Hyperacusis Diary: A Day in NYC When Every Sound Is Painful

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By JOYCE COHEN

Writer Joyce Cohen and her husband Ben live in New York City, one of the noisiest cities in the world. But loud sounds are torture to them, because they suffer from hyperacusis, a condition that causes terrible and often unbearable pain in the ear. To cope with the noise, Cohen wears industrial-size earmuffs, and her husband can barely leave their small apartment. Cohen described what a typical day in the city is like for her.

The usually-quiet cat is meowing. Those high-pitched meows once felt like needles piercing my eardrums. Maybe she's sad because she so rarely gets to play with her favorite toy, a rattly pink ball. She likes the rattle, but I don't.

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Roof construction has been antagonizing the neighborhood all week. I walk in the other direction.

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The beeps and bangs penetrate our double-paned soundproof windows, but in the bedroom the noise is dulled to a tolerable level by an acoustical quilt.

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Snack time! At 16 Handles, the frozen yogurt place, the music is always unbearably loud, but they turn it down when I ask.

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Fortified, I head to Trader Joe's. This saxophone player is often on the sidewalk. I feel like a horrible curmudgeon for complaining about street musicians! I proffer a guilt donation and rush inside.

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Trader Joe's has a funicular-like contraption to move shopping carts between floors. It squeaks! The checkout line is endless. I leave, because I can't stand the bell that summons the staff.

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Instead, I go to Fairway, a few blocks away. The checkout beeps are inescapable but tolerable.

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I pass two police cars and keep my distance. The New York Police Department has unveiled the Rumbler siren, with a special low frequency designed to penetrate your bones and damage your ears.

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I come home with lemon ices, which soften after a few seconds in the microwave. We open the door before the timer ticks down, lest we be forced to endure five maddeningly unnecessary beeps.

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My husband, Ben, likes to eat icy things because they soothe his ears. It's odd that he feels the cold in his ears as much as in his throat. We'll never find out why, but something deep inside is seriously wrong.

For more information about hyperacusis:

hyperacusisresearch.org - Nonprofit dedicated to stopping noise-induced pain.

hyperacusis.net - General information about hyperacusis and sound sensitivity.

hyperacusisearpain.com - Web forum for severe cases of hyperacusis and noise-induced pain.

facebook.com/groups/2414964219/ - "Hyperacusis Sufferers" Facebook group for chat and support.