Dec 1, 2011 5:14pm

Cain Says He Will Quit Race If Wife Asks Him To

MANCHESTER, N.H. – An embattled Herman Cain admitted Thursday that his wife did not know about his friendship with Ginger White, the woman who has claimed to have engaged in a long-term affair with the presidential candidate, nor did he tell his wife about the financial assistance he offered  White, and he is prepared to quit the race if his wife asks him to,  according to the New Hampshire Union Leader and CSPAN.

In an hour-long interview with the New Hampshire Union Leader’s editorial board, Cain acknowledged that he’d helped White with “month-to-month bills and expenses” and that his wife, Gloria, “did not know that we were friends until she [White] came out with this story.”

The presidential candidate said his wife “is comfortable with the explanation that I told her.”  Cain has yet to discuss the allegations, which arose Monday, with his wife in person but plans to do so Friday when he returns to Georgia.

Cain told the editorial board White had sent him about 70 text messages asking for financial assistance over a nearly four-week period between Oct. 22 and Nov. 18.

“She wasn’t the only friend who I had helped in these tough economic times, and so her messages to me were relating to ‘need money for rent’ or whatever the case may be. I don’t remember all the specifics,” Cain said in the interview.

Cain said White claimed to be out of a job and was unable to obtain financial assistance from her family, telling him “that quite frankly, I was the only person who was a friend at the time – and I underscore ‘friend’ – that was in a position to help her.

“I’m a soft-hearted person when it comes to that stuff. I have helped members of my church. I have helped members of my family. And I know a lot of other people who had done the same thing. Sometimes it was, quite frankly, desperation,” Cain said.

Cain, who said he sent White 17 text messages, some questioning her efforts to look for employment, admitted to providing financial assistance to White but did not detail an exact amount, per advice of counsel.

Cain emphasized that he gave her money voluntarily and that White did not threaten or blackmail him.

“No threats, no. There wasn’t any indication that there would be some blackmail or anything,” he told the editorial board. “Look, I thought she was a friend. End of story.”

Cain is currently conducting a “reassessment” of his campaign, during which he will consider strategy, fundraising, supporters and his family before deciding whether or not to continue in the presidential race.  He told reporters that “getting out [of the race] is an option” and that a decision on his “reassessment” will come by “next week.”

Asked if he would drop out of the race if his wife asked him to, Cain said he would.

“But my wife wouldn’t ask me to get out,” he added. “She’s not the type to say, ‘You ought to get out.’”

Cain was originally scheduled to be interviewed by the Union Leader’ board last month but canceled the meeting when the paper refused to shorten the interview from 60 to 20 minutes.  Earlier this week, the Union Leader bestowed its coveted endorsement upon former House Speaker Newt Gingrich.

ABC News’ Amy Bingham contributed to this report.

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Any husband who financially “helped out” a woman unknown to his wife for 13 years is on WAY too long leash. Heel Herman.

Posted by: green.goddess | December 1, 2011, 5:32 pm 5:32 pm

He’s out. He’s using the wife as an excuse, when he is just dead in the water.

Posted by: Michael | December 1, 2011, 5:45 pm 5:45 pm

Mrs Cain is not first lady material. . . On the other hand, having Herman Cain as the Republican candidate could really make a difference to the state of this country. A true wake up call for the party.

Posted by: newsraker | December 1, 2011, 5:50 pm 5:50 pm

“…Gloria, “did not know that we were friends until she [White] came out with this story. Nor did he tell his wife about the financial assistance he offered White”

GLORIA!!! giiiiirrrl!!! Now you KNOW its “lights out! goodnight!” time for Reverend Cain!!!

Posted by: MyTakeOnThis61 | December 1, 2011, 7:21 pm 7:21 pm

I think she should ask him to stop fooling around!!!!

Posted by: Joann Cosgrove | December 1, 2011, 8:04 pm 8:04 pm

If my husband had given another woman money and I didnt know about it, then the next thing my soon-to-be EX-HUSBAND would be given me is alimony!!!

Posted by: Tyana Cartwright | December 1, 2011, 11:56 pm 11:56 pm

The man said – “Honey, when I become the President of the United States of America, YOU’ll become the First Lady and WE’ll become the First couple and OUR FAMILY will become the First Family and what else matters?” and the woman replied – “Oh yeah – how wonderful. Keep on doing whatever you are doing – Honey”.

Posted by: Get_Down | December 2, 2011, 12:10 am 12:10 am

He’ll quit if his wife asks him to do so. What if she refuses to speak to him at all? Hahahaha! I’ve said it before, and I will said it again, I do not like Herman Cain, but something is rotten about this revelation. Why now? I think he is terribly awful, but this turn of events is just too convenient for his opponents.

Posted by: Erlinda | December 2, 2011, 12:11 am 12:11 am

“Why now? ”

Why now? Because he dumped her to run for president just a couple of months ago. It’s not brain surgery people.

Posted by: Etymolo Gist | December 2, 2011, 1:33 am 1:33 am

A cad uses his wife as the heavy in such a situation. This is the most disgusting thing he’s done in my opinion.

Posted by: lexingtonlady | December 2, 2011, 2:26 am 2:26 am

The only thing she needs to ask him to do is give her a divorce!!

Posted by: Kris Richard | December 2, 2011, 3:30 am 3:30 am

cain cheated on his wife pure and simple. anytime money is taken from the wife and family secretively, that alone is cheating. not much of a leap to believing cain had sexual relations with her and probably the others. cain has to come clean by taking the lie detector test he once offered to take not long ago. at this point, on this one item alone, cain’s wife should file for divorce because cain has disrespected her and his children. if his wife were your sister, cousin, who wouldn’t recommend she divorce his cheating behind? cain has lied to his wife for 13 years, held secrets from her, withheld money from her. some husband.

Posted by: david | December 2, 2011, 4:43 am 4:43 am

Cain’s fifteen minutes of fame is all but over. So long for that 9-9-9 crap.Time to go eating frozen pizza, buddy. Just thinking: what if in the wake of these allegations his wife asks for walking papers? Cain has been a philanthropist to this woman for thirteen years without his wife’s knowledge.

Posted by: NoFlyZone2 | December 2, 2011, 5:48 am 5:48 am

@ABCNEWS.COM___”Cain told the editorial board White had sent him about 70 text messages asking for financial assistance over a nearly four-week period between Oct. 22 and Nov. 18.”_____________So why didn’tCain tell her to go and get a job, just like he thinks people who have been hit hard by the economy ought to do. Instead, he is so generous to shower this woman with financial favors. What a hypocrite.

Posted by: NoFlyZone2 | December 2, 2011, 5:57 am 5:57 am

@ ABCNEWS.COM____”Cain, who said he sent White 17 text messages, some questioning her efforts to look for employment, admitted to providing financial assistance to White but did not detail an exact amount, per advice of counsel.”________________How in the world are you going to send someone 17 text messages about getting a job? Once is enough. If the free loader comes back for more money, you simply say, NO MORE! It’s no brainer, Cain was paying this woman for sex. He had to keep the affair going for as long as he could. Money was the only means.

Posted by: NoFlyZone2 | December 2, 2011, 6:05 am 6:05 am

Dear Herman ,
You really want to be President ?? how can anyone trust you Herman , secret money to another woman for the last 13 years………….. is this just the tip of the iceberg or do you have more bodies in the closet …………… no one will remember you as the Pizza man but they will remember you as a LIAR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! don’t use Gloria as an excuse to quit just quit and do us all a favor .

Posted by: Raoul | December 2, 2011, 7:16 am 7:16 am

Cain has compromised his relationship with his wife by giving another woman money and his time without his wife’s knowledge, most would call it BETRAYAL. I agree with David, by doing this secretly behind his wife’s back, there is more to this than he is saying or else why wouldn’t he tell his wife he is helping someone. His wife should smell the rat that he is, divorce him.

Posted by: Indymind | December 2, 2011, 7:22 am 7:22 am

Both of them should just SHOW THE TEXTS. Was she trying to blackmail, was she a stalker or his lover? Can’t answer that without more information and the texts would help. If Cain has nothing to hide he can start first and I agree take a polygraph.

Posted by: IndyRose | December 2, 2011, 8:13 am 8:13 am

THOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY NOR SODOMY and you shall not tell lies either, PERIOD (The Holy Bible).

If you commit either of these sins, you will end up in deep **** FOR SURE!

Posted by: anontdh | December 3, 2011, 11:48 pm 11:48 pm

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