Jan 10, 2012 1:54pm

Gibbs Shares ‘Regret’ for Explosive Michelle Obama Spat

Former White House Press Secretary Robert Gibbs said he regrets losing his cool during an explosive 2010 White House staff meeting, in which he reportedly shouted profanities about the first lady.

Gibbs downplayed the blowup, reported in a new book by New York Times correspondent Jodi Kantor, saying in a written statement today, “in any high-pressure work environment there are occasional arguments and disagreements and that is certainly true of the White House. I regret speaking in anger and regret that this disagreement became so public.”

The incident followed reports that Michelle Obama had told French first lady Carla Bruni-Sarkozy that life in the White House was “hell.” Gibbs spent the morning of Sept. 16, 2010, crafting a response and denying the reports, which the first lady confirmed to be false.

The next morning, however, Senior Adviser Valerie Jarrett announced at a staff meeting that the first lady was “dissatisfied” with the way the White House had handled the situation, according to Kantor.

Gibbs reportedly exploded at Jarrett, cursing and using the “F” word to unleash his frustrations with the first lady.

“Like any colleagues, we’ve shared some laughs and we’ve shared some words over the years,” Jarrett said in a statement. “But we have always worked through any disagreements out of mutual respect and in our shared commitment now and in the future to President Obama.”

Going forward, Gibbs said such tense moments “pale in comparison to the important issues facing our country and will not overshadow the vital work Valerie and I will do together as part of a team in 2012.”

Overall, the White House has branded Kantor’s “The Obamas” as overhyped. “Books like these generally over-sensationalize things,” White House Press Secretary Jay Carney told reporters Monday.

“These are high-pressure jobs. There’s always a lot at stake. And the commitment the people show to the president, to the first lady, and to the causes that brought them here is fierce. And sometimes that intensity leads people to raise their voices or have sharp exchanges.

“But the overall picture is one of remarkable collegiality and a genuine focus,” Carney noted. “This is a remarkably harmonious place, given everything that’s at stake and the enormity of the issues that are discussed and debated here every day.”

User Comments

Big deal . . .

Posted by: Jerry | January 10, 2012, 2:16 pm 2:16 pm

“whoever” is making a big deal of nothing out of this. Most people have cursed their bosses aloud or even under their breaths. That happened yesterday, today, and more than likely will happen again tomorrow.

Posted by: MyTakeOnThis61 | January 10, 2012, 2:46 pm 2:46 pm

Your not suppose to tell the truth when you in the WH. Michelle didn’t want to go there and I agree with her, her husband should have never moved in either. He is just a talking head.

Posted by: Freedom | January 10, 2012, 2:50 pm 2:50 pm

“This is a remarkably harmonious place, given everything that’s at stake and the enormity of the issues that are discussed and debated here every day.”

Africa, Spain, Martha’s Vineyard, or Hawaii? Oh, the enormity of it all! Sigh.

Posted by: wheresmymoney | January 10, 2012, 3:53 pm 3:53 pm

“This is a remarkably harmonious place, given everything that’s at stake and the enormity of the issues that are discussed and debated here every day.”

Africa, Spain, Martha’s Vineyard, or Hawaii? Oh, the enormity of it all! Sigh.

Posted by: wheresmymoney | January 10, 2012, 3:53 pm 3:53 pm

Aren’t you the one who was claiming Obama shamed the country by not mentioning the anniversary of Pearl Harbor, and then you also attacked the media for being Obama stooges for not holding him to task on that – when in truth Obama DID directly address Pearl Harbor on the anniversary and it was covered by virtually all media?

Oh the enormity of it all! Sigh.

Posted by: James | January 10, 2012, 4:37 pm 4:37 pm

Michelle said life in the White House was hell? Maybe that explains the overseas jaunts.

Posted by: newcountryman | January 10, 2012, 4:49 pm 4:49 pm

It’s just so weird that paid administration officials should have to deal with the President’s spouse.

Posted by: MayBee | January 10, 2012, 6:29 pm 6:29 pm

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