm 12:24 pm
As a tattoo artist, I’ve known for 20 plus years that tattooing anyone under 18 is a FEDERAL issue and any reputable tattoo artist knows it, too. While I have every kind of sympathy for the kiid and his mom and do believe that this should result in a warning, perhaps it’s a good thing to get some publicity for it. If, however, the cops insists on prosecution, they are dirtbags.
Posted by: Coriolana | January 23, 2012, 12:28 pm 12:28 pm
CharlieAdamsIn Kentucky, lol. Bitter, much? What lame venom you spew. Let me guess, you stlll think having a tattoo is like cool and rebellious. And you’re from the desperate left, probably very far left. LOL, times a bunch.
Posted by: Bite It | January 23, 2012, 12:30 pm 12:30 pm
“Crawl back under your rocks, you pathetic vermin.”
Posted by: CharlieAdamsIn Kentucky
You seem to be very defensive about being an inbred hill person. :) Laughably posing as socially “liberal” won’t help matters, as I’m sure some of your relatives have pointed out. Go get a tattoo, and get happy, or at least content in your perpetual unhappiness.
Posted by: Blair | January 23, 2012, 12:48 pm 12:48 pm
First off – I’m tattooed and have a number of piercings as well. I’m also a mother of two young girls. Neither of which have their ears pieced, and they won’t until they are capable of doing after care themselves. People are comparing tattoos to earrings … here’s the big difference .. you can take the earrings out and the holes will close and save for a possible small scar there will be no sign of the piercing.
As for the mother being arrested for it – she willingly took him to a shop (apparently with questionable skill level according to the article) and permitted him to get a permanent body modification. As a parent is is my RESPONSIBILITY to know the laws regarding my child. You know, things like car seat laws, and curfews, I would have hoped that as a parent herself she would have at least looked into the legal ramifications of her minor child getting a tattoo.
Also if she refuses to name the tattoo “parlor” in which she got the tattoo then they’re going to have a hard time going after the “artist” who did the tattoo.
Posted by: Jen | January 23, 2012, 12:52 pm 12:52 pm
I don’t even know what to say about this. Who cares? Why waste valuable human resources on investigating this? And the reporter’s conclusion is meddlesome: how dare you tell a grieving mother and son how to mourn.
This whole case appears to be a breach of the family’s privacy.
Posted by: Jeffrey Soto | January 23, 2012, 1:01 pm 1:01 pm
What a horrible way to memorialize someone. Every time the child thinks of his mother or brother, he will think what a stupid mother he has.
Posted by: M | January 23, 2012, 1:24 pm 1:24 pm
This is not the role of government. Personal liberties are almost deminished. Go Ron Paul 2012 !!! Our only hope. I hate tatoos and would never have one, however, thats my OPINION. The governments role should be to prevent people from harming OTHER people, not themselves.
Posted by: Jamey | January 23, 2012, 1:26 pm 1:26 pm
As a proud black man, I’m shocked, disgusted and revolted by this gutter welfare scum mother allowing and encouraging her 10 year old son to receive a tattoo. Another example of why our proud black heritage will be lost in the ignorant gangster thug rap culture that’s destroyed any hope for our future. Shame on this mother and the rap culture the encourages this 10 year old to remember his brother by getting a tattoo, instead of looking for other ways to remember his brother. When is someone with common sense going to stand up and say this is a sin, instead of making excuses for this POS mother destroying her sons future.
Posted by: Diatamatious Washington | January 23, 2012, 1:30 pm 1:30 pm
i do not agree with any children under 18 being tatoo’d, before she took him she should of did her research. not only should she be charged but so dose the artist who performed the work should be arrested as well. these youth go to school and part of the dress code should be no one is to to have branding on them until after they are graduated from school because they are being groomed into adults for careers. i think its apart of the etiquette children should be trained… African American youth are so misguided. how many white children do you see all marked up at 10 years old. when do we become the parent and not the friend. when do we stop allowing the hip hop culture tain our youth.. find alternative ways to keep the memory alive…
bottom line.. charge the mother and the artist together.. i think all states should adopt a law such as this with fines attached
Posted by: ohio resident | January 23, 2012, 1:30 pm 1:30 pm
I think the people talking about welfare and him ending up in prison are just stupid. First of all, this young man has lost his brother and is probably still grieving his lost. Did it ever occur to the idiots and racists who said all those nasty things that the young man can read this article and all the negative things you all are saying? I have a 10-year-old so I know that the young man can read all of this. Secondly, there is nothing wrong with someone getting a tattoo. My daughter has a tattoo and a piercing and she is a student a very prestigious college studying to become a doctor. She graduated in the top 5% of her class and has always been an honor student. A tattoo does not change a person’s intelligence level. How about all of you posters show a little respect for this family and allow them to deal with their precious loss the way that they wish to? And finally, if it was against the law, why is everyone blaming the mother when she (just like most of you) would not know that law but the person who did the tattoo should most certainly have known? This is just ridiculous and some of you posters need to grow up!
Posted by: audsopinion | January 23, 2012, 1:33 pm 1:33 pm
This is such a bunch of crap!!!!! People are always trying to control other people. If this women gave consent for her son to have this done, it is no one’s business. Some people do not under stand others ethics or culture. Keep you bias to your self. What is the difference in piercing a 5 mos. old little girls ears? I guess that is acceptable because society says it is ok….Get a Life!
Posted by: Charlotte | January 23, 2012, 1:42 pm 1:42 pm
What the cops aren’t understanding, and the the teachers, is that tattoo memorials are a CULTURAL TRADITION in the black community. Get with it people.
Posted by: MsWorld | January 23, 2012, 1:53 pm 1:53 pm
I concur that arresting the mother for allowing her son to get a tattoo is extreme.
However, this is against the law in Georgia AND (and I think this second point is critical) the mother was told by a licensed tattoo artist that it was illegal causing her to obtain one from a amateur tattoo artist. Using an unlicensed tattoo is dangerous and that might be the most important issue in this case – child endangerment.
Posted by: San Francisco Resident | January 23, 2012, 2:07 pm 2:07 pm
The difference between piercing and getting a tattoo is a brand that is there for life (or very difficult to remove anyway). Piercings (on average) will close pretty easily, whereas a tattoo is something you will have to cover if you want to get certain jobs or work in specific professions. People judge you based on tattoos whether you like it or not. This includes potential future college boards, employers, etc. This may seem far in the future to this woman and her son, or maybe they think this is something that will never happen for them, but it is impossible to know, and by getting a tattoo at this early age, it might limit this little boys opportunities.
She asks “how can she say no?” and I say, “how can she not.” We all have to say no to our kids. This is two years after his brothers death. This is not an immediate grief response to the incident. This boy will survive without getting the tattoo. He has been dealing with the death for two years already it seems. Of course none of us can know the details, but it does not seem a tattoo is the answer to all of his problems anymore than any short term solution such as buying him a video game or other toy.
As far as this being a cultural thing, we assimilate all cultures into the United States, but all cultures also have to abide, to some extent anyway, to the laws of this country. For instance, some cultures have certain religious rituals that we are illegal in America, so if individuals are caught practicing these rituals they will be prosecuted. It is part of living in this country.
It is just my take on the issue, but I feel she could have, and should have said no to her son. He could just have easily gotten the tattoo when he was eighteen, knew a little better where he was going in life and had a little of his own common sense to use when making a decision.
Posted by: Robin | January 23, 2012, 2:23 pm 2:23 pm
I got my hand tattooed years ago, and some people told me that it was illegal to tattoo below the wrist. It was the first I had heard of it and I was incredulous. How can the government tell me what I can or cannot do with my own body? Different tribes around the world have tattooed, pierced, scarred each other for thousands of years as an artistic or cultural expression. This government needs to realize that this ain’t the 1950′s anymore and get a clue. I think that women (or anyone for that matter)who paint their face every day, only to wash it off every night is twice as weird as any tattoo. Who really cares if a kid has a tattoo or not, and I for one think it’s wonderful that this kid wanted to remember his brother in that way. Government needs to back off and get their hands off our bodies.
Posted by: Andrew | January 23, 2012, 2:32 pm 2:32 pm
I am disturbed by the patronizing tone of the authorities’ statements that the mother and son should receive some sort of religious or professional help for their grief. There is an implication here that these people must be misguided in their grieving methods because it’s not the way white people would grieve. That is an opinion they should keep to themselves. It is none of their business and people should be free to grieve however they wish as long as it doesn’t harm others in society.
Posted by: Sam | January 23, 2012, 3:28 pm 3:28 pm
Is a 10-year old really mature enough to know if he/she wants something emblazoned on their body for the rest of their life? Considering all the health hazards (and it’s more than just the risk of infections), I think this is child endangerment.
Posted by: Kithara | January 23, 2012, 4:09 pm 4:09 pm
I understand the purpose of the law, but if the tattoo isn’t somewhere that might prevent him from getting a job later in life, I think an exception should be made. You may not understand it because it isn’t the norm in your community, but many people get tattoos to remember their deceased loved ones. Even children have free speech rights and provided this child is choosing to make an expression that won’t hurt him later in life, I see no problem with it. If he were getting a tattoo that said “thug life” on his forehead, it would be an entirely different situation.
Posted by: Joseph | January 23, 2012, 4:20 pm 4:20 pm
Should a 10 year old be allowed to get a tattoo? In my opinion, no. Is this woman a bad mother for catering to her child’s every request? Yes. Should a random civilian be expected to know every single law regarding tattoos? Absolutely not.
The tattoo artist should have been arrested. He’s the one responsible for keeping up with current tattoo laws. The mother was not to blame.
Posted by: Sheri | January 23, 2012, 4:30 pm 4:30 pm
If tattooing a child who asked for a tattoo to remember his brother is a crime, then I think that these police officals have to much time on their hands. I live in MN and a child can recieve a tattoo here as long as the parent gives concent. I would not allow my child to get a tattoo but as a parent I have the right to allow my child to what I feel is right. The police need to mind their own business, dismiss charges and spend their time finding REAL crimes that have been commited. This just goes to show that government officals are tryign to tell people how to raise their children. If they want their say on how a child is raised then they can also pay to support that child.
Posted by: Melissa VanderLinden | January 23, 2012, 4:35 pm 4:35 pm
These days, all sorts of people, from all sorts of social backgrounds, have tats and body piercings. It’s not my personal choice – in fact, I’m pretty disgusted when I see toddlers with pierced ears. But a large number of very young people have tats in obvious and nonobvious locations. The police are right that this particular tat looks nonprofessional, but I’m not sure if it should have any bearing on the decision of whether or not to prosecute a crime. Ten seems young for a tat and the mother is not the brightest light on the porch. But if they went after everyone under 18 who had a tat and prosecuted the parents and/or the person who did the tat, they would be very busy for a very long time. It probably would be a good idea to just pass a law that prohibits any tats for children under 14 and leave it at that. I’d also support a law prohibiting piercings for any child under 14. Some people likewise might think that circumcision for someone under legal age should be prohibited. I suppose the list could go on and on.
Posted by: alawyer | January 23, 2012, 4:45 pm 4:45 pm
This is a parental matter. Not a criminal matter. Mind your own business CPS!
Posted by: IknowwhatImtalkingabout | January 23, 2012, 5:12 pm 5:12 pm
Raven – That is one of the most ridiculous, logically-flawed statements I have ever observed.
Posted by: Anti-Raven | January 23, 2012, 5:39 pm 5:39 pm
I’m trying to figure out why certain people are assuming she is on welfare.
Posted by: Mscat1 | January 23, 2012, 7:30 pm 7:30 pm
I believe it was certainly a bad choice, he could have waited till be was older to get a memorial tattoo for his brother 10 is very young for a tattoo no matter what color you are. I don’t believe she should face charges though, hasn’t she been through enough, i’m sure there are more serious laws being broken in GA.
Posted by: badchoice | January 23, 2012, 8:58 pm 8:58 pm
On the neck, wow how awful. That’s just ugly.
Posted by: Doe | January 23, 2012, 9:15 pm 9:15 pm
ok have most of you NOT read the whole thing, she won’t release who did the tattooing. I personally wouldn’t allow my child at 10 to get a tat at least wait till 16 (least in my state its legal as long as a parent consents). But to arrest her for it is ridiculous, like her and the family haven’t been through enough. I personally think the government needs to back off some. Stop telling parents how to parent. Like i said I wouldn’t allow my children when they are 10 get tats for any reason but thats my personal opinion and to each their own. Wasn’t like he was wanting some “nonsense” thing, it was for the memory of his brother. Just like some don’t agree with piercing babies ears, where i do had my 1st daughters done at 4 months and she didn’t even flinch, she had more of an issue with the shots that are required than getting her ears pierced.
Posted by: gypsi | January 23, 2012, 11:07 pm 11:07 pm
In Alabama as long as the parent gives consent its five and I don’t really see the harm if its for his dead brother
Posted by: ty | January 23, 2012, 11:18 pm 11:18 pm
No way she’s wrong 10 that’s like tell him it’s ok to smoke and drink I think it’s just as bad!!!
Posted by: Haybreseth | January 24, 2012, 12:10 am 12:10 am
i would normally say no tatoo’s for anyone under 18 however in this case i can fully understand why the mom let him get the tat it is a memorial to his brother and a way for him to have closure. I dont think his mom should have been arrested for it. no one knows how hard it is for a kid to loose and sibling and to witness it to boot unless you have been through it yourself. and everyone greives and heals differently so who has the right to say he has no right to grieve and heal in his way. and an fyi tatoo’s CAN be removed or covered up! instead of judging everyone else why not learn COMPASSION and UNDERSTANDING? the world would be a much better place if people would remember to love one another!
Posted by: Jan D | January 24, 2012, 1:30 am 1:30 am
WOW….. I must be so naive. I never have seen so much ignorance in one spot before! “Black people shouldn’t have kids?!??” REALLY CARL? “if you have a tattoo you’re going to prison?!?? REALLY KEN? and to the rest of u saying he will never get a job??? ARE YOU PEOPLE REALLY THAT STUPID and RACIST?? My father has 7 tattoos, he is retired from the Army, Navy AND merchant Marines. I am COVERED in tattoos, and am in a Master’s program for CRIMINAL JUSTICE. I am also the General Manager at my current place of employment. So getting a tattoo when I was 14 really messed up my life huh? NO.
There’s nothing wrong with this child getting a memorial tattoo for his brother. Here in VA parental consent is allowed for tattoos. He won’t regret his tattoo. Just because he’s black and has a tattoo does NOT mean he is going to be a felon…
You people are the epitome of ignorance in this country.
Posted by: amanda | January 24, 2012, 8:18 am 8:18 am
As long as both the mother and the child consented to the tattoo, body modification for the child should not be considered a crime. The majority of my friends have tattoos. Each of them have jobs that pay well, many of them own their own homes, the majority of them have not been arrested, the majority of them likely will never be arrested, and the majority of them have surrounded themselves with friends and family members that are intelligent, trustworthy, loyal, supportive, and law-abiding. This mother has not “doomed” her child to anything, nor has this child “doomed” himself. And if you are the type of person who would treat another human being as a second class citizen based upon his or her appearance, it is your character, and your contribution to society, that should be in question.
Posted by: Angee | January 24, 2012, 10:14 am 10:14 am
Why is this even an issue. Come on, seriously? If that mother and child agree that that’s what they want to do, who’s business is it? This is not some spoiled child wanting a frivolous tattoo, this is a boy who was present when his brother was killed wanting to have a permanent memorial for his late brother. In other cultures infants get pierced, (ears, lips, nose, etc.), boys get circumcised and teens every where go under tanning lamps to get a tan (risking cancer and premature aging). Who is legislating that? I think our government doesn’t know when to mind its own business. How about our police and sheriffs get back to finding the rapists, murderers and theives and leave that mother alone to raise her child. ENOUGH!
Posted by: Barbara | January 24, 2012, 2:29 pm 2:29 pm
As a mother of two, I find it disturbing that this woman, and many of you commenting, don’t have a problem with giving a 10 year old a tattoo. There are better ways to show memory and love for his deceased brother. People like her should have to take an IQ test before having children.
Posted by: MD Mom of 2 | January 24, 2012, 3:23 pm 3:23 pm
What about the immunization shots that goes into infants as young as 2 months old…that has Aluminum and Mercury fillers in it? Ear piercing, circumcision, toddlers being waxed? The government should have no say so over our bodies If some people were not so prejudiced or racist, you would see the true issue…our rights being taken away….Next the APA will start arresting people who dress up their animals. This government interfering needs to stop.
Posted by: Rosalyn | January 24, 2012, 3:37 pm 3:37 pm
This child got a tattoo in honor of his brother…Nothing wrong with that…Mom said it was okay…They should just leave them alone….
Posted by: Brenda | January 24, 2012, 3:42 pm 3:42 pm
Any of our personal opinions about the mother’s choices do not matter… unfortunately only the LAW does… and it is the laws of this country and individual states that need policing! Thank goodness the Old way of thinking is dying out, and a new generation will be coming into power. If you care enough to police this site and read all these responses… then care enough to do your part and put your two scents in to your government officials about the laws that govern YOU! It could be your personal choices that are in jeapordy and judged by this site next time….. protect yourself and those you care about by getting involved in a way that might Actually make a difference versus just gossiping….
“Gifts” are meant to be given…. are you sharing yours?
Posted by: Aubra | January 24, 2012, 3:57 pm 3:57 pm
The law makes complete sense. A child of ten shouldn’t be able give consent, nor his parent give consent for him or her, to get something as permanent as a tattoo. Super obvious.
Posted by: Dave | January 24, 2012, 6:48 pm 6:48 pm
The police state in this country is growing. This is not an ages-old law. It is fairly recent, not to mention stupid. It should be with parental consent. If a minor can get an abortion, married or pierced with parental consent they should be able to get a tattoo. This should not be a law. It is criminalizing behavior that is not mainstream.
Posted by: PTA Mom | January 24, 2012, 6:58 pm 6:58 pm
Dave, do you have children? Parents must give consent for marriage, abortion and piercing. I don’t really see this as any different. This law is criminalizing behavior that is not criminal. What a waste of my government tax dollars.
Posted by: PTA Mom | January 24, 2012, 7:03 pm 7:03 pm
While I may not agree with her parenting decision, I hardly see it as a criminal act. Should he have waited until he was older (18 years or more), to decide to permanently alter his body? Yes. However, I believe that the mother acted in good faith on behalf of one son’s desire to memorialize another. I also agree that piercings are just as damaging as tattoos. Especially to young males. I wholeheartedly oppose mothers who pierce their infant sons’ ears. I think there is more chance of them being stigmatized than a young man whose tattoo can be covered by a shirt sleeve.
Posted by: SHEWOLF209 | January 24, 2012, 8:45 pm 8:45 pm
It was a tattoo for something important and special. I totally get why, under normal circumstances, you would NEVER let a 10 year old get a tattoo, but to me, if there was ever an exception, this would be it. I hope her punishment is more of a slap on the wrist. Sad situation, of course she should of/could of waited til he was older, but still… I’m glad to hear she is not dragging the artist into the fray.
Posted by: Amanda | January 24, 2012, 10:55 pm 10:55 pm
Her child, his body, everyone else mind your business. 1st he asked for permission… not her fault most children sneak and get tattoos, 2nd shouldn’t the government be more concerned about the crazy individuals who are killing their children each day, or those who neglect their children. This mother and son has a relationship and a relationship like this family is something that many parents can only dream about. 3rd he did not get this tattoo on his face, neck, hands, or somewhere that could prevent him from getting a job in the future, as some famous rappers have done to themselves. The tattoo does not symbolize some sort of gang, click, or some other non-sense. If he wanted to remember his brother in this way then so be it. Everyone copes with death in different ways. So if he wanted to plant a tree, frame a picture, visit his grave everyday, where his brothers clothes, change his name to his brother’s name, get a tattoo, or anything else that did not harm anyone else. Then so be it. If this is considered wrong then, parents should be arrested for allowing their children to date at a young age, lettiong their female daughters at a young age wear revealing clothing, letting their young son pants sag, participate in pagents in which children appear to be little women in childrens bodies, and parents should be arrested for allowing kids to curse at them and hold grown-up conversations. In other words, parents consent is just that consent of the parent not the state. If a parent is responsible for his or her child until 18 and unless the act is sexual, drug related, abuse (physcial or verbal), or can cause harm to the child or others than the parent has the right to do what he or she feels is appropriate.
Posted by: Tee | January 24, 2012, 11:06 pm 11:06 pm
According to the article, the mother probably knew it was against the law. She took the boy to get one anyways. I suspect it was her idea. She ruined his chance to be employed with….the military if he decides later to serve. Buy the kid a shirt with all the memorial stuff…. not a lasting mark. He may regret it later in life.
I truely believe the mom did it to prop up her own image.
Posted by: Russell | January 25, 2012, 12:05 am 12:05 am
I think it is sweet that he wanted to get a tattoo of the remembrance of his brother. But at the same time a kid that age should not be getting a tattoo and the mother should not approve of it. I also understand that that’s your child and you are the only one who can make a decision of your child. As a mother personally I would wait until he is up to age to get a tattoo and give him something else to remember his brother by.
Posted by: Shaniqua | January 25, 2012, 12:47 am 12:47 am
The kid was getting a tatto in memorial of his DEAD BROTHER who was ripped from his life. And the mom got put IN JAIL? I bet all the police or judge looked at was “10 year old” and “tattoo”, looked at the mother and judged for themselves. if you ask me, the 10 year old had more sense than all the police involved in this case
Posted by: Daniel | January 25, 2012, 12:53 am 12:53 am
Some of you are real idiots. All this talk about the boy not being able to get a job later in life is BULLSH*T! Do y’all know how many ppl w/ tattoos have jobs? Probably corporate positions, nonetheless. It’s on his freaking arm…ever heard of long sleeves dress shirts? Yeah, those things that most ppl wear to an interview. I’m not saying it was the best decision the mother could’ve made but, it wasn’t the worst either…and it certainly does not doom him to a life of crime like some of you so ‘ignorantly’ pointed out. I dont see the problem here. If the mom gave consent, then no one else should have anything to say in this. It’s just a tattoo..not drugs. No one says jack when the gov’t wants to shove toxic drugs(vaccines) into the veins of minutes old babies…give me a break please w/ this nonsense.
Posted by: Dee | January 25, 2012, 7:44 am 7:44 am
Wha’s wrong with you people? Since when a mother allowing a child to have a tattoo is a sign of bad parenting? What about all the children that don’t get the tattoo but get no attention from their parents? Is that good parenting? Dee, you’re right on! Everyone keeps going and going about a child having permanent marks on his/her body but the tattoo can be removed later on. And there are much more profound and worring marks that can’t be seen and no one seems too care about those. I think that a critical judgement and common sense will give you a free ticket to jail very soon.
Posted by: Kindala Rocha | January 25, 2012, 8:07 am 8:07 am
The reason it is illegal to tattoo a minor is because it can be used as a way of tagging/branding one’s property (Nazi Germany, sex trafficing). Though this was obviously not this mother’s intent, she made an unwise decision.
Posted by: Steph | January 25, 2012, 10:48 am 10:48 am
Laws are made for the stupidest percentage of the population. Preventing tattooing of minors is to prevent someone else from branding them for the rest of their lives. Not the case in this story, but again, laws are for the worst and dumbest of society.
Posted by: Amy | January 25, 2012, 11:40 am 11:40 am
ten year old and tattoo dont mix .what about the person who gave him the tattoo didnt that tat artist should know the age for tattoos. mom said yeah but the artist should of told her no it is against the law but he made a couple hundred for his work
Posted by: marc | January 25, 2012, 9:51 pm 9:51 pm
Grieving mother who lost her oldest (or 1st) child…from experience, NEVER the same…
All attention & focus goes towards remaining children to keep them ending the same or too soon…Psychological alterations
“Mommy, I miss my brother”
“I know you do honey, I miss him too”
“Can i get a tattoo like yours to remember him?”
Commence the spilling of unbiased emotion…………..
Posted by: Realist | January 25, 2012, 9:59 pm 9:59 pm
I am not exactly sure what is wrong with a lot of you people.
1. this has nothing to do with race.. i can’t believe the number of comments about how her race is such a big part of this.
2. ITS HER SON!! i personally am not for a 10 year old getting a tattoo. but a parent has to sign consent forms to see a doctor….a parent has to sign consent forms to go on school field trips…. if they don’t. those things can’t happen. so she gave consent for her child to do something…. WHO CARES!!! WHAT MAKES ANY OF THIS ANY ONE ELSE’S BUSINESS????
3.i haven’t figured out why so many of you are making fun of her name…..or of her kids names…. its not you business what she names her kids. again HER KIDS…. HER CHOICES…
4. some people really need to grow up and get a life. it’s not your life….its not your job to judge…its not your place to say anything….
Everyone has their own way of dealing with things of living their lives… Just because someone’s tattoos and piercing doesn’t mean anything… its just another thing for people to judge others on!!!
Posted by: stefanie | January 27, 2012, 3:42 am 3:42 am
2 all that are saying that ppl w/tattoos can’t get jobs or will end up in jail—i have THREE tattoos & have TWO jobs & have NEVER been in jail…you’re just showing your ignorance…the law that put her in jail is stupid…i think they should’ve overlooked it, it’s 2 remember his brother that was killed…
Posted by: sabrina | January 27, 2012, 9:52 am 9:52 am
Obviously Police Chief Wilkie has not lost a child of his own or a sibling at an early age, because his comments at the end of the piece were extremely callous and devoid of any understanding of the grief that accompanies the loss of young child. I just lost my youngest son this past August, and a gazillion things around the home to remember him by will still never be enough, How in the world can he trivialize the grief this family is still dealing with.
I am not a fan of tattoos, I would not be happy if my sons came home one day sporting one, and in general I do not think it’s wise for someone so young to get one. . I support laws that restrict tattoos until one of is consenting age. Saying that, I think under these particular circumstances, the charges should be dropped. This is not your typical tattoo. It’s very personal and heartfelt. Maybe mom should have tried to stall him getting the tatoo for a few years, but in no way is this worth turning her into a “criminal” over it. I feel for the family.
Posted by: Ellen | January 27, 2012, 3:21 pm 3:21 pm
I love how ignorant certain people in this world can be. No, the kid shouldn’t have gotten a tatto at 10 years old, but if it’s something he wanted for his brother, it won’t be one he regrets. The part that he may regret is that it will distort as he grows and his skin stretches. I know of a tattoo parlor in KC where the owners tattooed their 2 year old’s entire back. I think that THAT is wrong because there’s no way the child asked for that and imagine what that will look like when the kid’s 20. I say that people are ignorant because some of the people commenting on this are discussing how this kid’s going to get into all kinds of trouble with the law just because he has a tattoo. Seriously?! I’m 23, white, female, a preacher’s daughter, attend every church service, have NEVER been in trouble with the law (I’ve never even been pulled over), and I happen to have SEVEN tattoos, two of which are on my neck (a larger one across the back of my neck and one behind my ear). My brother, who has visible tattoos on his arms, has NEVER been in trouble with the law and has a good, good paying job. We’re not what you’re assuming people with tattoos to be. My mom and sister-in-law also have tattoos, have excellent jobs, and have never received so much as a speeding ticket. Don’t make assumptions and generalizations about people when you’re so narrow-minded. To say that he will never have a good job because of his tattoo is sad. I bet those of you who are being so narrow-minded would be truly surprised to find out that some of the “professionals” that you know have tattoos, and a lot of them don’t even have to cover them up at work because there’s not as big of a stigma around tattoos as there used to be. I don’t feel like this mother should be considered a criminal for what happened. I think she should have convinced him to wait until his body had grown so it wouldn’t distort and have to be touched up, but come on guys. Leave them be; they’ve suffered a lot as it is. And really, some of you should stop being so superficial and judgemental!
Posted by: Savannah | January 27, 2012, 11:41 pm 11:41 pm
Love & prayers to this mom & her son. Judging her is not going to change what happened and it was not something she did out of spite or to harm him, but something he asked for to help him mourn & heal from the loss of his brother. Her broken heart was in the right place trying to support her son while she too is still grieving. I lost my eldest son 6 years ago & I have been forever changed and will forever miss him ~ Lets not condemn her for a mistake that more than likely her son will never regret. I dont think she should do jail time, though as it is against the law as always there is a penalty to be paid ~hopefully they will take her circumstances into consideration when giving her that penalty. Lesson learned for her and many others. Lets be kind to others as we never know the cross they bare!! & tattoo’s dont make anyone a bad person, it’s their actions that do!!
Posted by: Joan | January 28, 2012, 1:58 am 1:58 am
I do believe that shouldn’t get tattoos before the age of 18 even with parent consent. I may not agree what she did, but what the tat stands for isn’t bad and the mother shouldn’t have been arrested for it. Now what is making me is upset is a few people in the thread talking about he wont get a job because he is tatted up. I’m a black middle school teacher with tattoos. I have never had any trouble finding a job or getting turned down by a job because of my tattoos. I seen people in many professions who have tattoos and if it is a problem with it there is ways to go about covering them up whether it be clothes or cover up make up. Lets think logically. Also in some cultures children getting tattoos is the norm.
Posted by: Jackie | January 28, 2012, 4:22 pm 4:22 pm
You need a license for a dog or drive a car but nothing to be a “parent.” There’s no substitute for an IQ. This is a clear case of a person who is not qualified to be a parent, giving their child what they want, not what they need. Kids depend on parents to help them learn, grow and develop. It tough they the person they are forced to depend upon, can’t be depended upon.
Posted by: Avery | January 29, 2012, 6:59 pm 6:59 pm
The real crime here is the intrusion into these people’s private life, How dare you arrest someone for something so trivial. Don’t we have more important things to talk about. I think the real story here is a government supporting a police state to take away our rights. What did this women do to deserve going to jail, who did she hurt? Why is a consenting minor asking for and receiving a tattoo to remember his brother from his consenting mother anyone’s business but their own? Look at all the bigotry from ignorant people claiming this women is a bad parent. She could be a great mom, I respect her for respecting her sons choice. Stop attacking peoples liberties, mind your own business, and stop attacking everyone who doesn’t conform to your narrow standards.
Posted by: Tyler | January 29, 2012, 10:32 pm 10:32 pm
I’m not saying that I would allow my child to do this, because I’m not a fan of tatoos, but if his MOTHER consented, why shouldn’t he be able to get a tatoo??? I’m so sick of the government trying to tell parents how to raise their children!! How many children of police officers or politicians turn out perfect anyways???? NONE!!! So what makes them think they know what is right for our children??? Just another example of the government slowly taking away every single freedom we have…….SMH
Posted by: Jennifer | January 29, 2012, 11:06 pm 11:06 pm
Are you kidding me look at the world today not only should his mother beable to give her consint on something like that she should beable to fight for that right as his mother that is something that the state has to much pull over and while yes i do agree that children shouldnt beable to just go and get any kind of body modification at that age but what dose a mother tell her son after he tells her he want something to remember his brother for something that gose untuched for the rest of your life now that would be different if it was something that in 5 years he will regret but he wanted something that i dont think he will ever regret and for the people that inforce such a law that will not alow a mother to raise her son in a fashion that is her own you are wrong we all make mistakes and i am sure that more people are getting away with things that you should be realy on top of not something like this yall are putting someone threw hell for her son to remember her dead son and his brother i wish all kids could look at things the way this child did he was willing to go threw a little pain compared to what his brother went there to remember him wth
Posted by: meredith smith | January 30, 2012, 11:35 pm 11:35 pm
In my opinion, the police definitely overreacted and were racist to a certain extent. The family lives in GA, which is located in the “Bible Belt.” The one who composed the law was most likely a Christian conservative who believed that “one’s body is the tmeple of God”, which is what most Christians believe. The memory of having your brother die in your presence leads to trauma and excruciating emotional pain. One should not be severly punished for wanting a simple rememberence of his/her dearest family member. Why is it that people who commit harsher crimes merely get a slap on the wrist? Authorities should be focused on greater crimes than acting on those who commit an unlawful act he/she was unaware of. My personal beliefs say the mother was wrong in giving his ten-year-old the consent to get a tattoo because a child doesn’t know the future repercussions of the act. Nevertheless, the consequence was blown way out of proportion.
Posted by: Sarai | January 31, 2012, 12:53 pm 12:53 pm
You assume because Chuntera is black, with dreads, and a neck tattoo that she is on welfare. It’s easy to judge people based on their looks, but until you know someone or have more information that tells you that she is “living on the system” shut your traps.
What I find amazing is that the story says… “The tragedy of this is that the child’s tattoos are some sort of memorial to a sibling who was lost in a car accident a few years ago. I understand from the investigators that there are several memorial to the deceased child in the apartment where they live. It may be that professional or religious counseling for their/her grief would be more helpful than anything.”
…Who can tell anyone how to grieve or celebrate the life of someone they’ve lost?? What the news and media fail to mention is that both her living boys watched their 12 yr old brother Malik die because a 19 yr old girl was driving/texting and hit & killed Malik. The girl was never charged with any crime or did any jail time for taking Malik’s life. Granted it was an *accident* but she made a careless decision to text & drive taking the life of MALIK a child. Chuntera may have made a *poor* choice in many peoples eyes for taking her 10 yr old son to get a memorial tattoo, but only God can judge her in the end. After spending time & getting to know this amazing woman even before all of the recent events I know that no matter what others think about her she’s praying for all of them.
Posted by: Tasha Black | February 1, 2012, 10:51 am 10:51 am
@ Chantelle>>> “It is pretty amazing though how well people stereotype a picture. The paper does not state what income bracket the woman is in, doesn’t state her address her social security number her employer, her police record if she even has one, but so many are ae under the assumption this must be a poor woman…I must say reading all your comments makes me realize what I already knew to be true, White people still think less of Black people and that our government has done a very good job of separating Black people as a whole. Black people that feel they are not poor and on welfare think less of Black people that are, not realizing white people don’t like your black azz either….This article isn’t really all about a 10 year old getting a tatto cause at the end of the day who the hell really cares he is not your son it’s about dividing and separating people. When are we going to stop that madness????”
I agreed with the first part of your statement but I disagree with the last part. Being a white female myself with 80% of my friends that are black. I’m not classified as “ghetto” and I have a respectable office job, I don’t think any less or more about ANYONE based on what they have or what they don’t have. I actually like to get to know people before I make a decision if they are worthy of my time regardless if that person may be yellow, red, or blue. I’ve never let society tell me that I shouldn’t associate with someone based on race, income level, or sexual preference.
Posted by: Tasha Black | February 1, 2012, 11:19 am 11:19 am
All of you ignoratnt people posting comments about how anyone who has a tattoo is automatically going to be a criminal should really take the time to get to know someone before you judge them based on their appearance. I have eight piercings (four of which are on my face) and two tattoos and at the same time I am going to college for business management so I can own my own business someday and I also have two jobs. I am NOT in a gang. I have NOT committed any crimes EVER. I am NOT a deliquent or criminal of any kind. I DON’T do drugs. None of those things are true and it is WRONG that people think that someone would be involved in all of those types of things simply becaue they look a little different than someone else. If someone chooses to wear a ceritan color shirt should it be assumed they are a criminal? Because of how they decorate themselves? A piercing or tattoo is no different. Society makes me sick. I have tattoos and piercings and I consider myself a very polite and kind person and most of the people I know who have tattoos and piercings are much nicer people than many of the ones I know who have no tattoos or piercings. It is what is on the inside that is importatn. Judge a person on their character not their choice or personal decoration. People need to open their eyes and take a look at how the way they judge other people is affecting our society. I heard about a girl who was beaten to death for dressing “goth”. That makes me sick. Just sick. It is people like that who harm others for looking different that are ruinig our society. NOT people with piercings or tattoos.
Posted by: Robert | February 6, 2012, 12:43 pm 12:43 pm
Also who cares if he gets a tattoo when he is 10 or 18? What difference does it make? He is obviously very mature for his age if he wants to get a serious tattoo in remembrance of his brother. LIke his mom said its not like he wanted Sponge Bob or anything like that. I think his mom whas right to let him get it and I think it is wrong that she was arrested. Most tattoo places say you must be 18 without parents consent so how whas she to know. The police where most likley biased. I would bet money none of the officers involved had a tattoo. They should leave the poor family alone.
Posted by: Robert | February 6, 2012, 12:49 pm 12:49 pm
The mother was arrested and charged with “misdemeanor cruelty” and “being a party to a crime”.
They need more prisoners to increase profits of the Commercial-Incarceration Complex Industry. And they are likely to take her kids away, too. This provides more “business” for the for-pay “child-care” industry. And also for the so-called “mental health” professionals, who will bill for their “services” in treating the “traumatized” children. And media makes money on headlines, too. And the prosecutor has another scalp for his belt – “protecting the children”. See, “If we can just save one child…”
It’s all about money, folks. And trumped-up “child abuse” charges. Wake up, sheeple! The taxpayer is being shorn! And lives are being ruined…
Posted by: Arti | February 7, 2012, 9:42 am 9:42 am
This is so strange, why would they do that to the poor mother? The child will have lost both his mother and his older sibling. But one thing, this isnt related, why do they ALL three have the same hair? I find that adorable.
Posted by: Ellie | February 11, 2012, 6:31 pm 6:31 pm
I think if the mom signs for it, he should be able to get one.
But the thing is why would you let him get one at that age? When he gets a little bigger that tattoo is going to Expand and look ugly !
Why would the mom and kid get in trouble for doing it and not the tattoo artist ?
But i do think they should be able to get one if the parent signs but i would’t let my kid untill he / she gets a little older .
Posted by: Gage H | February 15, 2012, 9:59 am 9:59 am
i think its stupid that they would lock somebody up for that! i mean yea its stupid to let a kid of that age to get a tattoo, but his mom signed for it so it should be all good.
Posted by: Krystal Scott | February 15, 2012, 10:07 am 10:07 am
The mother should of told her child to get a t-shirt of a name tag, plate something like that, especally if the law dont agree with iit. I dont think it is a crime because its her child. There is to much murder and abuse crime in the world for that little crime. should the mother gotten lockd up? No but she she got fine yes. the reason for that is for its aganist the law.
Posted by: Roneka | February 15, 2012, 8:37 pm 8:37 pm
I beileve that the child is way tooyoung to be getting a tattoo.The tattoo artist should be the one in trouble because a professional knows the laws and the law states the child has to be atleast the age of eighteen, which clearly its obvious the child is not of age. I agree with Roneka because she says that the mother should of got the son a t-shirt stating the memory of his brother, thats the legal thing to do.
Posted by: Tyra Crain | February 16, 2012, 12:46 am 12:46 am
She should have been left off with a warning at first, but as I read on I seen that she was denied by a tattoo shop saying that she couldn’t do that. So, thats her fault for going somewhere else and getting the tattoo. She knew she wasn’t supposed to do that if she obviously got denied the first time.
Posted by: Yarbrough26 | February 16, 2012, 9:14 am 9:14 am
@ Krystal Scott: Yeah, a t-shirt would’ve been better. I mean, I wouldn’t want my 10 year old child walking around with a tattoo. It makes the parent and child look bad.
Posted by: Yarbrough26 | February 16, 2012, 9:17 am 9:17 am