After fourteen months of trying to get pregnant, I finally made an appointment with the doctor. We discussed my health, my history and an action plan was made. I was prescribed the medication Clomid, which is used to stimulate ovulation. Clomid is a very strong drug, and you can only take it for a few months.
I took the medication and followed my doctor’s orders religiously for a few months, only to get a big fat negative on pregnancy tests. Luckily, the month that I was allowed to take the medication, I found out that I was pregnant. After about twenty or so months, I was going to be a mom.
At four weeks into my pregnancy, the nausea began. Everyone told me that this was normal. I was experiencing “morning sickness“. I was given tips and tricks by everyone I knew. I drank 7-up, I ate crackers, I took TUMS, but the vomit continued. The “morning sickness” that I was experiencing turned into day, afternoon, night, and early morning sickness.
During all of these symptoms, I managed to make it to work. I worked shift work which consists of a 10-plus hour long day, and at least a two hour commute home. I’m not sure how I even did it, really. I remember pulling over on the freeway several times, just to vomit. I remember carrying plastic bags with me, in case I got sick. I spent a ton of time lying on the bathroom floor.
At one point in my pregnancy, I vomited so much in one day that I knew that it was time to go to the hospital. I was diagnosed as “extremely dehydrated” and was given medication for my nausea and an IV for several hours; I had tried to take oral medications for my nausea prior, but they did not work. While I was at the hospital, the doctor mentioned “Hyperemesis Gravidarum”. I had never heard this term prior to the doctor telling me about it. After checking out of the hospital, I went home and researched it on the Internet.
I was shocked when I read this information. Everyone kept telling me that the “morning sickness” would be over soon. After reading about Hyperemesis, I went into a state of depression. I knew that this vomiting and sickness would probably not be over, until I had a baby in my arms. I felt like this roller coaster of pregnancy was never going to end.
Just when I thought that the Hyperemesis was the worst part of my pregnancy, I was wrong. At 32 weeks pregnant, I had a gall bladder attack in the middle of the night. After a weekend in the hospital, I was told that I had gallstones, possibly caused by the Hyperemesis, and that I would have to have surgery, as soon as my baby was born.
At 36 weeks, I had a second gallbladder attack, while at work. I knew that I was not going to go home that night. After checking into the hospital, I was given medication for my severe pain. The next morning, I delivered my son via c-section, as he was breech. He ended up spending 6 days in the NICU for breathing issues. A few days after delivering my son, I had a procedure to remove the gallstones. And the day after my gallstones were removed, I had gallbladder surgery.
I constantly get asked if I’m going to have a second child. After telling this story, most people understand. Statistics show that woman who experience Hyperemesis with one pregnancy have over a 50% chance of having it with a second pregnancy. I just can’t do that a second time.
As of today, I have a healthy 6-year old son. Every time I hear someone talk about their morning sickness, I almost get post traumatic syndrome. I have friends whom have also had Hyperemesis. We have a little sisterhood of women, who get it. I wish I had these women in my life when I was pregnant.
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